Stats: 3,191,477 members, 7,944,376 topics. Date: Monday, 09 September 2024 at 03:21 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single (845 Views)
Could I Be Responsible For The Pregnancy? / How Guys Are Responsible For Increase Of Prostitutes In Nigeria - Lady Reveals / Here Are 3 Reasons Why Girls Keep Friendzoning You- Number 3 Will Shock You. (2) (3) (4)
3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by chocxblaze1(m): 12:52pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
If you really want a relationship and you aren't getting any yet, one of the reasons stated here might be why. If you are single and ready to mingle, and nothing is happening yet, you'll often wonder what the problem is. You friends might tell you stuff like "the guys in your neighborhood have to either be blind, dumb, or both to pass up the opportunity to have you." They could be right with that statement, and they just might be totally off the mark, for sometimes, the problem is not with others, but with you. If you do regularly engage in the following things, then it might be safe to say that you bear some culpability for that prolonged, undesired state of singleness you're in now. 1 You have absurd requirements If you need a partner and your mental requirements are just outrageous and totally unreasonable, then you have to know that getting into a relationship will very likely be difficult for you. 2 You don't put yourself out there If you always vote for staying indoors rather than going out and engaging in activities every once in a while, then you could find it difficult to get what you want. If you are always saying no to suggestions to go out to events and gatherings, you are getting it wrong. Be outgoing, get involved in a reasonable amount of activities, chances of meeting someone will be increased in that way, instead of waiting for Miss Right to come meet you right on your bed, in your dog-guarded house. If the problem is that you are scared or shy of meeting new people, then you have to somehow overcome that fear. 3 Terrific on social media, terrible in reality One of the downsides of having social media in this age is that people are now 'live all all their lives' on social media, forgetting how to actually relate and converse with people in real life. If you are a really friendly, easy-to-relate-with, humorous, witty person on social media, you have to balance that by being just as good, [or at least, very close to that] in real life. This is because at some point, that girl you are chatting and vibing with on social media will expect to see you a date. source http://www.godwingist.com/2016/11/3-reasons-why-you-are-responsible-for.html 1 Like 1 Share
|
Re: 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by ayoolasunkanmi: 1:07pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT HOPE THE ADVICE IS TAKEN 1 Like |
Re: 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by Zackpraise(m): 1:54pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
hmmm Am Guilty of NumBer 2 |
Re: 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by queencalipso(f): 2:56pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Guilty of number 2, I need to increase my going out.. ![]() |
Re: 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by nancyberry(f): 5:25pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
guilty of number 2. |
Re: 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by Lovelynature(m): 5:27pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Making sense |
Re: 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by Yewandequeen(f): 7:57pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Going out ![]() Its boring going out alone especially when ure in aplace u dont V close friends. |
Re: 3 Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Being Single by chigbolu: 8:12pm On Nov 08, 2016 |
Am guilty of 2 and 3 especially 3, gat to be more of neo and less of Mr Anderson
|
(1) (Reply)
Who Remembers This Love Text Back In The Days / A Nigerian Man Has Cancelled His Wedding 2 Days To The Wedding / Marriage Dilemma. Housewife Potential, Zero Career Prospect
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 18 |