ItsQuinn: Maybe because their attitude stinks, Nigerian girls over there are the worst
How do their attitudes stink? you don't know them, they don't know you? Do you know how Nigerian men treat them over there? Do you know some of those men actually use them to satisfy their greed and come home to tell bad stories about them, don't assume and generalise we have to look at it from both angles
ItsQuinn: Its very understandable from your point of view .....I really don't blame Nigerian men coming back home to marry because the marriage law over there doesn't favour the man at all, which puts him in a sticky situation. I would probably do the same if i were in that situation
Marriage rate in the US is dropping every year because even white men refuse to marry their own white women. Is it now one Okoro from Umuahia that will do strong head and go and marry one karishika that will clean out his destiny after four years of marriage? Amadioha forbid bad thing.
As in! imagine all your hustle and sweat for 14years, then its now taken away from you because of a divorce which can happen in a blink of an eye. God forbid bad tin, I go just crase ehn!
Marriage rate in the US is dropping every year because even white men refuse to marry their own white women. Is it now one Okoro from Umuahia that will do strong head and go and marry one karishika that will clean out his destiny after four years of marriage? Amadioha forbid bad thing.
What about our Nigerian sisters there? Are they not marriageable? Why do they come back marry and don't come back for years?
LOL! The only reason they marry from home is that they think girls in Nigeria are less sophisticate than the ones abroad. "Sophisticate" here is complex.
Bella I'm speaking from experience so i know what I'm talking about .....Ive met a lot of Nigerian girls over there and their attitude stink like rotten fish, thats why i would rather hangout with white girls than black girls
How do their attitudes stink? you don't know them, they don't know you? Do you know how Nigerian men treat them over there? Do you know some of those men actually use them to satisfy their greed and come home to tell bad stories about them, don't assume and generalise we have to look at it from both angles
ItsQuinn: As in! imagine all your hustle and sweat for 14years, then its now taken away from you because of a divorce which can happen in a blink of an eye. God forbid bad tin, I go just crase ehn!
Do you know that most of these oyibo men commit suicide? Suicide among divorced men accounts for almost majority of suicides in the US.
But Naija men don't kill themselves o, they kill the goddamn woman. Ko ni da fun aiye alimony.
OP, what are your statiscal evidence to back up your generalization? Should I say you're arguing based on what you have been told by friends or you're actually trying to boost the morale of your fellow local girls ?
tosyne2much: OP, what are your statiscal evidence to back up your generization? Should I say you're arguing based on what you have been told by friends or you're actually trying to boost the morale of your fellow local girls ?
Damn! Dude, you are still looking for an evidence? Which school did you study in Nigeria?
tosyne2much: OP, what are your statiscal evidence to back up your generization? Should I say you're arguing based on what you have been told by friends or you're actually trying to boost the morale of your fellow local girls ?
I am not generalising I am asking the ones, which happens to be much more than the ones who don't what's their reasons.
Boost who's morale I am actually condemning girls who just jump at an abroad returnee who just wants to marry her and leave her back home.
ItsQuinn: Bella I'm speaking from experience so i know what I'm talking about .....Ive met a lot of Nigerian girls over there and their attitude stink like rotten fish, thats why i would rather hangout with white girls than black girls
Sister Bella, how you dey? . God bless your hustle oo, I see you working it....holler.
Anyhoooo,
I dont really think this is a nigerian thing. I think you see this a lot in non-western folks who live abroad.
When I was in college, I had and lived with lots of folks from India, China/taiwan/hongkong and middle eastern countries who would rather seek for mate in their own country of origin than marry a westerner.
It's just an individual thing. I am not sure there is a rhyme or reason (that makes sense) to it.
Xiadnat: Sister Bella, how you dey? . God bless your hustle oo, I see you working it....holler.
Anyhoooo,
I dont really think this is a nigerian thing. I think you see this a lot in non-western folks who live abroad.
When I was in college, I had and lived with lots of folks from India, China/taiwan/hongkong and middle eastern countries who would rather seek for mate in their own country of origin than marry a westerner.
It's just an individual thing. I am not sure there is a rhyme or reason (that makes sense) to it.
Yea I noticed it with the Asians and Indians too but we gotta admit naija own too much fa haba
They are actually running from women with tongues that say horseshit at the slightest provocation, and women that don't accept men as the natural head of the house lol,
95% of Nigerian ladies abroad both hard working ones and lazy ones love SEX far more than water Especially if you own an apartment,they would be begging you to have sex with them
bitchcrafts: You see, most of dese gyals abroad don't want to have many kids, 2 tops, most times and expect force u to understand because some bloody breasts must not sag or some battered body must not explode like a bag of beans forced to keep much more content than it should accommodate in the first place which would have been a little bit agreeable an argument if they were some artiste of some sorts or maybe model, but dear these lots are mere dishwashers or toilet keepers in some laid off to rot motels downtown. I mean, which Korect African man ain't maniacal towards having his genetic material widespread giving glory to his very manly strength, fecundity and capability? Which korect African man?
Talk2Bella: This is something I’d like to understand, are there no good Nigerian women abroad? Most Nigerian men always want to come home to marry, sometimes virgins, they tell their parents to get them wives.
They say most women abroad are just good for citizenship papers, work permit, where to stay, do they even realize they hurt these women in the process? Using them like that and running back home to get married.
THUNDER FIRE THEM{THE ONE’S WHO USE WOMEN}
I see our men, asking for Nigerian wives, having fiancée back abroad; they come home to do secret weddings, impregnate their wives here and run back to their abroad lovers, what the hell is wrong with this generation?
We need to stop this form of fraud, and slavery, people aren’t toys to be used and discarded, and the funny thing is we don’t do it to white women alone, we do it to our own African sisters, we say once they get there they change, they don’t want to come back home, they report to the police when we hit them, they lie to get the house and child support, so we want someone who would listen to us and obey our every word and then they rush back home to marry one innocent girl they want to frustrate.
I am not against genuine men who want to come home to marry MBANU, I love LOVE, but when I see a man who thinks my African sisters are baby making machines, who they want to come home and impregnate every time, who they want to use as a tool to carry on their linage then I get angry, I get angry because they see us as a commodity, I get angry because they see us as a means to an end, I get angry because love isn’t an equator in this arrangement.
I wouldn’t blame all the men either, our women have become cheap cormorants over the years, searching the air like birds, sniffing a whiff of an abroad returnee who they want to perch on, leech on, suck and bleed dry, our women have seen these NDIOYIBOS as a means to an end, all they want to do is sit down at home, he opens up a business for them, and when he comes back they open their legs like a compass and be dutiful, the womb is ready to be filled for the next nine months.
We have become sardines, cornered into a space, waiting for the biggest to be picked, and then we jeer our peers, tell them oga de for obodo oyibo, sometimes we don’t care what our abroad husbands does for a living, we just want to sit back home, enjoy his money and sometimes Bleep the ones we love while he’s away.
There are good women abroad, and this habit I am sorry to say is common among the Igbo people of Nigeria, they go abroad and hustle and want to invest back home, i have no problem with this, but who will now marry that girl you have been deceiving there? Who will heal the heart of that white woman you have been deceiving.
These white women sef, you have used your heads to carry wahala, you agreed for an arrangee wedding and then you go fall in love, how low has your esteem fallen? Why do you want to make our African men worth nothing, you have frustrated them to the extent they see you as a thing to be used and discarded, when and how did you become scums that a black man will ride and plough you until he gets tired, haba na, oyibo pepper ogini, give our men peace so they can value you, not every small thing you will call police for them and everything he has saved all his life will be yours, please I am begging this needs to stop, don’t be the tool that will be used to unscrew the nut holding you heart.
Umu woke anyi, biko, gbaraa these white women, they have suffered, pity our African sisters, they have suffered to, anywhere you see love please settle down, love doesn’t come with a manual, it doesn’t base its foundation on ethnicity, religion, color or country, its pure like water and flows effortlessly like a calm stream, don’t in your search for something better end up with a viper.
Wow on the 2nd paragraph there....is all the reason for Kenyan girls to heed advise to stay away from their high spending,sweet talking Nigerian suitors.
Let me tell you why. Because our Nigerian girls know what we know I that part of the word. Once they come into your life, they as good as the said whites. The honest truth is that African man do not want his wife to have 100% freedom and right. In western world it's not like that. Women first before men. Just girlfriend alone can make your life a living hell. Girlfriend can give you 25 kilometers away from the house you paid for or owned. Take all you worked for and they is nothing you will do. Last. A real Nigerian man eats Nigerian food even if you live in the moon. We speak Nigerian language even if you are in the sun. And our mind is always home. We always like to go to the Ruth of everything. Check family members, check life of family members, sickness and educational value too. But abroad it's hard to get all this. Hope o helped you. I tell you one thing, am still much in contact with my Nigerian babe even tho I have all the cute and classy whites and blacks females.
Cus nigerian women abroad are useeelesss. I have been there. better to be with a white woman.
Talk2Bella: This is something I’d like to understand, are there no good Nigerian women abroad? Most Nigerian men always want to come home to marry, sometimes virgins, they tell their parents to get them wives.
They say most women abroad are just good for citizenship papers, work permit, where to stay, do they even realize they hurt these women in the process? Using them like that and running back home to get married.
THUNDER FIRE THEM{THE ONE’S WHO USE WOMEN}
I see our men, asking for Nigerian wives, having fiancée back abroad; they come home to do secret weddings, impregnate their wives here and run back to their abroad lovers, what the hell is wrong with this generation?
We need to stop this form of fraud, and slavery, people aren’t toys to be used and discarded, and the funny thing is we don’t do it to white women alone, we do it to our own African sisters, we say once they get there they change, they don’t want to come back home, they report to the police when we hit them, they lie to get the house and child support, so we want someone who would listen to us and obey our every word and then they rush back home to marry one innocent girl they want to frustrate.
I am not against genuine men who want to come home to marry MBANU, I love LOVE, but when I see a man who thinks my African sisters are baby making machines, who they want to come home and impregnate every time, who they want to use as a tool to carry on their linage then I get angry, I get angry because they see us as a commodity, I get angry because they see us as a means to an end, I get angry because love isn’t an equator in this arrangement.
I wouldn’t blame all the men either, our women have become cheap cormorants over the years, searching the air like birds, sniffing a whiff of an abroad returnee who they want to perch on, leech on, suck and bleed dry, our women have seen these NDIOYIBOS as a means to an end, all they want to do is sit down at home, he opens up a business for them, and when he comes back they open their legs like a compass and be dutiful, the womb is ready to be filled for the next nine months.
We have become sardines, cornered into a space, waiting for the biggest to be picked, and then we jeer our peers, tell them oga de for obodo oyibo, sometimes we don’t care what our abroad husbands does for a living, we just want to sit back home, enjoy his money and sometimes Bleep the ones we love while he’s away.
There are good women abroad, and this habit I am sorry to say is common among the Igbo people of Nigeria, they go abroad and hustle and want to invest back home, i have no problem with this, but who will now marry that girl you have been deceiving there? Who will heal the heart of that white woman you have been deceiving.
These white women sef, you have used your heads to carry wahala, you agreed for an arrangee wedding and then you go fall in love, how low has your esteem fallen? Why do you want to make our African men worth nothing, you have frustrated them to the extent they see you as a thing to be used and discarded, when and how did you become scums that a black man will ride and plough you until he gets tired, haba na, oyibo pepper ogini, give our men peace so they can value you, not every small thing you will call police for them and everything he has saved all his life will be yours, please I am begging this needs to stop, don’t be the tool that will be used to unscrew the nut holding you heart.
Umu woke anyi, biko, gbaraa these white women, they have suffered, pity our African sisters, they have suffered to, anywhere you see love please settle down, love doesn’t come with a manual, it doesn’t base its foundation on ethnicity, religion, color or country, its pure like water and flows effortlessly like a calm stream, don’t in your search for something better end up with a viper.
you don't know them, they don't know you? Do you know how Nigerian men treat them over there? Do you know some of those men actually use them to satisfy their greed and come home to tell bad stories about them, don't assume and generalise we have to look at it from both angles
