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Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Nobody: 8:59am On Jan 04, 2017 |
dacblogger: Arrange dat face jor. Anyway I saw how you carried your friend's matter on your head dat night, so maybe you're just/really a nice girl at heart. But just have it at the back of your mind that, you really don't have to be nice to anybody and everybody you come across, sometimes you gats make sure they've earned it. That way you learn to let out only the best parts of you to only those you find truly deserving of it. 1 Like |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by dacblogger: 5:53pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
CorGier:so sorry, I guess I was busy that day, buh I liked your post tho |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Omoluabi16(m): 6:55pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
dacblogger:I am in your shoes too. Just 3 days ago, I was calculating/reflecting on my 'goodness' and niceties to strangers friends and families over the years. I have seen nil benefits.Are these rewards of being a good person intangible, or it is still coming. I ponder, do I go all bad? heartless? been xxtra stingy and not giving a f. But then.. I can't help myself from being kind, giving whatsoever help I can.Probably you too. it's what define us as a person. you may try being a baddo and get your fingers burnt. Just keep being real, be yourself and asssure yourself the only reward you may get for being kind is seeing smiles on the faces of others, and try to derive satisfaction in it. Knowing you put that smile on their face. Still... I believe you'll get your reward someday. Hope I made little sense?? 1 Like |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by dacblogger: 8:04pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
Omoluabi16:sure, thanks |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
dacblogger: *smiles. |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Sonn(m): 9:14pm On Jan 07, 2017 |
i read it somewhere that the only investment that will never fail to pay you is KINDNESS. again' always be kind to the people you meet on your way climbing a ladder' because you might still meet them on your way falling down.. don't ever think of been a bad person' it doesn't pay well' it pays badly... |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by odysey: 10:15am On Jan 17, 2017 |
dacblogger: Don't change who you are because of anything Stay strong and patient that's if you ain't bad yet |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by TeeFriz: 2:49pm On Jan 20, 2017 |
dacblogger: Being nice doesn't end up good in Nigeria especially You are always taken for a ride |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by phililp(m): 10:21am On May 11, 2017 |
boynigeria: i azmire ur intellect |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by MrCork: 11:40pm On May 21, 2017 |
dacblogger: |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by MrCork: 11:41pm On May 21, 2017 |
dacblogger:STORY...are u lightskin? |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Eveezy(m): 11:47pm On May 21, 2017 |
My mom always tell me "u do good, u do for urself" infact she sings it to me. Dont expect any reward frm human for every good u do. Just do wat u feel is right, nd if people dnt appreciate it, u let dem be, as long as yr conscience is satisfied 2 Likes |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by iweecureyou: 2:19am On May 22, 2017 |
MrCork:lieskin lieskin lieskin.u wee luukin for lieskin till ya die keep wanking on lieskin bus. 1 Like |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Tompeters(m): 8:38am On May 22, 2017 |
dacblogger:U're right... It happens to me a lot.... But my conscience will not let me go d wrong way..... So just keep being urself |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by pkang: 10:06am On May 22, 2017 |
dacblogger: The difference btwn u and others is that u 1. Wait for divine things to happen good tho 2. Going too direct kind of bad because people don't like being direct to them 3. Too optimistic yet not taking actions and waiting for the right time while action takers get what they want. 4. Maybe u are introvert or shy in nature and always have a pattern which u see as being right rather than having alternatives. 5. You don't associate enough to learn how people think and do things. 6. You think with education everything u can do n reason while it's not always so 7. You are passionate about love and always dream and fantasize u and a guy while u keep a face that scare potential nice guys Might be wrong tho but either ways, do things that make u happy, go to places that u will get fun. Be open. |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Nobody: 10:24am On May 22, 2017 |
Be gud... Not bcx u want some little kindness in return from life... Bad things happen to good ppl.. Gud things happen to bad ppl... 1 Like |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by Nobody: 11:29am On May 22, 2017 |
Having similar issues too. You sacrifice a lot to make people happy, you are still not appreciated, in relationships, you are so loving, caring and make sacrifices too but you still get treated as a side chick while d bad girls there are having it all ? I really wonder if it pays to be good. No one is perfect (at least not 100%) but you get d trashy treatment when you err, no one considers d good qualities in you. They only see d flaws, no matter how hard u make sacrifices. It can be really frustrating but it pays to be good in the long run. |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by stevecantrell: 1:11pm On May 22, 2017 |
dacblogger: I can assure you that if you went "bad"...your troubles would only increase. Such is the plight of genuinely nice people. Hang in there but dont let anyone take advantage of your considerate nature. |
Re: There Is Nothing To Gain From Being A Good Person.. by newslifeop: 1:14pm On May 22, 2017 |
why |
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