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Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by MsFaith: 10:47pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
nnamdibig:you are not a woman so you don't know the pain 3 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by realityone(m): 11:13pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
So living peaceably with all men means you should pack all men into your house to live permanently with you? I kingphilip: 2 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by ISTANDWITHBUHAR: 11:16pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
sisisioge: Why get married to the man in the first place when she is not getting along with her mother inlaw? No woman can deny my mother from being with me in my own house. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by ypic: 11:20pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
Loisemm:Relationship with in-laws requires lots of wisdom and tact, click here to learn more: http://familyparliament.com/Thread/i-slapped-my-mother-in-law-what-my-husband-did-will-shock-you/ |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by BestJay(m): 11:29pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
Op, hop she iz redi 2b remot-kontrol by ha moda-in-law? No mata hw gud dey r, dey r worse wen dey live 2geda wit u buh sum kud b naturali, morali & eida christianli gud. Jux b redi 4anytin u get as u let her in cox she cn't b lyk ur moda, neida wil d son watch u disrespec/disobey his mum. If you must, pray well... |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by kingphilip(m): 11:30pm On Oct 18, 2016 |
realityone:I wanted to just answer you yes and leave but i don't want to be the cause of your restless sleep She's having a problem with her mother in law and that's what I'm saying she should sort out thereby bringing about the peace I'm referring to |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by shophut(m): 12:11am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Your friend got married to her son and now doesn't want the mother to her husband to stay with them. Hope she will not want to visit her own son's house and when her son's wife says no she shouldn't get angry. Karma is very much alive. |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Pchidexy(m): 12:23am On Oct 19, 2016 |
The kind response I see from some Jezebels is quite disheartening. You want a man chase away his mother just because he married a bitch! Nawa for some of una... I swear! |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Seun360(m): 12:58am On Oct 19, 2016 |
AfroKnight: You dey mind them...? |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by gaelllic: 1:05am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Loisemm: Wherefore a man shall leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they shall be two in one flesh. Genesis 2:24 (Douay-Rheims) A lot of men seem to find this commandment a huge difficulty. Africans more than most maybe. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by gaelllic: 1:09am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Okeikpu(m): 3:26am On Oct 19, 2016 |
sisisioge:Shebi all of una go turn to grannies someday, only if you're lucky to be alive :/ Then una go know the reason y they luv to protect their son No marra wht it takes ![]() ![]() |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by KissCODE(m): 3:46am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Loisemm:What your friend needs is prayers not advice. The mother inlaw and son are smh |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by repogirl(f): 4:55am On Oct 19, 2016 |
It's the husband that is allowing this sort of thing happen. Is he a mama's boy? Your friend has no choice but to accept it the way it is. She shouldn't be negative and should just do her own part as a good wife believing whatever plans the mother in law has against her marriage will fail. Friends, enemies, family will come and go. If they have bad plans against your marriage, just do your own part by not being aggressive and you will see that their plans won't be successful. Don't help them crash your marriage by fighting them, just allow them to do until they are exhausted. |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Nobody: 5:16am On Oct 19, 2016 |
niyi123:Bless you too sir |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by wolu4: 6:28am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Ujoan:my dear No MIL will come to ur house n won't monitor how u live with ur husbby. According to the Bible, A man shall leave his family n be with his wife and the two will bcome 1. Am not against the MIL coming to visit but am so against her coming to stay permanently when she is not sick. What happened to her husband's house?, did her own MIL stay permanently with her in her matrimonial home?. The DIL in question did not stop her son from taking care of her. She should go take care of her hubby's house xcept she is a single mother dat never got married. My mum cannot spend 2weeks outside her late husbby's house.she will tell u to come n do whatever u want to do for her in her house cos she understands what d bible says abt marriage. 4 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Nobody: 6:41am On Oct 19, 2016 |
the MIL staying permanently won't end well.trust me. when my brother got married,my mum went there after retirement, within two weeks,she was sent back.complain was too much. we thought our brother was bad till we all married too. my mum can complain for Africa,anything we do as a couple,she will say otherwise. I stylishly told her to go too. I later saw reason with my brother. now she stays alone with house help, we give her money monthly. my MIL too was worse,she will take side with the daughter when we have argument. she wants to live with us permanently too,I told her we are traveling after omugwo.that's how she left.. MIL,and DIL can't just mix,except you don't want peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by nnamdibig(m): 7:04am On Oct 19, 2016 |
MsFaith:What pain are you talking about? I have a wife & I know how my wife & mum relates. Infact my wife sees herself as my mum's last born and mum sees her like that. |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by beedam(f): 7:09am On Oct 19, 2016 |
bilulu: 1) Must she move into their house permanently? A place can be rented/built for her and get someone to stay with her while they visit her and she visits them too. Haba! 2) if the wife's mother didn't take care of her to become the responsible gentle lady he met and admired nko? Meaning should her mother too move in because she trained her daughter? 3) it's the husband duty to pay bride price and that's why he paid it. Don't make it look like the husband did the wife a favour by marrying her as if they won't both get another person if they refuse to marry each other. I had to log on to respond to your comment too ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by beedam(f): 7:17am On Oct 19, 2016 |
HBIAFRA1: You don carry karma enter the matter? Maybe the MIL rejected her MIL too and that's why same is happening to her now ( think of it that way) The thing is why do the MIL want to move into their house? Why? Leave God out of this matter jooor! Make the lady turn to prayer warrior because of what nah. 5 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by tiswell(m): 7:43am On Oct 19, 2016 |
sisisioge:Feminist rant spot on! What is wrong with a mother living in her son's house...? If her son is good enough for you as a husband,why would the mother be different...guess you would not have had issues if it were to be the girl's mother ![]() |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by tiswell(m): 7:49am On Oct 19, 2016 |
sisisioge:You don't seem like you would make a good wife(observation),you carry the matter for head pass the lady in question haba fa! |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by tiswell(m): 7:51am On Oct 19, 2016 |
sisisioge:You seem more troublesome than the supposed *troublesome* MIL: ![]() |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by tiswell(m): 7:54am On Oct 19, 2016 |
sisisioge:More prayer sessions is needed on you because your choice of words if taken serious can wreck that marriage already. |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by mabana101: 7:56am On Oct 19, 2016 |
lollytk:am speechless 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by tiswell(m): 8:00am On Oct 19, 2016 |
sisisioge: ![]() |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by beedam(f): 8:14am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Nobody: 8:38am On Oct 19, 2016 |
D ISTANDWITHBUHAR:na the woman she marry? Sebi when they were getting married, mama too took her vows with them at the altar. The Bible aptly states that a man will leave his mother and father and cleave unto his wife alone because they are one. If mama is not terminally ill and has no one to fend for her, then there is no reason she should come and stay in her son's matrimonial home. Notice the operative word "matrimonial" no third parties involvements and mama will surely involve herself in matters that do not concern her. I wonder if people actually listen to The sermons preached during wedding ceremonies 2 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Arielle: 8:50am On Oct 19, 2016 |
AfroKnight: "The mother raised the man" ? She did a poor job otherwise he would take care of his home front and his wife's emotional needs and not look for mummy to come and live in his house when she has her own. "Nonsense" What women will put up with for the sake of being married. By God's grace, at that age I will have a full and very busy life and will have no time to go hanging on any of my sons when they should be concentrating on building a life with their wives. I am raising them well. Nigerian mothers need to check themselves. In the way they relate with their married sons and their wives and the way they raise their young sons who will be tomorrow's married men. Thank God I had a good example in my Mum. She's too busy looking after her husband, running her NGO and enjoying her life. Her 3 daughters in law are the ones looking for her to come spend time with her grandchildren. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by Peace2love: 9:04am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Did I hear troublesome? That's not enough reason, come to think of it, if it were to be her own mother won't she allow her in. Since the mother in law don't know that her son suppose to leave his father and mother and CLEAVE to his wife, she should let her come and keep pray God will intervene and give peace that she deserve in her. home. |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by adorable29(f): 9:12am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Haba mana! Why are you skeptical about your MIL coming to ruin your marriage and make your life miserable PERMANENTLY. What kind of daughter in-law are you. If she is troublesome, manage na. Is your mother not troublesome with you too. Oh okay, cos it's your mum and will never take to heart what you do to offend her? It's same circumstance jor. So what if you will never have peace again. Is it not HER SON'S HOUSE? Is it your house? What have you contributed to raising your family. NOTHING! Your fathers house is your house and not that house you are living. Nonsense. Anyway the more the merrier. Get your mum and dad to come live permanently too. I don't understand why you don't want to have high blood pressure at an early age! Warrahel is wrong with you. You married a Nigerian man. Deal with it. *sips kunu* 1 Like |
Re: Her Mother Inlaw Wants To Move In Permanently by uzoexcel(m): 9:22am On Oct 19, 2016 |
Doesn't she have a husband? I mean the mother in law? Loisemm: |
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