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Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:04pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by SUPERPACK: 3:10pm On Oct 17, 2016
pls can u give more clear details, cos i dont understand ur writeup.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:12pm On Oct 17, 2016
Just because he calls his sister, baby??


You better deal with your crazy insecurities undecided undecided undecided
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:17pm On Oct 17, 2016
Listen to Your family. He's probably cheating on You.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:18pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:18pm On Oct 17, 2016
That's not his sister
[img]http://i./aTXHpCN7TSpmE.gif[/img]

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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:19pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:20pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by ammyluv2002(f): 3:21pm On Oct 17, 2016
There's nothing to fear here! If truly, then he has the right to call his sis any name he pleases..


Secondly, don't make sound it's compulsory for him to pay your ticket. Yes, he's your guy but he shouldn't be compelled to do stuff especially if he doesn't want to do it. He's crazy about his sister so please just mind your business and face your relationship with him.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:26pm On Oct 17, 2016
Oohhh.... As much as I love interracial but this never came to my mind.. cool


Let go of ur boo if u can't handle it... If she's really his sister(sibling) then u can't juz sit down there and compare his love between the 2 of you.. Unless she's juz his sister in church or any other organizations, then he's cheating on u with another bae
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:28pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:

With his sister?
with his "baby". You need more proof though.
If You truly believed its his "sister" You wouldn't have created this thread. undecided

Always follow Your instincts.

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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:34pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:39pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:

Yes that's what I thought and have been told it's not his sister
that also what I said to him but I can assure you it is his sister that's why I find it strange
I doubt it dear. What proof do you have that she is his sister? If you don't mind me asking, how old are you and how old is he? I'm assuming you reside in the UK since you mentioned £s, is he a British citizen?
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:40pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:

No Really it is his sister (sibling) I have seen photos they look the same
The pictures he showed You might be true, but how does that proves/shows its the same person on phone?

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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:43pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:44pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:55pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:


Proof
Photos he had showed me they look very much alike

He calls her sister
When talking on the phone he says have you spoken with mamma

I am 30 he is 41
Yes I'm uk resident from birth living in uk [size=20pt]he is not a British citizen has lived here 10 years[/size]
[img]http://i./xVULFCVFccBJ6.gif[/img]

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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:59pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 3:59pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:


Proof
Photos he had showed me they look very much alike
He calls her sister
When talking on the phone he says have you spoken with mamma
This could mean his mother approves of his relationship with her.

I am 30 he is 41
Yes I'm uk resident from birth living in uk he is not a British citizen has lived here 10 years
Like I said before he's planning to round up and move back home. Sadly you're not a part of his future plan.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Kexorcist(m): 4:00pm On Oct 17, 2016
Girl, I think he's fucking with you.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:00pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:


Are you saying he is lieing to me?
Yes
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:01pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:03pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:08pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:


So why has he bothered to put me on phone with all his brothers, his mum ,and I have spoken with his sister briefly he put me on phone to her and he also puts me on phone to his friends in Nigeria and uk
Continue this and elongate it. Befriend her and eventually you'd have your answer.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:11pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:


Okay but why, what is it it for him?
He wants an indefinite stay permit, a mixed race kid, a black wife, a white concubine, good credit, ability to purchase a house in the UK, send his other kids (the black ones) to the UK to school... the list is endless.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:14pm On Oct 17, 2016
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Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:18pm On Oct 17, 2016
whiteflower:


So he is using me?
Your suspicion is fully confirmed.

Do I walk away?
Yes.

Or play him at his own game?

Don't bother, you'd only blame yourself or have a change of heart later on.
Best advice: walk away.
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:18pm On Oct 17, 2016
This is just hilarious just reading this tale....tales by the candlelight.

I believe you have enough good replies here to act wisely--but you are looking for a consolation.

1. You can't confirm if this 'baby' is truly sister or not.
2. It doesn't matter if she is truly his sister. The bottom line is that you don't like the dynamics of their 'weirdly possibly incest-ous relationship. That's what matters. You are not comfortable with them, then leave them alone.
3. You know what to do here. Just do it. Don't wait another day to lament. Irregardless of the true nature of his relationship with this alleged girl, the guy does not care about your feelings or opinions, he is showing you who he is, believe him and act accordingly.

godspeed
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 4:19pm On Oct 17, 2016
[size=15pt] hey dear,, all you have to do is befriend his sister and get very close to her...... Communicate with her on a daily, be casual and friendly
She has all the answers you need not us!!! [/size]
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Babacele: 5:47pm On Oct 17, 2016
for how long have you known him?
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 5:57pm On Oct 17, 2016
Do you have actual proof that she is his sister? if he showed you a picture, it does not mean that she is the one he talks to on phone... just trying and find out if the lady he talks to is actually his sister....

whiteflower:

Yes that's what I thought and have been told it's not his sister
that also what I said to him but I can assure you it is his sister that's why I find it strange
Re: Advice On Interracial Relationship With Nigerian Male by Nobody: 6:08pm On Oct 17, 2016
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