bethangel:

obviously the first one is more painful cos there could be little or nothing you can do about it
however,not being able to tell someone you love him/her is your fault, never say never.

POSAKOSA1:

NEITHER. No such thing as love.

POSAKOSA1:

NEITHER. No such thing as love.

Ebonyeyes:

I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far .

Shola2009:

I also,don't believe in love or whatever it is they call it.
but if i had to pick one, it'll be "To see the one you love, love another. "

POSAKOSA1:

hahahaha! thats a capitalistic way to look at it.  you must be a smart gal ? where are you located ?

Godmother:

Yes, seeing the one you love love another is much more painful

To see the one you love, love another.

To love someone and not being able to tell that person how you feel.

Ok, i'm mental about things

Negro_Ntns:



. . .dont worry I will thaw you out.

Ebonyeyes:

Gee thanks hun I live in the UK and they stock Valentine products just after January 1st

Negro_Ntns:

. . .a subtle mischief hidden behind a "IIcy" cold facade.

I like iicy cold girls. . .their melt is nothing like I can put in words here.  

LOL
I don't melt

Ebonyeyes:

I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far .

Shola2009:

but if i had to pick one, it'll be "To see the one you love, love another. "

FL Gators:

Search engine is not there for no reason, you know

Negro_Ntns:



This is more painful for women than it is for men. Men are generous to many, women are generous to one.


This is more painful for men than it is for women. Women are expressive and demonstrative in love, men are not. . .often we do not appreciate what we have until it is gone then we painfully regret not loving her when she was around. We mope around for few hours and then attach to the next ass that come strolling by.

some [/i]people to say

iice:

Are they painful?

You love someone, he/she loves another = happy he has someone he loves and who loves him

You love someone, you can't tell him/her = He's already in another relationship/not for relationship (relatives yuck) = Duh move on.

Ok, i'm mental about things

Are you always this IICY? . In any case, what i meant by the second question is this: You love someone, and you can't tell her. The person is not in any relationship, else why bother? That'd tantamount to what my Waffi people would call "[i]Killing body

Dr. Lorenz:

Are you always this IICY? . In any case, what i meant by the second question is this: You love someone, and you can't tell her. The person is not in any relationship, else why bother? That'd tantamount to what my Waffi people would call "Killing body"

Yes i'm always and have always been this way.
So the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't you tell her?

iice:

Yes i'm always and have always been this way.
So the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't you tell her?

Dr. Lorenz:

I wasn't talking about me iice. I was asking a general question. U don't have to be that way cus u just might make the phrase "When hell freezes over" a reality.

And i wasn't talking about you in particular. . .
To rephrase. . .so the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't he/she tell her/him?
LOL. . .well can't say i didn't expect that hell freezing over is not a nothing new to me

iice:

And i wasn't talking about you in particular. . .
To rephrase. . .so the person is not in any relationship. . .why can't he/she tell her/him?
LOL. . .well can't say i didn't expect that hell freezing over is not a nothing new to me

Dr. Lorenz:

Oh really? Then sorry. . .my bad lol.

He/She can't tell him/her because he/she hasn't really done it before, is not too sure of the response, or he/she doesn't really him/her. Wow. . . 

Am glad you expected that cus if it actually happens, you won't be surprised 

LOL don't most people not really know how the other person will respond unless you really really know the person?  Anyway, it's prolly coz i approach things like a man It doesn't take anything from me to tell someone i like him or want to date him whether his response is favorable or not.  I've said my own and moved on to next issue lol. 

Ahhh not being surprised = predictability and that bores me lol.

iice:

LOL don't most people not really know how the other person will respond unless you really really know the person?  Anyway, it's prolly coz i approach things like a man It doesn't take anything from me to tell someone i like him or want to date him whether his response is favorable or not.  I've said my own and moved on to next issue lol. 

Ahhh not being surprised = predictability and that bores me lol.

POSAKOSA1:

NEITHER. No such thing as love.

Ebonyeyes:

I agree with that sentiment. Love is a myth propagated by the entertainment and advertising industry to make us part with our money and it has been working thus far .