I think I have created a monster and now its coming round to bite me. I met my girlfriend sometime in 2012. Hoping to get married to her next year.

I've always been a lover of thick women especially those with big behind. For that single reason, a majority of my ex are either yoruba or from akwa ibom or cross river state. In 2012, I met my current girlfriend. She was slim. No big behind, average boobs. I never liked slim girls but her intelligence and personality drew me to her. Before I knew it I was asking her out. She finally agreed to date me and our relationship has been fantastic since then.

Sometime in 2014, she started adding weight, she wanted to start working out to burn out the fat but I refused. I told her how much I love her new size and wished she could add a little more flesh because I actually love thick girls. She insisted on working out and loosing weight, I refused. Instead I kept insisting she added a little more weight. Everybody in her family and her friends were yabbing her that she was becoming fat but I still insisted she added a little more weight. At least to Omotola's size. Even though she doesn't have Omotola's kind of booty, I'll be contented with having some flesh to hold on to when I cuddle.

Fast forward to 2015, she travelled to the US for her masters so the only way we could communicate was via phone calls and skype. She kept complaining that she was adding weight and that she wanted to subscribe to a weight loss plan but from the pics she sent to me. I felt she was ok n told her there was no need for that.

To cut the long story short, she'll be visiting Nigeria this December but the recent full photos she sent to me are not encouraging at all. She has added so much weight. She no longer looks as exciting to me as she used to be. For a girl with no behind and average boobs, the fat makes her look so shapeless. I dont know how to start telling her to loose weight now because I started this whole shiit. She'll be rounding up by May next year and when she comes back I'll want us to start making preparations for marriage but I don’t think I can cope with this her new size. I really love her and want to marry her.

How do I tell her to loose weight without hurting her feelings because she's very sensitive

poor presentation #mnga

The only way u can help her is to be involved personally in what ever weight loss programme she subscribes to. So u sef go no say e no easy.
When one is in the process of adding weight you must also be working out so you can be in control just in case. But did u allow her to have control? Nah u went ahead and pushed her "trailer" down a slope with no brakes now your wooded wedge can't stop the momentum.
Marry ur woman like that abeg.

Guy, u lack contentment... Learn to appreciate whatever u have.

Go & register urself & her in a gym center... Start going now, so that it will be easier for her to follow up when she arrives. My 2naira

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u don't love her then because if u truly do u won't mind her size

Deji47 and gabinogem thanks. I'll register both of us at the gym and get us to work out together

MzzAyo I truly love her

Let her come back first and see how does she really look like in person... Then u decide if that's what u really want her to be..

U know we ladies, we have a very sensitive ego so whatever u gonna say even in a slightest way, she will definitely get hurt but there's no way around.. U have to tell her straight up.

to lose weight you need to born calories and reduce ur food consumption.so she shud start taking oolong tea morning and night and also register at a gym and workout at least 3 days a week,on the other days do light exercises like taking walks and swimming.believe me in a month you wud see a huge difference

you have to join her in the process,that wud encourage her and give her confidence

Guys and their wahala,I blame your g.f for listening 2 you in the first place.

Pictures of her b4 and after. Or d whole story was a crab.

This is one extremely annoying dude

I think our busy schedule and not seeing each other made her add too mich weight. If we were seeing often, I guessed I would have stopped her when I noticed she was going way over.

Let me not make excuses. This is totally my fault so I have to accept full responsibity for this and fix it.

To those who gave positive contributions, thank you. To those who couldn't do anything but insult me, I hope you feel good about yourself?

Her pictures or I don't believe it