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Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by Nobody: 12:06am On Oct 10, 2016
I got this ideology into my mind sometimes ago when I heard an audio message by a Senior Pastor of Day Star Christians_Rev. Sam Adeyemi titled "who should I marry". In the message he admonished that men should never beg a lady for marriage nor by going to the girl's parents pleading to marry their daughter. His reason was that marriage should occur out of willingness of both party to get involve without coerce, persuade or cajole. He said that if you beg a lady to marry you, you would continue to beg her in the marriage not to go after other men, you would beg her to do her primary duties, you would beg her to love you. He concluded that a relationship that was built on begging had to be maintained by begging.

I don't know how true this logic is_ it has entered by subconscious.Can someone educate me more please?
Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by vitalisdiho(m): 12:12am On Oct 10, 2016
Asks your parent mr learner
Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by ikp120(m): 12:14am On Oct 10, 2016
That's 100% correct, except you can make her fall uncontrollably in love with you after marrying her.

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Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by shestrong(f): 12:19am On Oct 10, 2016
You can't beg anyone for marriage..dats gonna b d most terrible mistake ever,as far as it's d right person for u,everything falls in place .Trust me if u try it ,ure gonna beg for so many things wen u eventually get married nd she might even use it against u somehow.Ok bye

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Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by Nobody: 12:22am On Oct 10, 2016
shestrong:
You can't beg anyone for marriage..dats gonna b d most terrible mistake ever,as far as it's d right person for u,everything falls in place .Trust me if u try it ,ure gonna beg for so many things wen u eventually get married nd she might even use it against u somehow.Ok bye


Thanks, Sensible enough!

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Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by DozieInc(m): 2:17am On Oct 10, 2016
shestrong:
You can't beg anyone for marriage..dats gonna b d most terrible mistake ever,as far as it's d right person for u,everything falls in place .Trust me if u try it ,ure gonna beg for so many things wen u eventually get married nd she might even use it against u somehow.Ok bye
Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by Lexxyburg(m): 5:06am On Oct 10, 2016
never beg for love
Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by firstking01(m): 6:45am On Oct 10, 2016
Daniel1990:
I got this ideology into my mind sometimes ago when I heard an audio message by a Senior Pastor of Day Star Christians_Rev. Sam Adeyemi titled "who should I marry". In the message he admonished that men should never beg a lady for marriage nor by going to the girl's parents pleading to marry their daughter. His reason was that marriage should occur out of willingness of both party to get involve without coerce, persuade or cajole. He said that if you beg a lady to marry you, you would continue to beg her in the marriage not to go after other men, you would beg her to do her primary duties, you would beg her to love you. He concluded that a relationship that was built on begging had to be maintained by begging.

I don't know how true this logic is_ it has entered by subconscious.Can someone educate me more please?
Did you just know this??...the way you keep your bed that's how you will lie on it.
Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:20am On Oct 10, 2016
Choose A Woman Who Chooses You...

"If a man wants a woman who doesn't want him, he cannot win. His
neediness will undermine any possible relationship, and his woman will
never be able to trust him. A man must determine whether a woman
really wants him but is playing hard to get, or whether she really doesn't
want him. If she doesn't want him, he should immediately cease
pursuing her and deal with his pain by himself."


David Deida, The Way of The Superior Man.

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Re: Should I Beg Her For Marriage? by Drlaw(m): 2:40am On Oct 22, 2016
BuddhaPalm:
Choose A Woman Who Chooses You...

"If a man wants a woman who doesn't want him, he cannot win. His
neediness will undermine any possible relationship, and his woman will
never be able to trust him. A man must determine whether a woman
really wants him but is playing hard to get, or whether she really doesn't
want him. If she doesn't want him, he should immediately cease
pursuing her and deal with his pain by himself."


David Deida, The Way of The Superior Man.

my father used to say that

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