You are thinking about marriage, and you are wondering how the girl you’re dating will differ from the woman you are going to marry.

When you are younger and not thinking about marriage, you might date a girl or woman based on how attractive she is. You probably are not bothered with the maturity and intelligence of the individual, all you know is you are attracted to her.

There is a difference between the girl you date and the woman that will end up being your Mrs – The words girl and woman cannot be used interchangeably and it does not have any relation with the biological age of a person.

What I refer to here is the level of maturity, stage of life and her vision regarding life. There are certain people who just never grow up and that highlights the differences between the girl you date and the woman you marry.

This does not mean that your woman won’t have those immature “girlish” tendencies or vice versa. But the excess of those tendencies is what can be defined as immaturity.

If you are married, you will have realized that the girl you dated is different from the woman you married. This does not mean she changed completely, it means that her priorities and perspective about life and marriage will improve in many ways. Hopefully, for the better.

Now, what makes her different? Here are 10 differences between the girl you dated and the woman you married.

1. The girl you date loves you for the financial support and security she can get from you. She always expects something expensive especially when she gives you a gift or does you a favour.

The woman you marry is with you because she believes in you and the fact that both you will be able to build a strong financial cushion together. She does things for you just because she loves you, not because she wants something in return.

2.The girl you date always puts herself first. She is not bothered about your career, your future or your vision in life. All she cares about is herself.

The woman you marry cares about your future and career as well as hers. She balances your plan and hers to make sure it works together and you both achieve your goals in life.

3. The girl you date is overly conscious about her appearance and the attention she gets from other men.

The woman you marry is only interested in being attractive to the man she married. She is not bothered about petty things and she is not narcissistic. She understands that real beauty emanates from within.

4. The girl you date[b] doesn’t trust you enough to reveal are most guarded secrets.[/b]

The woman you marry will have a problem hiding things from you. She knows and believes that honesty is the best policy. She expects you to be understanding and mature, so she trusts you completely.

5.The girl you date believes she knows everything and that she is always right. She is not opened to learn new things.

The woman you marry is willing to learn new things, learn from her mistakes, and knows there is always room for improvement.


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Good one! But sometimes it doesn't do well to tell us all your secrets o..only the important ones

Trash!

Sometimes, the reverse is the case for some unfortunate guys.