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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Respect55(m): 11:09pm On May 26, 2017
Sometimes I wonder why guys here like picking on females. undecided


Is it to boost your self esteem or what?

If y'all have problems with ladies offline why not settle it with them, Don't come here to shove your existence on us !!!


We care less if you exist !!!


undecided
Who are the 'we'?
U r on ur own o
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Nobody: 11:10pm On May 26, 2017
yes
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by evanscheck(m): 11:12pm On May 26, 2017
Pls wait let me confirm from laid Mohammed on this matter ... He shud have something to say
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by geronimoedeh1(m): 11:19pm On May 26, 2017
Laveda:
No, it doesn't make sense.

Just see how you twisting the bible and making it go in line with your selfish thoughts, so a man is allowed to commit adultery and nothing will happen and when the woman does same? Hell will let loose..

This is total bullcrap!

I'm all for equity.

Equity all d way maam..i too believe in it ...
you could try it in your husbands house...
i promise to stand by you
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Withambition(m): 11:22pm On May 26, 2017
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by ahahnow: 11:25pm On May 26, 2017
yes. and vise versa. that is the only grounds for divorce
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by diva90: 11:44pm On May 26, 2017
The Bible with regards to divorce on the grounds of infidelity is not sex specific. So yes!! a woman has every right to walk away just like a man does

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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by luckyebusky(m): 11:47pm On May 26, 2017
[color=#000000][/color]do the bible say so
for our God thy Goe hate that so as who we are we must run always from all kind of evil
nd they say that which the lord hate is a sin no matter is a sin so we all must alwayr from all kind we ar into
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by luckyebusky(m): 11:49pm On May 26, 2017
[color=#000000][/color]do the bible say so
for our God thy Goe hate that so as who we are we must run always from all kind of evil
nd they say that which the lord hate is a sin no matter is a sin so we all must run alwayr from all kind evil tin we ar into
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Nobody: 11:50pm On May 26, 2017
based on the Bible, a woman can file for divorce based on adultery too.
or which Bible are you reading
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Nobody: 11:59pm On May 26, 2017
no the Bible doesn't permit it same applies to the men. there's no put away
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Heymorse(m): 12:07am On May 27, 2017
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Toks2008:
*This write up does not encourage adultery in any form but it is about pointing out the erroneous belief as regards the act of adultery and divorce in relation to the scriptures.Every man must love and be faithful to his wife.

I have seen many situations where a wife leaves her husband against all odds because he committed adultery and she will quickly use the scripture to back up her action.

But does God really permit a wife to divorce an adulterous husband?

According to Islam

[color=#000099]The fact that polygamy is an acceptable norm in Islam does not give room for much debate over this matter but nevertheless,there are laid down guidelines to follow if a wife has good evidence that her husbands committed adultery(Please refer to Fataawa 89039 and 85031).

From the bible

God never intended to give any instruction as regards divorce because GOD hates it as it is written in Malachi 2:16 : "For I hate divorce !" says the LORD , the God of Israel.

However, the hardness of MAN's heart(Not the woman) made Moses give men the opportunity to divorce their wives.

While many bible scholars have postulated that whenever a "he" is used in the Bible,it usually applies to man and woman and i perfectly agree but when it comes to matrimonial matters, the bible is very gender specific and has meticulously used the words man,woman,husband and wife with specific instructions relating to each one.


1 corrithians 7:10-11
"But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.


Matthew 19:5-9
" Why then," they asked Him, "did Moses command us to give divorce papers and TO SEND HER AWAY?"He told them, "Moses permitted you to divorce your WIVES because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning.And I tell you, whoever divorces his WIFE, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."


So the big question is; When is it right for a woman to divorce her husband?

The only Biblical ground for divorce for the woman is desertion by the man which is never the same as an act of adultery because strangely enough, a man may commit adultery but may not have any intention of deserting his wife.

Desertion is defined as the abandonment of a duty or post without permission and is done with the intention of not returning after all options of true reconciliation fails.

1 Corinthians 7:15. "But if the unbelieving partners leave, let them go. Under these circumstances a Christian man or Christian woman is not bound [by a marriage vow]. God has called you to live in peace".

Desertion by the man can come in many forms.
-If he denies her sex.
-Outrightly abandons her.
-Makes her a punching bag
-Refuses to take care of her and the children even when he is capable



I don't know if this makes sense.
Joavid:
based on the Bible, a woman can file for divorce based on adultery too.

or which Bible are you reading
[quote author=Toks2008 post=49864221]*This write up does not encourage adultery in any form but it is about pointing out the erroneous belief as regards the act of adultery and divorce in relation to the scriptures.Every man must love and be faithful to his wife.

I have seen many situations where a wife leaves her husband against all odds because he committed adultery and she will quickly use the scripture to back up her action.

But does God really permit a wife to divorce an adulterous husband?

According to Islam

[color=#000099]The fa
I don't know if this makes sense.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by InvertedHammer: 12:11am On May 27, 2017
Yea Yea


Another piece that will come from twisting the bible to suit yourself.



May God help you Toks grin
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The OP is righr except....

When bible was written, herpes, Hep C, HIV and AIDS did not exist. The only consideration then was spiritual and not medical or physical ramifications of cheating.

OP needs to bring the preaching to 21st century.
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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by fof1: 12:17am On May 27, 2017
Toks2008:
*This write up does not encourage adultery in any form but it is about pointing out the erroneous belief as regards the act of adultery and divorce in relation to the scriptures.Every man must love and be faithful to his wife.

I have seen many situations where a wife leaves her husband against all odds because he committed adultery and she will quickly use the scripture to back up her action.

But does God really permit a wife to divorce an adulterous husband?

According to Islam

The fact that polygamy is an acceptable norm in Islam does not give room for much debate over this matter but nevertheless,there are laid down guidelines to follow if a wife has good evidence that her husbands committed adultery(Please refer to Fataawa 89039 and 85031).

From the bible

God never intended to give any instruction as regards divorce because GOD hates it as it is written in Malachi 2:16 : "For I hate divorce !" says the LORD , the God of Israel.

However, the hardness of MAN's heart(Not the woman) made Moses give men the opportunity to divorce their wives.

While many bible scholars have postulated that whenever a "he" is used in the Bible,it usually applies to man and woman and i perfectly agree but when it comes to matrimonial matters, the bible is very gender specific and has meticulously used the words man,woman,husband and wife with specific instructions relating to each one.


1 corrithians 7:10-11
"But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.


Matthew 19:5-9
" Why then," they asked Him, "did Moses command us to give divorce papers and TO SEND HER AWAY?"He told them, "Moses permitted you to divorce your WIVES because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning.And I tell you, whoever divorces his WIFE, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."


So the big question is; When is it right for a woman to divorce her husband?

The only Biblical ground for divorce for the woman is desertion by the man which is never the same as an act of adultery because strangely enough, a man may commit adultery but may not have any intention of deserting his wife.

Desertion is defined as the abandonment of a duty or post without permission and is done with the intention of not returning after all options of true reconciliation fails.

1 Corinthians 7:15. "But if the unbelieving partners leave, let them go. Under these circumstances a Christian man or Christian woman is not bound [by a marriage vow]. God has called you to live in peace".

Desertion by the man can come in many forms.
-If he denies her sex.
-Outrightly abandons her.
-Makes her a punching bag
-Refuses to take care of her and the children even when he is capable



I don't know if this makes sense.


MY DEAR,PLS THIS IS PURELY D DECEIT OF LUCIFER. UR PREMISE IS FALSE AND TRULY FAULTY...
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Nobody: 12:17am On May 27, 2017
adewumiopeyemi:
Divorce is bad.. u need to conside the kid u will have for ur husband... hope u no..

He obviously didn't consider me or my child's feelings before having an affair tho. Women are forgiving but it doesn't mean you should do your worst I agree with you tho I will never come between the relationship between a father and his child but a line will be drawn in sand on what I can and won't stand in marriage under God

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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by NigerianScholar: 12:34am On May 27, 2017
I dont know abt the quran or the o t. But jesus said the only excuse for divorce is adultry. Quote me later for the bible verse
Toks2008:
*This write up does not encourage adultery in any form but it is about pointing out the erroneous belief as regards the act of adultery and divorce in relation to the scriptures.Every man must love and be faithful to his wife.

I have seen many situations where a wife leaves her husband against all odds because he committed adultery and she will quickly use the scripture to back up her action.

But does God really permit a wife to divorce an adulterous husband?

According to Islam

The fact that polygamy is an acceptable norm in Islam does not give room for much debate over this matter but nevertheless,there are laid down guidelines to follow if a wife has good evidence that her husbands committed adultery(Please refer to Fataawa 89039 and 85031).

From the bible

God never intended to give any instruction as regards divorce because GOD hates it as it is written in Malachi 2:16 : "For I hate divorce !" says the LORD , the God of Israel.

However, the hardness of MAN's heart(Not the woman) made Moses give men the opportunity to divorce their wives.

While many bible scholars have postulated that whenever a "he" is used in the Bible,it usually applies to man and woman and i perfectly agree but when it comes to matrimonial matters, the bible is very gender specific and has meticulously used the words man,woman,husband and wife with specific instructions relating to each one.


1 corrithians 7:10-11
"But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.


Matthew 19:5-9
" Why then," they asked Him, "did Moses command us to give divorce papers and TO SEND HER AWAY?"He told them, "Moses permitted you to divorce your WIVES because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning.And I tell you, whoever divorces his WIFE, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."


So the big question is; When is it right for a woman to divorce her husband?

The only Biblical ground for divorce for the woman is desertion by the man which is never the same as an act of adultery because strangely enough, a man may commit adultery but may not have any intention of deserting his wife.

Desertion is defined as the abandonment of a duty or post without permission and is done with the intention of not returning after all options of true reconciliation fails.

1 Corinthians 7:15. "But if the unbelieving partners leave, let them go. Under these circumstances a Christian man or Christian woman is not bound [by a marriage vow]. God has called you to live in peace".

Desertion by the man can come in many forms.
-If he denies her sex.
-Outrightly abandons her.
-Makes her a punching bag
-Refuses to take care of her and the children even when he is capable



I don't know if this makes sense.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by CAMNEWTON4PRES: 12:46am On May 27, 2017
Laveda:
No, it doesn't make sense.

Just see how you twisting the bible and making it go in line with your selfish thoughts, so a man is allowed to commit adultery and nothing will happen and when the woman does same? Hell will let loose..

This is total bullcrap!

I'm all for equity.
and who is holding you? Next time when your husband cheats on you, start sleeping around too, equity indeed keep looking for equity in the Bible .nonsens ashawo jati
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by koolaid87: 2:10am On May 27, 2017
You dey ask human like you what God said. Have you ever heard from God? What makes you think God ever spoke to all these supposed God hearers.

Believe in the God in your heart that Judges right from wrong and that is conscience.

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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by adewotired: 2:48am On May 27, 2017
Yeah, one can divorce a spouse only on the account of adultery. But must remained unmarried or go back to his/her former spouse.

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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by 2016v2017: 2:52am On May 27, 2017
Toks2008:
*This write up does not encourage adultery in any form but it is about pointing out the erroneous belief as regards the act of adultery and divorce in relation to the scriptures.Every man must love and be faithful to his wife.

I have seen many situations where a wife leaves her husband against all odds because he committed adultery and she will quickly use the scripture to back up her action.

But does God really permit a wife to divorce an adulterous husband?

According to Islam

The fact that polygamy is an acceptable norm in Islam does not give room for much debate over this matter but nevertheless,there are laid down guidelines to follow if a wife has good evidence that her husbands committed adultery(Please refer to Fataawa 89039 and 85031).

From the bible

God never intended to give any instruction as regards divorce because GOD hates it as it is written in Malachi 2:16 : "For I hate divorce !" says the LORD , the God of Israel.

However, the hardness of MAN's heart(Not the woman) made Moses give men the opportunity to divorce their wives.

While many bible scholars have postulated that whenever a "he" is used in the Bible,it usually applies to man and woman and i perfectly agree but when it comes to matrimonial matters, the bible is very gender specific and has meticulously used the words man,woman,husband and wife with specific instructions relating to each one.


1 corrithians 7:10-11
"But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.


Matthew 19:5-9
" Why then," they asked Him, "did Moses command us to give divorce papers and TO SEND HER AWAY?"He told them, "Moses permitted you to divorce your WIVES because of the hardness of your hearts. But it was not like that from the beginning.And I tell you, whoever divorces his WIFE, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery."


So the big question is; When is it right for a woman to divorce her husband?

The only Biblical ground for divorce for the woman is desertion by the man which is never the same as an act of adultery because strangely enough, a man may commit adultery but may not have any intention of deserting his wife.

Desertion is defined as the abandonment of a duty or post without permission and is done with the intention of not returning after all options of true reconciliation fails.

1 Corinthians 7:15. "But if the unbelieving partners leave, let them go. Under these circumstances a Christian man or Christian woman is not bound [by a marriage vow]. God has called you to live in peace".

Desertion by the man can come in many forms.
-If he denies her sex.
-Outrightly abandons her.
-Makes her a punching bag
-Refuses to take care of her and the children even when he is capable



I don't know if this makes sense.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by bullabong(m): 2:53am On May 27, 2017
RabbaRabbi:
You this guy? You don carry your lies come here abi?

I have been observing this Op for some time now and come to concluded that his threads are nothing more than a trash angry misleading those that don't know the bible.

True christains, be ware of this op, he's an antichrist undecided
Finally! People are thinking and you call them d antichrist ko? Holocaust ni. There's a lot of unanswered contradictions in Christianity.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by 2016v2017: 2:55am On May 27, 2017
Laveda:
No, it doesn't make sense.

Just see how you twisting the bible and making it go in line with your selfish thoughts, so a man is allowed to commit adultery and nothing will happen and when the woman does same? Hell will let loose..

This is total bullcrap!

I'm all for equity.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Jaqenhghar: 2:57am On May 27, 2017
banmee:


It will only shake your marital world.

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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by 2016v2017: 2:57am On May 27, 2017
RabbaRabbi:
You this guy? You don carry your lies come here abi?

I have been observing this Op for some time now and come to concluded that his threads are nothing more than a trash angry misleading those that don't know the bible.

True christains, be ware of this op, he's an antichrist undecided

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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by paulsir: 3:23am On May 27, 2017
yes he does, but is there no room for forgiveness?
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Nobody: 3:32am On May 27, 2017
1 corrithians 7:10-11
"But for those who are married, I have a command that comes not from me, but from the Lord. A wife must not leave her husband.But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.




This up here unequivocally gives you the answer: yes, a wife is permitted to leave her husband. Although divorce does not please God, there is accommodation for it in certain cases. "A wife must not leave her husband. But if she does...." This statement acknowledges that the wife can be the one to initiate action. She's the 'doer' in that sentence, not the 'object' of the action (the man is). It could have easily said "but if her husband divorces her, she must remain unmarried..." If it weren't so, then the last sentence "And a husband must not divorce his wife" would be redundant.

Paul's letter to the Corinthian's was general, so it addressed women as well. But in that quote from Mathew, Jesus was responding to a direct question from his disciples - a gathering of men. Don't ignore the context.

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Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Nobody: 3:34am On May 27, 2017
DIVORCE AN ABUSIVE SPOUSE.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by 5oyad: 3:48am On May 27, 2017
That islam permits polygamy does not mean it permits adultery. Quran unlike our bible even spells out clearly the punishment for adultery. A
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by Numerouuuno: 5:22am On May 27, 2017
Why can't people make their own decisions without waiting for a certain god's permission?
If a lady cheats on her husband, the guy can dump her as$, likewise, the lady has the same right. What has god has to do with this? People should learn to think for themselves.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by sarahade(f): 5:59am On May 27, 2017
If i divorce my husband because he is a cheat and a lying bastard come and beat me.
Foolish thread stupid op.
God is not in support of adultery or fornication.
From the beginning God made a man and a woman.
Re: Does GOD permit a woman to divorce an adulterous husband? by sarahade(f): 6:01am On May 27, 2017
5oyad:
That islam permits polygamy does not mean it permits adultery. Quran unlike our bible even spells out clearly the punishment for adultery. A
Please stop lying islam doesn't permit any polygamy.
Liars

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