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Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Excuzeme: 7:00pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Toks2008: But the "Ex" is not the right source to seek an Objective, balanced and untainted review of what transpired! Its like asking a thief if Robber should be punished! What will you expect him to say? ![]() ![]() Imagine asking a Nigeria ex-wife whether you the new, intended wife should marry her ex-husband! Cheesux, she would so poison your mind you will feel like poisoning the man, just for daring to marry you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() To find clues, go to neighbours of the couples, people who hear and see what they do on a daily basis. Dont even ask friends as those ones would have chosen "camps" and fall into the husband/Wife camp |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Olabestonic001(m): 7:20pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
histemple: you're speaking from experience. I fear the next generation ooooo, marriage is seen by most of them as gaining an employment. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 7:34pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Excuzeme: Only a dummy will expect to hear something good about a prospective spouse from an ex but my point is logical enough...no matter the lies, st least you will have a little clue about some facts and the person will be left to clear the air on the terrible things the ex said. I still wonder why some people find this difficult to understand... Employers ask for references and this is a place you may decide to leave tomorrow how much more marriage that is a lifetime thing...Phew! |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Youngpo413: 7:58pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
STENON:same with baby mama's.... |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
I'll divorce a million if nab my woman cheating! |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Femiwilli: 9:53pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
ogaprime: Go and read the bible and see, the devil misquotes the bible. Jesus on the other hand is clear. Marrying a divorcee is adultery. Nothing will change that. bitingcool: He always like to make out he does not support sin, but he has not rejected RCCG marrying divorcees. God is clear that remarrying is a sin, nothing to do with how men think. Their is alot wrong with RCCG if you look carefully. alexiej: Jesus said that Judas Ischariot will suffer eternal condemantion. Mark 14:21 The Son of man indeed goeth, as it is written of him: but woe to that man by whom the Son of man is betrayed! good were it for that man if he had never been born. Has Adeboye come out to condemn remarrying of divorces as he shouts about tithes ? If one person is dead then the covenant is dissolved. You go and research Adeboye with RCCG. All is not well there. RCCG is like Matthew 23:27 indeed appear beautiful outward, but are within full of dead men's bones, and of all uncleanness. praiseandpeac: Go and research, you'll see something is deeply wrong. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Okite15(m): 10:04pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
if you marry a divorcee, u are an adulterer. simple. Neva marry a divorcée |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 10:33pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Okite15: Says who? |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by tosyne2much(m): 10:40pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Spot on oga Toks ![]() |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by hamilton62(m): 10:57pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Google63:my dear, just because you don't like what is happening in your marriage doesn't result to divorce as an option from the bible... Remember, an oath was taken for this that was why it has a part saying, ...in sickness and in health, poorer or richer, for better for WORSE but not for good or for bad... This tells that there's a magnitude of things one will endure, process afte assimilation in his or her ,arriage and deduce the best option further with God in that marriage... We can't believe in the union of marriage which gladdens the heart of God to show us favor and still believe in what saddens Him which is Divorce... Let me tell you the truth, your 2nd wife can't be like you first if you be sincere to score them or a score card htough both will have their challenges but life isn't a bed of roses... In domestic violence, you have to find or discover the root of that action because there was a time when you were cherished that he/she can't do without the other... What kept a beautiful and old marriage that's the talk of town is undertsanding, patience and knowing your place and responsibility garnished with romance... Love's not the premier because it's built to start flaming from the eyes of the other from mere likeness and these )the above qualities) are the mantle before its manifestation... I know some families who have gone through the worst but they survive it and are grateful to God for not yielding to the ill thoughts and pessimists around then... What is the cause and when did the violence start? What can i do to arrest such action in my marriage? In all, never ommit God because he makes our little efforts manifest with enormous magnitude... Just be sincere, for ladies, you'll see that the man who thinks he is the 'big head' of the family will be in your palms if you know the power bestowed in womanhood as a wife... Divorce is selfishness to the family, the children are affected greatly, like it or not and remember that they are the greatest investment gotten from the union for continuity and growth. I know it's not easy but we are natural winners from conception to birth, so we can do it after winning the race for fertilization... It's easy to die than to live, so we mustn't expect it to be easy but His grace is sufficient. Thanks. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by PINES: 2:51am On Oct 18, 2016 |
"Marriage is a union between two forgivers ..." #CopyThat |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by hollypagan: 5:23am On Oct 18, 2016 |
Well I have to say marriage doesn't have any formula,he or she will meltdown when you use your best formula |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by STENON(f): 2:28pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
Youngpo413:Yes oo |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Donald7610: 3:21pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
Okite15:Wish you marry your missing rib else .. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Okite15(m): 5:33pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
Toks2008:the Bible. Weda u believe it or not doesn't change its stand! |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 6:37pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
Okite15: You need to read this... https://www.nairaland.com/3384570/does-god-permit-woman-divorce I hope lalasticlala will beam the thread for more viewers cos it's really insightful. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Excuzeme: 2:58am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Toks2008: Stop biting yourself in the tongue! It takes a dunce to do that. Below is your quote advocating the prospective bride/groom to go seek REASON FOR THE DIVORCE, from the "Ex". Toks2008: Why seek information from a 'source' (the Ex) when you are sure the information given will be FALSE and UNRELIABLE? It simply shows a lack of clarity of the thought process on the part of whoever does that. No long story, its a dud. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Okite15(m): 3:54pm On Oct 19, 2016 |
Toks2008:bro, dats ur sch of thought, no scripture is of private interpretation, and dats wat u did in DAT write up. Divorce and remarriage is a sin, be it male or female, there's nothing insightful Abt DAT thread. just please accept d scripture in black and white, u are not wiser Dan d author- God. God bless. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 6:02pm On Oct 19, 2016 |
Okite15: Lol did you just say my own interpretation? That is very laughable. Thank God the Bible is written in many languages so go look for the one you understand and study it very well. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 6:04pm On Oct 19, 2016 |
Excuzeme: You still need to learn a thing or two about due diligence. |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Okite15(m): 7:06pm On Oct 19, 2016 |
Toks2008: both d deceivers and d deceived are in d same shoe, stop deceiving people DAT dey can marry a divorcee. that said, a natural man cannot understand d things of d spirit! its clear u need salvation, quote me anywhere. Ciao... |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Toks2008(m): 8:08pm On Oct 19, 2016 |
Okite15: Just negodu there and stop showcasing your shallow understanding of the scriptures Do you think I just write things from the scriptures without understanding? Go back to the thread and read clearly what the scripture says about desertion as a viable ground for divorce and remarrying. Please do me a favor and stop quoting me I don't get involved in beer parlor discussion ..the sripture is crystal clear. ..1 Corinthians 7:15. (GOD'S WORD® Tran slation) "But if the unbelieving partners leave, let them go. Under these circumstances a Christian man or Christian woman is not bound [by a marriage vow]. God has called you to live in peace". |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by Nobody: 12:20am On Oct 21, 2016 |
STENON:Talking from experience..... save journey to Niger |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by STENON(f): 1:24pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
singlessubway:experience from what??... Niger for wetin?? |
Re: Before You Marry A Divorcee. by perfectcrown(f): 5:14pm On Oct 24, 2016 |
So I shld coman die sbi? Esply wen its in a case of baterring and resulting to almost death. 1 Like |
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