i'm not from naija so help me understand what it means when a naija man says he's the Head of Relationship.  If your boyfriend insists that he's the head of the relatioship, that everything he says should go, that once u r married, he woun't be able to help with the chores, the cooking, the cleaning, the kids , as it's a woman's job, that his only responsability as a man is to be the financial provider, does that mean that a wife should keep the money she earns to herself and do whatever she wants with it Mind u he's really not that rich, he has average money and if u didn't help him out financially you would lead an average life and once the kids come in, you would probably  lead a below average life.

and also since he wants to be the head of the relationship bfore they even get married, should he be paying her bills already? mortgage, car note, insurance, clothes, food,