luminouz:

This is one of the reasons i hate religious n tribal divides in my country....I feel for u op....have been in d same shoe...but mine is Igbo....to think of it..I have always looked Igbo n always welcomed in their house...until one day I received a phone call from mum..n had to speak in Yoruba....DAT was d day I learnt Yoruba people are called Yoruba! Ofe nmanu! D girl loved me die n she is an ADA (first daughter).but what can we do...till today she never marry o..maybe tomorrow sha!
My token! U either get ready to elope with her n face a life of always looking over Ur shoulder or.....FORGET HER! U will die horribly if u don't!

Thanks bro is not easy but am putting up a good fight to forget her

chris2face:

Thanks bro is not easy but am putting up a good fight to forget her

Try n win this fight!

luminouz:
Try n win this fight!

OK Oshee I hope I got it

chris2face:

OK Oshee I hope I got it

Lolz! U try!

Chris2face, i know what dat feels like but u cant die for love... Not in nigeria... Northerns can be very horrible people i tell u.
Try ur best to let her be or else her father could go berserk and d both of u could lose ur lives

Smallville10:
Chris2face, i know what dat feels like but u cant die for love... Not in nigeria... Northerns can be very horrible people i tell u.
Try ur best to let her be or else her father could go berserk and d both of u could lose ur lives

Yea thanks bro am really trying to forget her but is not been easy at all

Mailthaddeus:
U feel in love wit a girl whose father refused to send to school, a stack illiterate who can't even communicate in English language.
My brother u are not in love but in lust. Once u spend more time wit her u'll see all d reasons in d world why 2 of u can't be together. Buh if u still wanna continue deceiving urself! carry on.
Buh be ready to be behanded, belegged and beheaded.

must everyone fall in love with a literate? How can u be xo low in reasoning

SlaughterGang:
Marry her, one day, she gon plant a bomb in her pvssy and you gon detonate it.

some people need brain check

kids everywhere

chris2face:
Life is so unfair, am a christian and an Igbo guy who is based in a far away northern state,there is particular girl whom I have got this strong feelings for to say that I love this girl is an understatement ,she in turn loves me I deduced this from her behavior towards me but just like me she is afraid of her parents
Nairalanders this a girl who comes from a core Muslim family I have tried getting her off my mind but is obvious I just can't,today against all odd she came to my shop and I summoned courage told her how I felt about her and she immediately she started crying telling me in Hausa that I should just look for another girl even though she loves me so much that she is not my type and don't see us being together she went further citing the reasons below
1 Am a christian
2 Am an Igbo guy,guys who leaves in this north will understand this
3 That her father will rather kill her than have her to do something with an "onyeamuri" the same they call we igbos
4 That her religion forbids it
I know all these things yet I found it difficult if not impossible to get this girl out of my mind
I know her Dad very well and what he is capable of doing,this a man who don't send any of her female daughter to school his reason no need.
I use to think that at my age I can't necessarily shed tears not until today
I have tried to make my self forget this girl even telling myself how can I possibly fall for a girl who can't even express her self in English still I can't
Before she left she told me she is gonna stay away from me for my safety but I guess is so difficult for her cause she came back still crying to tell me "sai de safe" that's good night
Am confuse I don't know what to do,why is my own love story always different
May be hard truth or few words of encouragement will do Sorry for the long writeup needed somebody to talk to,am not my self please ignore my mistakes

had similar experience with my childhood lover Since 2007. Mum a xtian (NW) dad a Muslim (NE). I had to let go last year March. She told me don't worry I will run far away with youeach time we discussed bout d possibility of us ending together tears keep rolling. My everything I call her. I cried like a child cos it took me years to finally decide to settle with her with my parents and Her mum in support. But her dad a core muslim was one stringent fanatic. Knowing my life wud be at stake if I decide to abscond with his daughter was something I was ready for. Until I realised how Truly dangerous dis myt be for both Families. On a faithful Sunday nobody was at home I had to invite her and told her plainly. We can't end up together let's quit and see Wat fate has in store for us. With tears, pains in heart we kissed and her final words good bye my heart. I cudnt eat well for days. Love hurts man. But I had to take such decisions to save my neck lolz. There's a reason for everything.i promise u ll find love again like moi

bibijay123:
Op ndo I know how u feel. A Yoruba family once rejected me because i am not a Nigerian. They didn't even tell me on time, after months of washing their dirty plates n pots dey said" Togo is too far" chai

Bhahahahajhahahahahah

cuteralph101:
had similar experience with my childhood lover Since 2007. Mum a xtian (NW) dad a Muslim (NE). I had to let go last year March. She told me don't worry I will run far away with youeach time we discussed bout d possibility of us ending together tears keep rolling. My everything I call her. I cried like a child cos it took me years to finally decide to settle with her with my parents and Her mum in support. But her dad a core muslim was one stringent fanatic. Knowing my life wud be at stake if I decide to abscond with his daughter was something I was ready for. Until I realised how Truly dangerous dis myt be for both Families. On a faithful Sunday nobody was at home I had to invite her and told her plainly. We can't end up together let's quit and see Wat fate has in store for us. With tears, pains in heart we kissed and her final words good bye my heart. I cudnt eat well for days. Love hurts man. But I had to take such decisions to save my neck lolz. There's a reason for everything.i promise u ll find love again like moi

Thanks bro I have choosen to let go

cuteralph101:
must everyone fall in love with a literate? How can u be xo low in reasoning

Really? "Low in reasoning " is that all u can decipher?
Anyway! thanks for ur compliment. Go ahead and rant more.

Mailthaddeus:


Really? "Low in reasoning " is that all u can decipher?
Anyway! thanks for ur compliment. Go ahead and rant more.

Yes for ur level...and note this am not ranting just kicking ur stand against anyone loving an illiterate u gotta change ur ideology man.

Yeah let it go, but give her a memory to hold on to........ Like....... fvcking........her............buhahahaha........
No be me talk oo

Nigeria is strangely divided along ethnic and religious line...is just a pity u can't marry whom u love.kpele

Forget her man...had bin dating hausa girls frm time immemorial,,am igbo too bt based at north too bt na educated ones sha

Na Nnamdi Kano and Ojukwu cause am

Sum hav switchd religion,tribe and norms all because they want 2 b wit d person their heart longs for,.

I may be called a loverboy for this but the truth is a man can nvr be complete without being wit d person he loves,forget riches,forget education,what matters is the thing of the heart,nd thats the only thing u get 2 take wit u even after ur gone,

romeo and juliet,titanic were rated the greatest lit ever not because dey died at d end,bt cus they died believing and sacrificing for d 1 dey luv

Onogiede:
If she luv you as well thenno problem,..amusing this medium to invite you both to my church "winners charpel @canaaland ota lagos",..you are free to contact me anytime

No offence sir but did u read the post at all

adepiero:
Stop trying to put square pegs in round holes. Find an IBO girl to love or move back to the east and save your neck.

Thanks bro I really appreciate

Sorry brov, I got one question for U Y U sharing ur problems here?? mere reading The replies u will gather the fact that most that replied u are very dull and confused.... simple if the parents of d gal can't have it, ditch it and mend ur heart.. MAN UP

Op, a friend of mine is also in the same situation..but hey, it's not gonna work..just get it off your mind..a Christian guy + a Muslim lady is a big NO..but i wonder why the Christian folks will allow their daughters to marry a Muslim guy..your own case is a bit worse since the girl is core North[color=#990000][/color]

NeutralJUDGE:
Forget her man...had bin dating hausa girls frm time immemorial,,am igbo too bt based at north too bt na educated ones sha

you are a badt guy, but u dey risk oh,
meanwhile how did u achieve this feat without been.caught?

chris2face:

Thanks bro I really appreciate

I understand you state,but you need to know u are @ risk of losing your life,investment or health, do the needful quit the relationship.

hopeforcharles:

I understand you state,but you need to know u are @ risk of losing your life,investment or health, do the needful quit the relationship.

Yea I have done that thank u so much

Suleimanovic:
Op, a friend of mine is also in the same situation..but hey, it's not gonna work..just get it off your mind..a Christian guy + a Muslim lady is a big NO..but i wonder why the Christian folks will allow their daughters to marry a Muslim guy..your own case is a bit worse since the girl is core North[color=#990000][/color]

Yea have done that already but is not easy at all

laxxy:
Sorry brov, I got one question for U Y U sharing ur problems here?? mere reading The replies u will gather the fact that most that replied u are very dull and confused.... simple if the parents of d gal can't have it, ditch it and mend ur heart.. MAN UP

Thanks bro I got it

mrdrizzy:
Sum hav switchd religion,tribe and norms all because they want 2 b wit d person their heart longs for,.

I may be called a loverboy for this but the truth is a man can nvr be complete without being wit d person he loves,forget riches,forget education,what matters is the thing of the heart,nd thats the only thing u get 2 take wit u even after ur gone,

romeo and juliet,titanic were rated the greatest lit ever not because dey died at d end,bt cus they died believing and sacrificing for d 1 dey luv

Yea I got ur point but I can't change my religion had it been is another church then no big deal but Muslim No

mrdrizzy:
Sum hav switchd religion,tribe and norms all because they want 2 b wit d person their heart longs for,.

I may be called a loverboy for this but the truth is a man can nvr be complete without being wit d person he loves,forget riches,forget education,what matters is the thing of the heart,nd thats the only thing u get 2 take wit u even after ur gone,

romeo and juliet,titanic were rated the greatest lit ever not because dey died at d end,bt cus they died believing and sacrificing for d 1 dey luv

Yea I got ur point but I can't change my religion had it been is another church then no big deal but Muslim No way my parents will just disown me

hopeforcharles:

you are a badt guy, but u dey risk oh,
meanwhile how did u achieve this feat without been.caught?

Risk?? Man forget, invite her to your place and do the needful...Hahahaha rmemba dec.26 as i go slay jamila as i no go villa nah...na for front of d mosque we pass sef

NeutralJUDGE:
Risk?? Man forget, invite her to your place and do the needful...Hahahaha rmemba dec.26 as i go slay jamila as i no go villa nah...na for front of d mosque we pass sef

Ol boy na narrow Excape be this ur case, hope u know say if them catch u, na meat u don become