Growth is never symmetrical with all that is about us.
It is quite easy to see people grow in affluence but remain with the same understanding and mental level, but when our reasoning is not commensurate to our societal status there will be a great clash of civilizations.
The lack of respect for people is therapeutic and a great help to the society but it is actually not fare to all concerned.
Nobody is asking Flavour to come to this advanced level of argument where we have to critically ask of the implications and the reasons or consequences of carrying an opposite hormones in you that makes you respond only to people of same sex.
The least one can task him is to remember that in a society like ours he is as guilty as Chidinma when a full grown adult opens his body for the sake of money and fame.

There is no religion practiced at least vigorously in Nigeria that allows a man to be half naked in public.
The same American culture that allows Flavour to be halve naked in Public because of fame and money allows Chidinma to Marry another woman.
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