i am a 20 year old graduate, i have two men in my life, there is one that i know loves me but cant stand his looks so do everything to frusrtate him, i got entangled on the internet n we had already started dating by the time i meet him so every little thing he does is an issue for me, the other guy i have only seen once n i really lyk doesnt live in nigeria, hes from a wealthy family n im makin plans to visit him but he has not said anything abt money to pay for me fare or for my passport, i dont even know if i like any of these tow guys. and the second guy is already fallin in love. what do i do i need to do something fast and gett my mind to my professional exam in december

Grrrrr. Asinine

buttie:

i am a 20 year old graduate, i have two men in my life, there is one that i know loves me but  cant stand his looks so  do everything to frusrtate him,  i got entangled on the internet n we had already started dating by the time i meet him so every little thing he does is an issue for me,  the other guy i have only seen once n i really lyk doesnt live in nigeria, hes from a wealthy family n im makin plans to visit him but he has not said anything abt money to pay for me fare or for my passport, i dont even know if i like any of these tow guys. and the second guy is already fallin in love. what do i do i need  to do something fast and gett my mind to my professional exam in december

Why string along Guy No.1 if you dont like him like that?  Is it not better to break up with him or are there benefits you get from stringing him along? Guy No.2 is abroad abi? The euphoria is still there lemme tell you abroad guys are not all that, he probably is living with his obese white wife that he married for papers.

Ebonyeyes:

Why string along Guy No.1 if you dont like him like that? Is it not better to break up with him or are there benefits you get from stringing him along? Guy No.2 is abroad abi? The euphoria is still there lemme tell you abroad guys are not all that, he probably is living with his obese white wife that he married for papers.

what a silly mentality. . . If i talk now, dem go say make i apologise. . . But seriously, EbonyAnya, u need to grow up.

20 yr old graduate from a Nigerian higher institution
You are 2 young to be entagled in all this love triangle. Stay focused by first getting yourself a good job and all the good things shall come willy nilly afterwards.
are your hormones jumping uncontrollably around

whitelexi:

what a silly mentality. . . If i talk now, dem go say make i apologise. . . But seriously, EbonyAnya, u need to grow up.

Excuse you The name is Ebonyeyes son.

jay bee:

20 yr old graduate from a Nigerian higher institution
You are 2 young to be entagled in all this love triangle. Stay focused by first getting yourself a good job and all the good things shall come willy nilly afterwards.

preach it, that's just the thing to do

buttie:

i am a 20 year old graduate, i have two men in my life, there is one that i know loves me but cant stand his looks so do everything to frusrtate him, i got entangled on the internet n we had already started dating by the time i meet him so every little thing he does is an issue for me, the other guy i have only seen once n i really lyk doesnt live in nigeria, hes from a wealthy family n im makin plans to visit him but he has not said anything abt money to pay for me fare or for my passport, i dont even know if i like any of these tow guys. and the second guy is already fallin in love. what do i do i need to do something fast and gett my mind to my professional exam in december

It is better you focus on your career first and be an independent woman before you start jumping into all these love issues. Graduating at that young age is a plus for you so forge ahead and every other thing will come along the way.

Ebonyeyes:

Why string along Guy No.1 if you dont like him like that?  Is it not better to break up with him or are there benefits you get from stringing him along? Guy No.2 is abroad abi? The euphoria is still there lemme tell you abroad guys are not all that, he probably is living with his obese white wife that he married for papers.

Some is the keyword dear though your advice was spot on and truthful  about the abroad guys mentality

whitelexi:

what a silly mentality. . . If i talk now, dem go say make i apologise. . . But seriously, EbonyAnya, u need to grow up.

LOL  , But she said 'probably'  nawn . .   

jay bee:

20 yr old graduate from a Nigerian higher institution
You are 2 young to be entagled in all this love triangle. Stay focused by first getting yourself a good job and all the good things shall come willy nilly afterwards.
are your hormones jumping uncontrollably around

@ Poster:

Listen to him girl . .  his word are wise ones! 

Pharoh:

Some is the keyword dear though your advice was spot on and truthful  about the abroad guys mentality

Yes I should have said some

Ebonyeyes:

Yes I should have said some

Good but i watch you for the sake of next time sha

@Poster it seems you are the one planning the meeting with the guy abroad which is not right. Both of you should plan it after making up your mind to meet. Are you visiting for a short stay or relocating abroad to be with him? You should make your passport yourself and i believe he is going to help you with the transport fare and accomodation bill. Warning abroad is not what you think it is, gives us more info so we can advice you well.

omokekere olojukokoro

C2H5OH:

omokekere olojukokoro

She said maybe she might not even like the two guys abi na one guy?

u are just a gold digger. omokekere olokokoro

@ OP DO NOT FOCUS on your professional exams, FOCUS on those two men and see who picks you in the end ok?

you try.

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