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Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 12:13am On Nov 12, 2016 |
story is long pls bear with me, i started dating him 2013 aug, things were amazing but the guy hates so many things i dont like this top i dont like this panties i dont like your hair i dont like the food so on and so forth This guy gets irritated by things easily, i managed because i love him, when i am going to his house, i have to be mindful of panties, top, ear-rings,bra type and even shoe i was thinking that it was just me till i met his ex same thing, she told me how he will be irritated because she went to pee before sex , i was frustrated and tired but he is a sweet guy and good in bed, so i chilled hoping to make myself his dream woman, then he got tired of phone, he will not be online on whatsapp for weeks or months, calls self he wont pick, i felt that he was running from me, so i called his sister and she said that his mum has been complaining, i survived that one too, then came my behaviour in public , he changed my life totally, i cant pee without tissue, i cant eat in a bus, i cant use bike, i cant walk on the road anyhow, i cant hang out at certain places The guy was a serious control freak but his rules were actually to make me more classy and to be honest they impacted my life positively till today but the mental torture, i couldn't leave him because i was hooked and obsessed with his moulding of my life, he doesn't like sex but when he does it , he is romantic and perfect but just the moulding was my problem because he doesn't just advice and tell you, he explains how its wrong and makes you feel stupid for doing what he is talking about in the first place months later……. I heard that he was cheating, i didn't believe until i met the girl and the moment she started describing how demanding he is! I just fell on the ground crying, he was my world, my potter, i couldn't break up with him because i wasn't strong emotionally, i broke my sim, traveled, deleted all my social accounts and went to hide at my aunties house to cry my heart out for months, i suffered this pain for 6months because of him, i will usually call him with a friends phone put it on private just to hear his voice, it was a really bad experience till this moment i still love him, i am in a relationship now but i just needed to tell someone my story 6 Likes |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:19am On Nov 12, 2016 |
It's all OK... Once in our lifetime we made mistakes. But u let ur bf abused u emotionally & psychologically which can leave u in trauma... U have to try and help urself.. One step at a time and besides ur in a relationship now,why don't u focus with ur new man instead keep going back to ur ugly past? 4 Likes |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 12:21am On Nov 12, 2016 |
TrapQueen77:sometimes when my bf behaves indifferent to my actions, i start to question his love for me, my ex really scarred me |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:24am On Nov 12, 2016 |
you girls dey suffer sha sorry oooo 3 Likes |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by chibwike(m): 12:24am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Falling in love is cool....buh it has got its own consequences it hurts. |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:24am On Nov 12, 2016 |
some guys are like that tho..I must say a controlling partner is an incredibly difficult partner they hardly appreciate their partner but atimes you find yourself loving them more this is crazy but it happens lol move on dear losing him to someone else is never the end... another will come |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:25am On Nov 12, 2016 |
] Awwwwwwwe! Really, really SAD. I'm glad you're over him though. he's such a scumbag for cheating. Anyhoo, I'm glad you did the right thing. Erasing all traces of Your existence was a bit too extreme tho. I mean, the cheating bastard wasn't worth it. why are you the one to suffer while he enjoys some other girl's juices without feeling a tiny chunk of what you're feeling? SMH. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iambijo(m): 12:26am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Hmmn "he does'nt like sex but when he does it" she's missing the D 7 Likes |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 12:27am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 12:29am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Estharfabian:i had to, i will have gone back to him and beg i didn't have the emotional power to look at his pictures or see his call and not pick |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:31am On Nov 12, 2016 |
iamDaisy:] I totally get. cheers to being free! |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:32am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Date good and ugly bois like Jarìzod u no go gree..na form form u go dey form because u get good YANSHHHHHHH and round fine booobsi Na only fine Bois una go dey follow even if he dey beat u..na he go change u go dey shout upandan On a more serious note.. Leave the mofo and go for someone that deserves you!sorry about all u had to go through.. it's painful really and I hope u find someone better..be happy..Life goes on he's just another piece of shìt u had to pass through to get to yo Prince charming 1 Like |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:34am On Nov 12, 2016 |
iamDaisy: lol my ex was like that I loved him for that lol its normal you still ganna miss that impact he added but then u have to move on |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Nobody: 12:39am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Should i say your ex is a perfectionist. Those guys who act like they don't like sex...fear them. 3 Likes |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by adepiero: 1:04am On Nov 12, 2016 |
The girls commenting so far don't understand your story. Virtually every guy has the trait your ex portrayed but his was extreme and luckily it worked out well for you. Your new BF will be enjoying the upgrade. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by BiafranBushBoy: 1:07am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Mtcheewwww 1 Like |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by Bunker1(m): 1:24am On Nov 12, 2016 |
you met his Ex? you didn't say what caused they break up...he is not your first man, you might have left someone. the point of the whole thing is, the more guys you date, the more you compare them, and the more complicated your life... 3 Likes |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by vicstar(m): 1:33am On Nov 12, 2016 |
damn! U miss that dìck, u can go back and hit it one time y'all like controllas |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by MackBrooklyn: 6:50am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Story for the gods Well, it's a good thing those after your panties here will also know a thing or two about you though |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by ojay2053(m): 10:01am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Yup, that was Mr. Classic, he upgraded you, cool. Every man has his own traits, sure men are polygamous in nature. I feel yo pain girl, it's experience we gain in life, deal with it. |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by IamLEGEND1: 10:20am On Nov 12, 2016 |
in spite of the years he wasted 'MOULDING' you,he still wasn't able to make you stand straight when taking pictures. That fucka has failed in life. |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by jashar(f): 10:39am On Nov 12, 2016 |
you should throw a thanksgiving parry that God have free thee from captivity. Venue please |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 10:44am On Nov 12, 2016 |
judeefcc:hahaha yes we do but we always come out stronger 1 Like |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 10:46am On Nov 12, 2016 |
chibwike:Exactly his intentions were good but he method of application was aggressive and emotionally harmful, that aside he still remains my best bf ever. |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 10:49am On Nov 12, 2016 |
iambijo:We girls hate guys that want sex every time At least most of us don't like it, so when we meet a man who isn't all about sex its a welcoming attribute i still miss him i wont deny that, he was calm and nasty when he wants to, that was soul melting. 1 Like |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 10:50am On Nov 12, 2016 |
Jarizod:hahaha maybe because we haven't been opputuned to come across eachother |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 10:52am On Nov 12, 2016 |
asuo27:Yea!!! wants you to not have flaws, i get that and understand but the way he goes about instilling it upon me was my problem. |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iambijo(m): 11:42am On Nov 12, 2016 |
iamDaisy:owk |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by chibwike(m): 11:48am On Nov 12, 2016 |
iamDaisy:he cant be your best bf ever... you havent even met other great guys. |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by samdavjustin(m): 12:47pm On Nov 12, 2016 |
Some ladies are just dumb. This is what happens when you don't know what you want in a man. Know your specs and stick to it. You claiming he molded you but you can meet another guy who doesn't like the way he molded you. 1 Like |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by iamDaisy(f): 1:59pm On Nov 12, 2016 |
samdavjustin:I know what i want and he was obviously it, i simply counldn't bear the emotional torture that came with him. |
Re: Demanding Boyfriend; My Story by schumastic(m): 2:18pm On Nov 12, 2016 |
after reading this story I just smiled n thought of the guy n am like--what a bad guy..all those principles he laid down for the next guy..anyhow, every mallam with his own kettle..op am glad u v moved on o n before I forget, every sex with the new guy or girl will b tag as the best sex ever..we v been there before 1 Like |
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