Please, help me out, I am in relationship with a woman and she told me that, she is having two kids, for a man who divorce her, though the man hasn't paid her dowry. And she is in love with me now. What should I do? Please help me out, should I quit the relationship or continue with her. The funniest part of it this, she wanted me to inform my parents, brothers and sisters about the children he had for another Man that's still alive but I said no until the we get married. What should I do?

do you love her? if yes, you know what to do next

I love her, my people must not be aware of such or hear such that I wanted to marry a single parent.

Love doesn't doubt, if you love her, you'd love her kids as well.

Bros marriage na black market o, na only God know the future. However you have the following to consider

-A divorcee is not someone that have a child as a youth b4 wedlock o. Its someone who have married b4 and out of disagreement separated

-She has 2 children for her exhusband (not bf) not 1

The points to note include the followings

-You want to come in between 2 people who may later reconcile thru family intervention or by themselves years later. If she had a child maybe while in sch without entering any marriage, that's better because both of you are starting afresh

-If it was one child born without wedlock as described above, you have a little contension for ur wife's attention wch may even be waved of if you love the child but 2 my dear is a bigger competition. Apart from the number sef, she once loved thier father deeply to marriage level. That love will reflect strongly in her relationship with the children and u will be the living sacrifice

A woman who has tasted marriage b4 would hardly love like she did d 1st time especially with 2 compensating kids. Shes retiring already. When she was in marriage sef she may not always like to make love to her hubby. Is it now that she is already feeling accomplished that at least she has 2 lovely children already that you want to start your own football match?

forget about the relationship

Thank you all for your good comment, I really appreciate you all......