Laveda:
Now this is just sad.. So the woman died due to her husband's cheating ways.

I don't if there's anyway she can protect herself, the best is running monthly Hiv test once you notice your husband is cheating..

WomanOfRace:


so she can live on drugs if she finally contacts it?

Laveda:


Maybe, but that's the only help I can think of.

You don't expect her to deny her husband sex, or ask him to use condom everytime they wanna make love..

Don't you think?

WomanOfRace:


Honestly, to imagine HIV scares me talk of having a consideration how to handle a possible one. It's like waiting for a pullet. I think the best is to quit the marriage if he won't use condom. Him telling me he changed will be a story for the gods because you can never trust a Casanova. I can only do it in the next available room in a hospital after the confirmation of negative result. How would i know if he makes use of condom with them?

Laveda:


Are you a Nigerian? Quitting a marriage isn't that easy.
And what if you don't know your husband cheats? Cause some men are so good that they live to trace.
Always running a test is the best I think, what if you haven't concieved? You'll continue using condom? And what if there's no available one? and morning sex? That's if he wants, you'll go searching for condom?

Dear please, marriages don't run like a boyfriend and girlfriend thingy, the best thing is just being watchful.

WomanOfRace:
My aunty who got married to her husband in her late 30s died 4years later after her marriage. She gave birth to two beautiful kids now at home with their granny though those kids are healthy.

She was a very strong christian and lovely woman. She found out her husband was with AIDS only when he had infected her and down sick with it. She died few months later after the husband died.

Women are going through a lot as some knew their man flirts but couldn't protect themselves from contacting Sexual Transmitted Diseases. At times, giving the man pack of condom is out of book as they prefer it skin to skin with their numerous girls.

How can a woman protect herself from a Casanova husband? is it possible?

Booheema:
Oh! Very painful. Only God can protect one from such men....

IAmOged:


The best way is to never even get involve in..the first place let alone getting married.

Dont marry a cheater, he/she will always cheat.....a case of the mistery scorpion and the frog story......


liken to this case; a fire doesnt start without a smoke....


I guess your late sis is a Drama Queen who finds joy in marrying a Cassanova/Bad guy/unserious Apha Male who could thrill and fulfill her pain-pleasure fantasy



She suppose don fix these in the hard way before its get out of hand like dis.....


drastic action needs to be taken before being drown........


RIP to the Dead....

dingbang:
Someone who loves himself will always test himself for sexually transmitted dieases often.




In light of this, though I may get all pissed, it's good for partners to test themselves once in a while. I wouldn't advise the woman to go front her man demanding for a test as it would be a very bad idea but she should go through their family doctor who will advise him.

chris2face:
That's bad RIP to the dead


Best thing is just to stay faithful to one another

WomanOfRace:


you are right. A woman openly demanding for a test could breed trouble and if the man is a violent , stubborn type, may even beat her up, rape her and still do nothing about it. I wonder why all this has to end up on a woman's laps.

Laveda:


Are you a Nigerian? Quitting a marriage isn't that easy.
And what if you don't know your husband cheats? Cause some men are so good that they live to trace.
Always running a test is the best I think, what if you haven't concieved? You'll continue using condom? And what if there's no available one? and morning sex? That's if he wants, you'll go searching for condom?

Dear please, marriages don't run like a boyfriend and girlfriend thingy, the best thing is just being watchful.

dingbang:
lol its the same too for d man as well. Ah mean I can't imagine myself going to the woman i'v married and be hinting on her to do hiv test. She will change it for me. She will be like, come dingbang dis one wey u dey pesterize me make I do hiv test abi u Don go infect me with hiv?



You knw u women.. always wanting to play d defensive side.



So don't think it all falls under the woman's cards. Recently I got slimmed down and I went to visit my mum, she started bombarding me with annoying questions and demanded I go to d doctor. I knew wat she really meant buh still I was pissed off she thought Dat way. I just went to do d blood test and gave her d result and told her are u now satisfied...


Since In the result, there was hiv negative written on it.


So irrespective of gender, anyone will always feel this sense of distrust from their partner.

dingbang:
lol its the same too for d man as well. Ah mean I can't imagine myself going to the woman i'v married and be hinting on her to do hiv test. She will change it for me. She will be like, come dingbang dis one wey u dey pesterize me make I do hiv test abi u Don go infect me with hiv?



You knw u women.. always wanting to play d defensive side.



So don't think it all falls under the woman's cards. Recently I got slimmed down and I went to visit my mum, she started bombarding me with annoying questions and demanded I go to d doctor. I knew wat she really meant buh still I was pissed off she thought Dat way. I just went to do d blood test and gave her d result and told her are u now satisfied...


Since In the result, there was hiv negative written on it.


So irrespective of gender, anyone will always feel this sense of distrust from their partner.

Berbierklaus:
[b]I keep reiterating it that any woman who died because they are married to wife beaters or cheaters have themselves to blame,(God will not exonerate you of hell fire with the excuse of i was battered to death or contacted terminal disease from the husband you gave me,meanwhile the husband can ask for forgiveness and still make heaven,so who lose)enough of the pity party,it has not done anybody any good.

A happy home is not by force,if he is not working towards it,then it cannot happen.
Walk away with your life,at least you will be alive to take care of your kids

I read a post the other day on Facebook,how a woman died after sustaining serious injuries from the battering her husband gave her...She bleed to death right in the house,he took her dead body to the hospital only for the doctor to confirm she died on arrival. Family members said they already asked her to come back home,but she kept going back because of the children,won't the children suffer worst fate now that she is dead


I have no sympathetic words for you OP,hope you are wiser.Walk away while you can still breath,else your body will be carried away.

RIP to your aunty[/b]

WomanOfRace:


Nice write up....

nooooooo i'm just 26 single me and not the woman it happened to. It happened to my aunt and both are dead now.

Berbierklaus:

Sorry for your loss dear,this story is just an eye opener,I hope other ladies will read and wise up.

The age of "I must die there"is over.

Berbierklaus:

Sorry for your loss dear,this story is just an eye opener,I hope other ladies will read and wise up.

The age of "I must die there"is over.

ikp120:
Lalasticlala

WomanOfRace:


Do you think asking a doctor will work? You guys can be stubborn you know....

Do you think asking a doctor will work? You guys can be stubborn you know.... Imagine the doctor calling you over for a test just like that. That is trouble itself.

WomanOfRace:

You are widely known for this trademark

dingbang:
lol d man will be like, has my wife gotten infected dah won't go down well...




So what is the best way to make a spouse get tested

dingbang:
lol d man will be like, has my wife gotten infected dah won't go down well...




So what is the best way to make a spouse get tested

WomanOfRace:


Honestly i don't know. May be mistakenly bite him hard enough during the show

Honestly i don't know. May be mistakenly bite him hard enough during the show then find your way with the blood sample; whatever that happens after the bite....you are on your own.

Well,it is just very hard.