VIRGINITY WITHOUT EXTRA OIL.
A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away
from them simply because they refused to
give them s*x, some are even tempted to
give away their virginity just to keep the
guys.
Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not
be the real reason the guys go away. Yes, no
doubt, there are several guys who want s*x,
and if they don’t get it, they walk away.
The problem may not be with the virginity or
the s*x. The story of the Ten virgins in the
Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish
were virgins; the other five were not refused
from seeing the bridegroom because they
were virgins or because they lost their
virginity, but because they were foolish; they
were called foolish because they had no
EXTRA OIL.
Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to
sustain any relationship.
While many brag about their virginity, that is
all they have to offer, they forget that
virginity ends the night after the wedding,
but EXTRA OIL is what will keep the
marriage going. If a man asks a lady for s*x
and she says NO, the man can walk away if
what he really wanted was s*x and also, if
that is all he thinks the lady can offer him.
A man may not come to a lady for s*x but
along the line,he may be tempted to ask for
s*x, if the lady turns him down, the man may
still stay in the relationship, if he sees other
things that are valuable to him but if he
doesn’t, he may walk away. Before you think
guys are walking away because you are a
virgin, look inwardly.
Some ladies who brag about virginity are
somewhat timid, some impolite, uncultured
and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with
such a lady? Some ladies do not have
manners, some do not have much upstairs,
some are not social, some are dull, and
maybe the best thing they have is their hips,
nice backside, nice br3ast and nice lips, and
so when a guy comes because of all the
physical shapes and wants s*x, if he is
turned down, he walks away because there is
nothing else interesting about the lady.
Most men now are even scared of marrying
such virgins. Their fears prompt them to
want to test before they discuss marriage
because many ladies who got married as
virgins have caused their husbands to be
looking elsewhere because they are too naive
on bed.
However, you don’t need to test to be sure
she will be good, you can know a lady who
will be good at home and bed by her decent
conversation, by the level of knowledge
acquired, by her quest/zest passion for
knowledge and by God’s leading. I know of
many ladies who are still virgins, they have
great relationships, they have many friends
around them, you may not even know they
are still virgins unless they tell you.
Do not break your virginity because a guy
wants to walk away, unless you don’t have
anything else to offer in the relationship. It is
not all about virginity, work to build up
virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity,
add knowledge, add Extra OIL ….“And beside
this, giving all diligence, add to your faith,
virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; And to
knowledge, temperance; and to temperance,
patience; and to patience, godliness, And to
godliness, brotherly kindness; and to
brotherly kindness, charity.” 2Peter. 1:5-7.
Virginity or no virginity…
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LOL.... THIS IS A VERY GOOD WRITE UP.

Nice piece OP. You are so on point.