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Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by epelumi42(m): 10:06pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
Frankly, I don't understand why many young girls and boys wanna get into a relationship so badly. Yeah, talk about signs of puberty. Whatever. If you can't point to anything tangible apart from love and sex, then the relationship is so unnecessary. Why? The chances of you ending up together is as slim as Obama coming to Nigeria as USA president. And when you break up, you end up heartbroken and you start searching for love again. Relationships should be an avenue for you to change, become a better person. Let your partner be a motivation. Develop each other. I avoided relationships till now because of that. If the woman I'm with can't get better or help me get better, what's the point. We can't just make love all day. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
Exclusive friendship . The love most people talk about this days....pure fake. And I don't see the whole fuss about sex. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by zyzxx(m): 10:12pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
One of the reason I choose to be single. What will a lady give me? Else they collect my money waste my time? That was all my thinking then 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by zyzxx(m): 10:14pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
mhiz:on point, pure fake |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by natsuDragneel: 10:45pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
Like, love, lust... There's a thin line between these And most people don't know the difference Luckily(or most times unfortunately), Time will always eventually tell even if the couple can't tell |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by epelumi42(m): 10:47pm On Nov 03, 2016 |
mhiz: Yeah. They think it's about looks or whatever. Love is so deep that you just gotta understand it first. |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by elkon(m): 12:21am On Nov 04, 2016 |
not love but lust... anyway its depends on the age sha nd d maturity. .. for m I love m life nd I can't allow one bitch just cum nd downgrade m.. If I see dt m joystick need services I go kari olosho wat else |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by Nobody: 12:57am On Nov 04, 2016 |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by epelumi42(m): 9:27am On Nov 04, 2016 |
elkon: Olosho? Safe practice abeg o. |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by VERDA: 10:39am On Nov 04, 2016 |
mhiz: I think the bigger problem is that most people have no idea what love is,often atimes they equate love to strong feelings for the beloved which usually happens when we become attracted to,invested in and committed to the beloved which most people then term "falling in love".This feeling of falling in love is really as a result of our very strong psycholigical and biological needs being met by the beloved.Our psychological need to escape loneliness and our biological need for sexual gratification and survival of the specie.True love transcends ephemiral feelings,it is an act of choice," the WILL to extend ourselves for the purpose of nuturing our growth and that of the beloved.While these feelings of falling in love is euphoric and desirable,and since we cannot really nuture our beloves growth without truly knowing him/her,the process of being attracted to,invested in and commited to the beloved associated with the feeling of "falling in love" is important in romantic relationships.I would conclude therefore by stating that while "falling in love" is not in itself real love,it is part of the great and mysterious scheme of love.THE PURPOSE OF A RELATIONSHIP IS NOT TO HAVE ANOTHER WHO MIGHT COMPLETE YOU BUT TO HAVE ANOTHER WITH WHOM YOU CAN SHARE YOUR COMPLETENESS.You cannot share your completeness if you are not complete and the first purpose of love is to nuture your own completeness.REAL LOVE IS HARD WORK AND REQUIRES COURAGE. |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by Nobody: 11:26am On Nov 04, 2016 |
Definitely for sex and company, nothing else 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by vicjess(m): 12:43pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Just to gossip! I like guys that gossip 1 Like |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by rose54321: 12:56pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
Companionship, now that can include affection, lead to love , etc. Nobody wants to be alone, it is downright boring. |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by Gee645(m): 1:39pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
ur case need championing. LWK vicjess: |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by LOUIS6(m): 8:43pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
vicjess: I sent PM..... Check ur mail |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by epelumi42(m): 9:24pm On Nov 04, 2016 |
vicjess: I'm laughing really hard here. Gossip? Really? |
Re: Why Do You Get In A Relationship? Love? Sex? What? by LOUIS6(m): 2:11am On Nov 05, 2016 |
vicjess: I Sent Pm..... Check ur mail |
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