emusmithy:
Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Women.

Ironical it's coming from a guy. Yeah.
Heard too many brag on their 'right' on their being the Head and all.
When these set of guys find a truly self-confident woman, they put their self-defense mask on and go all, "she's too full of herself..."
They want a submissive lady who pretend to be what she's not and later it backfires...They want a submissive lady for the wrong reasons. See some of them below:

1. They are plain egoistic.

If he's got ego in him, that "beast" will once in a while need to feed on some blood. It sure will be yours.
He needs you to bow and say, 'Yes Sir" as he does this. What a life! You're doubtlessly married to a dummy!

2. They're plain ill-trained.

The truth is, men who take want submissive girls often have wrong motives. They say, "I'm hot, she should be humble...to take my shyytes". For the most part, this was passed on from their roots. They were taught that way; either at home or in church that women are kinda inferior. This is wrong and abysmal! It's erroneous and degrading! Women are help-meets, not housemaids.


3. They're plain selfish.

He wants a submissive lady because he is only considering his own self/ 'temperament'. She's got weaknesses too and she wants you to understand when she's being extra loud also.

4. They're plain lazy

"Marriage is hard work and getting a humble lady makes it easy", he says. He doesn't want stress. The girl who poses to be humble before marriage might end up breaking your heart in marriage. Go for a Real Lady who isn't sorry for being herself always.


5. They're plain autocratic

Some men are naturally power-freak. They hold on the Bible passage that says, "Wife, submit to your husbands..." They ignore the part that says, "Men, do not be BITTER against your wives or Men love your wives."
Bitter o? Don't be mad at her. They are not only bitter; they're also wife beaters. Smh!

6. They're plain ignorant

For those guys seeking 'humble' girls who are like 'humble pies in the sky', it's complete ignorance. The fact is: No woman is humble for nothing. Don't let her calling you "Sir" today fool you into thinking she's humble. You might be wrong. Selah!


7. They're plain unwise

I believe it's wise to like a lady for who she is than who she decorates herself to be. With the increase in rate of single ladies from 27-35, they can even "wash your feet" just to bear your name.
It's thereby silly to judge a wife material by mere display of cheap humility.

Tgif! Happy Independence in advance, Nigerians!

emusmithy:
Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Women.

Ironical it's coming from a guy. Yeah.
Heard too many brag on their 'right' on their being the Head and all.
When these set of guys find a truly self-confident woman, they put their self-defense mask on and go all, "she's too full of herself..."
They want a submissive lady who pretend to be what she's not and later it backfires...They want a submissive lady for the wrong reasons. See some of them below:

1. They are plain egoistic.

If he's got ego in him, that "beast" will once in a while need to feed on some blood. It sure will be yours.
He needs you to bow and say, 'Yes Sir" as he does this. What a life! You're doubtlessly married to a dummy!

2. They're plain ill-trained.

The truth is, men who take want submissive girls often have wrong motives. They say, "I'm hot, she should be humble...to take my shyytes". For the most part, this was passed on from their roots. They were taught that way; either at home or in church that women are kinda inferior. This is wrong and abysmal! It's erroneous and degrading! Women are help-meets, not housemaids.


3. They're plain selfish.

He wants a submissive lady because he is only considering his own self/ 'temperament'. She's got weaknesses too and she wants you to understand when she's being extra loud also.

4. They're plain lazy

"Marriage is hard work and getting a humble lady makes it easy", he says. He doesn't want stress. The girl who poses to be humble before marriage might end up breaking your heart in marriage. Go for a Real Lady who isn't sorry for being herself always.


5. They're plain autocratic

Some men are naturally power-freak. They hold on the Bible passage that says, "Wife, submit to your husbands..." They ignore the part that says, "Men, do not be BITTER against your wives or Men love your wives."
Bitter o? Don't be mad at her. They are not only bitter; they're also wife beaters. Smh!

6. They're plain ignorant

For those guys seeking 'humble' girls who are like 'humble pies in the sky', it's complete ignorance. The fact is: No woman is humble for nothing. Don't let her calling you "Sir" today fool you into thinking she's humble. You might be wrong. Selah!


7. They're plain unwise

I believe it's wise to like a lady for who she is than who she decorates herself to be. With the increase in rate of single ladies from 27-35, they can even "wash your feet" just to bear your name.
It's thereby silly to judge a wife material by mere display of cheap humility.

Tgif! Happy Independence in advance, Nigerians!

ElsonMorali:
pointless.

Diddyydiva:
No love no submission

Jokerman:
Abraham was none of that, and his wife was yet submissive. ...

Miladi:
@OP, submission is different from servitude. There's no evil in a man expecting an earned submission from his wife. A sane and virtuous woman can never denies his altruistic man his well deserved submission. It takes a responsible man to be altruistic.

Ignorance of law excuses no one. All you wrote up there are balderdash (no insult intended towards your person). Your choice of word is what made it a balderdash. There's nothing wrong with anyone be it man or woman, but more importantly a man, expecting submission from his wife. The only problem is when a man fails to differentiate submission from servitude, just as you have done here.

Now to the points you raised, I concur that it's only petty, egomaniacal, predacious, domineering men with inferiority complex that demands and expects servitude from their women. They are dictatorial and abhors reason, and denies their women right to exercise their freewill. Even in a circumstance of a decision that would spell doom for them, they had rather live up to a stupid idea just for ego sake, rather than to accept a superior fact from their women.

They are not proponents and practitioners of primus inter pares, rather they are for master-slavery relationship.

Also, they don't believe in reciprocation. They expects their women to swallow any form of abuses they meted against them and top it up by worshipping them too. They do no evil.

Submission is good and absolutely mandatory to achieve and sustain a healthy and happy union. But of course, it can't exist on its own; altruism from the man (who's the natural head of the family) must come into been first, before submission from a wife would be expected - organism cannot exist without a cell.

emusmithy:

Hey Grammarian;
I never said there was something wrong with expecting a your wife to be submissive.
Some men, like you stated from your third paragraph or so, do so for the wrong reasons.

Which you concurred to, which is "Bangladesh" again?

Berbierklaus:

God bless you for seeing beyond the hypocritic use of bible to defend some men's greed and abuse of power


Will modify after I get back from early morning cry.

Lalasticlala,you should do the needful to this wonderful piece

Berbierklaus:

God bless you for seeing beyond the hypocritic use of bible to defend some men's greed and abuse of power


Will modify after I get back from early morning cry.

Lalasticlala,you should do the needful to this wonderful piece

Miladi:
@OP, submission is different from servitude. There's no evil in a man expecting an earned submission from his wife. A sane and virtuous woman can never denies his altruistic man his well deserved submission. It takes a responsible man to be altruistic.

Ignorance of law excuses no one. All you wrote up there are balderdash (no insult intended towards your person). Your choice of subject word is what made it a balderdash. There's nothing wrong with anyone be it man or woman, but more importantly a man, expecting submission from his wife. The only problem is when a man fails to differentiate submission from servitude, just as you have done here.

Now to the points you raised, I concur that it's only petty, egomaniacal, predacious, domineering men with inferiority complex that demands and expects servitude from their women. They are dictatorial and abhors reason, and denies their women right to exercise their freewill. Even in a circumstance of a decision that would spell doom for them, they had rather live up to a stupid idea just for ego sake, rather than to accept a superior fact from their women.

They are not proponents and practitioners of primus inter pares, rather they are for master-slavery relationship. Also, they don't believe in reciprocation; they expects their women to swallow any form of abuses they meted against them and top it up by worshipping them too. They do no evil.

Submission is good and absolutely mandatory to achieve and sustain a healthy and happy union. But of course, it can't exist on its own; altruism from the man (who's the natural head of the family) must come into been first, before submission from a wife would be expected - organism cannot exist without a membrane.

emusmithy:
Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Women.

Ironical it's coming from a guy. Yeah.
Heard too many brag on their 'right' on their being the Head and all.
When these set of guys find a truly self-confident woman, they put their self-defense mask on and go all, "she's too full of herself..."
They want a submissive lady who pretend to be what she's not and later it backfires...They want a submissive lady for the wrong reasons. See some of them below:

1. They are plain egoistic.

If he's got ego in him, that "beast" will once in a while need to feed on some blood. It sure will be yours.
He needs you to bow and say, 'Yes Sir" as he does this. What a life! You're doubtlessly married to a dummy!

2. They're plain ill-trained.

The truth is, men who take want submissive girls often have wrong motives. They say, "I'm hot, she should be humble...to take my shyytes". For the most part, this was passed on from their roots. They were taught that way; either at home or in church that women are kinda inferior. This is wrong and abysmal! It's erroneous and degrading! Women are help-meets, not housemaids.


3. They're plain selfish.

He wants a submissive lady because he is only considering his own self/ 'temperament'. She's got weaknesses too and she wants you to understand when she's being extra loud also.

4. They're plain lazy

"Marriage is hard work and getting a humble lady makes it easy", he says. He doesn't want stress. The girl who poses to be humble before marriage might end up breaking your heart in marriage. Go for a Real Lady who isn't sorry for being herself always.


5. They're plain autocratic

Some men are naturally power-freak. They hold on the Bible passage that says, "Wife, submit to your husbands..." They ignore the part that says, "Men, do not be BITTER against your wives or Men love your wives."
Bitter o? Don't be mad at her. They are not only bitter; they're also wife beaters. Smh!

6. They're plain ignorant

For those guys seeking 'humble' girls who are like 'humble pies in the sky', it's complete ignorance. The fact is: No woman is humble for nothing. Don't let her calling you "Sir" today fool you into thinking she's humble. You might be wrong. Selah!


7. They're plain unwise

I believe it's wise to like a lady for who she is than who she decorates herself to be. With the increase in rate of single ladies from 27-35, they can even "wash your feet" just to bear your name.
It's thereby silly to judge a wife material by mere display of cheap humility.

Tgif! Happy Independence in advance, Nigerians!

emusmithy:

What do you know about Abraham?
Abraham listened to his wife every advice.

He didn't want Hagar because he loved Sarah so much but she made him go into Hagar.
Issues came up, she still made him chase her away.
He didn't think of a second wife when Sarah's womb was shu o.

That explains why she called him, Lord.
Why she agreed to lie to save his life, by calling him her brother.
It's reciprocal, in many cases o.

Miladi:
@OP, submission is different from servitude. There's no evil in a man expecting an earned submission from his wife. A sane and virtuous woman can never denies his altruistic man his well deserved submission. It takes a responsible man to be altruistic.

Ignorance of law excuses no one. All you wrote up there are balderdash (no insult intended towards your person). Your choice of subject word is what made it a balderdash. There's nothing wrong with anyone be it man or woman, but more importantly a man, expecting submission from his wife. The only problem is when a man fails to differentiate submission from servitude, just as you have done here.

[b]Petty men are different from real/altruistic men. Now to the points you raised, I concur. But those attributes are the hallmarks of petty men; they are egomaniacal, predacious and domineering. They have inferiority complex, thus they demands and expects servitude from their women instead of exhibiting strong characters that would earn them their wives submission/respect. They are dictatorial and abhors reason, and denies their women right to exercise their freewill. Even in a circumstance of a decision that would spell doom for them, they had rather live up to a stupid idea just for ego sake, rather than to accept a superior fact from their women.

They are not proponents and practitioners of primus inter pares, rather they are for master-slavery relationship. Also, they don't believe in reciprocation; they expects their women to swallow any form of abuses they meted against them and top it up by worshipping them too. They do no evil.

Submission is good and absolutely mandatory to achieve and sustain a healthy and happy union. But of course, it can't exist on its own; altruism from the man (who's the natural head of the family) must come into been first, before submission from a wife would be expected - organism cannot exist without a membrane.[/b]

cc Elsonmorali,is it that you are blind or choose to be blind @ the bolded or you probably didn't get my view from toks2008's thread?
I am not disputing submission,but no man has exclusive right to 'demand' for it.... They can only 'earn' it .

Berbierklaus:

cc Elsonmorali,is it that you are blind or choose to be blind @ the bolded or you probably didn't get my view frok toks2008's thread?
I am not disputing submission,but no man has exclusive right to 'demand' for it.... They can only 'earn' it .[/b][/i]

ElsonMorali:


I think our paths are eventually converging gradually. I agree with you to an extent.

But here's where you err. Your husband has an exclusive right to your submission just as you have an exclusive undeniable right to his love and affection.

If your husband has to earn your submission then he should pay for it with unconditional love and affection. I made that clear in the other tread. Guess you didn't read that.

I could borrow you my pair of glasses though...

Submission is earned


I know you use glasses please use it more often

Berbierklaus:

Submission is earned


I know you use glasses please use it more often

emusmithy:
That's not the point.
This thread is not promoting rudeness.
It's only exposing the reason some guys desperately want submissive wives.
If you don't submit to your hubby, you might not enjoy your marriage.
This information won't save you.

ElsonMorali:


Actually I don't use glasses. I have 20/20 vision.

If submission is earned then love too must be earned. Tit for tat.

Lol

Pained

ElsonMorali:


I think our paths are eventually converging gradually. I agree with you to an extent.

But here's where you err. Your husband has an exclusive right to your submission just as you have an exclusive undeniable right to his love and affection.

If your husband has to earn your submission then he should pay for it with unconditional love and affection. I made that clear in the other tread. Guess you didn't read that.

I could borrow you my pair of glasses though...

emusmithy:
Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Women.

Ironical it's coming from a guy. Yeah.
Heard too many brag on their 'right' on their being the Head and all.
When these set of guys find a truly self-confident woman, they put their self-defense mask on and go all, "she's too full of herself..."
They want a submissive lady who pretend to be what she's not and later it backfires...They want a submissive lady for the wrong reasons. See some of them below:

1. They are plain egoistic.

If he's got ego in him, that "beast" will once in a while need to feed on some blood. It sure will be yours.
He needs you to bow and say, 'Yes Sir" as he does this. What a life! You're doubtlessly married to a dummy!

2. They're plain ill-trained.

The truth is, men who take want submissive girls often have wrong motives. They say, "I'm hot, she should be humble...to take my shyytes". For the most part, this was passed on from their roots. They were taught that way; either at home or in church that women are kinda inferior. This is wrong and abysmal! It's erroneous and degrading! Women are help-meets, not housemaids.


3. They're plain selfish.

He wants a submissive lady because he is only considering his own self/ 'temperament'. She's got weaknesses too and she wants you to understand when she's being extra loud also.

4. They're plain lazy

"Marriage is hard work and getting a humble lady makes it easy", he says. He doesn't want stress. The girl who poses to be humble before marriage might end up breaking your heart in marriage. Go for a Real Lady who isn't sorry for being herself always.


5. They're plain autocratic

Some men are naturally power-freak. They hold on the Bible passage that says, "Wife, submit to your husbands..." They ignore the part that says, "Men, do not be BITTER against your wives or Men love your wives."
Bitter o? Don't be mad at her. They are not only bitter; they're also wife beaters. Smh!

6. They're plain ignorant

For those guys seeking 'humble' girls who are like 'humble pies in the sky', it's complete ignorance. The fact is: No woman is humble for nothing. Don't let her calling you "Sir" today fool you into thinking she's humble. You might be wrong. Selah!


7. They're plain unwise

I believe it's wise to like a lady for who she is than who she decorates herself to be. With the increase in rate of single ladies from 27-35, they can even "wash your feet" just to bear your name.
It's thereby silly to judge a wife material by mere display of cheap humility.

Tgif! Happy Independence in advance, Nigerians!

Diddyydiva:
No love no submission