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What is the right age to introduce sex education to a child. 2, 3, 5 or 10 years ? At what age does he start learning about him self or opposite sex?

A 2 year old boy sketched a nude image of one Aunty Eti-Abasi on the wall of their compound with her name bodly written by him below the portrait.

He correctly painted the picture putting the eyes , dots and shading the hairs at the right place.

Aunty Eti occupying a flat in same compound had been innocently undressing in front of the seemly harmless boy.

Sex Education begins as soon as the child begins to speak...It begins with songs to differentiate his/her private pert from the public parts.. mentioning correctly the areas of his/her body that must never be touched by strangers..

Unfortunately the strangers that molest infants as of today are the ones we know. They are the Uncles that visit home all the time, the School bus drivers and the harmless house helps that cater for the children.

Most times too much sacredness expose the kids to danger. A 16 yrs old girl confessed inquiring the meaning of the word SEX from her parents when she was just 9 years.

Her Dad told her then that they were from a holiness background and such word must not be heard in that home. Mummy said she has to wait for the right time to understand.

She curiously asked School bus Uncle who offered to help since the word “Sex” kept re-echoing in all quarters of her school and no one was willing to explain to her.

After accepting to the School bus driver’s terms not to tell any one if he lectured her, the girl confirmed 6 years later that the driver started sleeping with her from age 9 till she came to her senses and made the confession her self. During this period both her Dad and Mom were still very busy serving the Lord.

Most times Daddy is worst than stranger. From a town called Sasure @ Ogun sub-burb, a lady came crying to my home confessing how she caught daddy making love to their 12 years old daughter.

The stranger could even be blood brother and sister. At Daddy Jesus Hospital @EGAN Lagos state, a 14 years old girl was induced to deliver a 6 months old baby as still birth.

The medical practioner said her mom had travelled for 6 months leaving her with her senior brother ( same father , same mother) only to return on the 7th Month to meet her carrying her brother’s 6 month old baby in her womb.

While men slept, enemies sowed tares...

Most times the kids donot even know how to properly name the parts of the body. When a little girl told her mom how a certain Uncle puts his nails into her mouth and force it into her bom bom, Mummy laughed and said Uncle is only playing with his nails and never bothered to know what she meant by nails.

The little girl grew up believing Uncle was playing just like Mummy said and uncle was busy offloading semen into her throat each time they met.

When she grew a bit older, the uncle relocated the play to her bom bom according to her testimony.

Please teach your kids the correct name of the human body or raise them using words like “family, “gift , “bob or “instrument so each time he or she mentions it, you know exactly where she means

When your female kids are uncomfortable visiting any male uncle or family member please let them be.

Even the house help in our care are equally fragile to these menace. Itire police station @ Surulere recorded a case where an elderly woman residing at Animashaun opted for a young house help of 7 years since her daughters were now grown up and Married. That little girl ended in the hospital as rape victim in the same house.

As parents Put your eyes on the Ground don’t say God forbid it can never happen to me. A Godly father brought home his brothers from the town to a city in the eastern part of Nigeria to spend some time with him. 2 of the man’s daughter were disvirgined by his brothers. The whole family has been torn apart after that incident but the damage has already been done..

Gay and lesbianism have also eaten dip into schools, colleges and even churches.

A friend once told me in confidence how she had been sleeping with their church senior pastor. She went on to confess how there was a strong lesbian click in the choir stand which she was an active member.

What slangs do your males kids use when u are around them...

Have you bothered to ask what they mean by Barca, Man u, ERE(Play) and acronyms such as POB (Parents on board) or CIC ( Coast is clear) when they are chatting their female friends in your presence?

Who is the house help at home?.. What is she doing to your male kids in your absence?

Mrs. Praise a mother of two boys attested paying a visit to her children’s room one late night only to meet her 11 yrs old boy in between the legs of her much older house girl. Though she sent her home , the trauma was still shocking being that this house girl has been with them for so long a time.

What kind of movies do you keep in your home. A Boy in Howard School met Christ and confessed that he learnt masturbation from the Movie he picked from his dad’s room at the age of 14 years and 5 months when Dad was not around, continued with the shameful act until and even after many years of marriage. The night he had an encounter with Christ was the night the spirit of masturbation disappeared from his life.

The list goes on and on and on....
How innocent is your 4- 10 years old boy or girl @ home?

How well do you know the games the play behind scene?

How close are you to them to so you can also know what they know?

Do they feel free to talk to you?

How solid and grounded are they in the word of God?

Are you waiting for the school curriculum to lecture them on sex education? These days uncles and lesbian aunties don't wait that long.

I hope you Know sex education @ school is prevention, control and damage control . The real sex Education is taught in the Bible and that is abstinence and watchfulness.

Pray for your children, Raise them up in holiness and fear of God.

Be interested in the cable programmes they like.

Ensure you are not defiling other peoples daughters so that karma does not raise it’s ugly head.

Find out who their best friend is at school because it is better to train a child than to repair an adult.

Remember if you fail to correct a child today, he will be the one to correct you tomorrow.

The bible says train up a child in the way of the Lord and he shall not depart from it.

God bless us as we raise Godly kids for God in this dirty environment of gay cartoons, soft porn home movies, internet nudity, model magazines , celebrity watch, and wrong peers.