Most men focus too much on techniques and deceptive “tricks” to attract
women. The sexual marketplace has changed quite a bit over the years, but
one thing is still true: If you just avoid the mistakes most guys make with women,
you’ll have no problem meeting women, attracting women, and getting laid...

MISTAKE 1: Bragging And Talking Too Much - This one is extremely common - Don’t make this mistake. Be
sure to turn over at least half (more is better) of the conversation to her so that she can feel included. She
also just wants to know that you’re interested in her, which means demonstrating that you can listen as well
as talk. You need to listen to hear the signals she will give you that she’s ready for you to move forward
and escalate...

MISTAKE 2: Buying Drinks And Throwing Money Around - Women don’t want to start out a conversation –
or a date – feeling like they will owe you something at the end. (And this is not how you get laid, either.)
Leave your wallet out of the equation and let her impress you based on who she is, not because she feels
obligated to pay attention to you. When you start things based on bribery, don’t be surprised when she uses
you for meals and expensive dates. You want to turn the tables so she’s coming on to you...

MISTAKE 3: Lying - A woman can tell when you’re lying. And even if you pull it off in the short-term, you’re
writing checks you can’t cash later on. She will find out eventually, and then flake out on you. There’s also
the toll that being deceptive takes on your self-image as you develop an identity as an impostor.
Stick to the truth. An occasional embellishment is forgivable - but if you start out with deception, you’re
going to destroy the connection she needs to sleep with you...

MISTAKE 4: Being Needy - Being too into her is going to kill your confidence faster than you can say “Let’s
just be friends.” Remember that the more you show someone that you need them in your life, the more they
will feel repulsed by you. If you make yourself too agreeable and “nice,” she will never feel sexually
attracted to you. So the key is to demonstrate independence and masculine confidence to her...

MISTAKE 5: Coming On Too Strong - When guys let a woman know that he’s “into her” too quickly and too
fast, this is coming on too strong - very similar to being needy. Being assertive and dominant is good,
but being over-eager is not good. One of the ways guys come on too strong is touching too much, too
soon. You should always be treating her as if she were your bratty sister. Just play it confidently cool...

MISTAKE 6: Being Meek And Timid - You’ve probably heard it a million times before - you have to show her
confidence. The key is to show her signals that you’re decisive and certain. That’s what confidence and
self-assurance look like to women. If she sees indications that you’re second-guessing yourself, you’re
going to turn her off. If you avoid showing her those signals, you’ve already won half the battle...

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