There's nothing wrong with a man or a
woman being friends, mind you. But let's face it, men and women are different, and people tend to hang around members of their own gender more. A guy can certainly be friends with a girl, but there will always be things that both cannot discuss together, like sex jokes, per example.

Anyway, a female whose friends are mostly guys has a lot higher odds of feeling attraction to one of them. A lot of relationships start off as friendships. No, don't give me the friendzone BS, that's not how it works. Two people can be friends at first and ending up falling in love with each other later. It's very common, in fact. Never happened to me, but I know several examples of this.

Also, a lot of guys can't be friends with girls without a ulterior motifs behind. And I don't mean just teenagers or young adults., but guys in their 30s as well. Let's face it, we all have or had at least one good female friend we secretly wanted to shag. A female with mostly male friends has a higher amount of challengers.

I mean, would you really be alright with your gf hanging out with other guys at concerts, bars, etc. and being given rides by them when she's not with you? i sure as hell wouldn't.

And last, but certainly not least, a lot of girls with a lot of guy friends tend to be sluts, not saying all or even most are, but a lot of them certainly tend to be.

Guys whats your take on this?

TrapHedges... Oya bobo come and answer this ooo

Itz not true @op

QueenSuccubus:




TrapHedges... Oya bobo come and answer this ooo

Lols he for sure baby.. They can.. Once d trust and love is 100.. Then no p... Am good


My bae also loyal

Yes na. I'm a witness

Very true!

Ekan nefa happen.

Joiceee:
Itz not true @op

are u sayn its ok for a girl to have loads of male friends while dating? hell wat about the possibility of the girl falling for one or several of her male friends which could make her cheat on her guy?

TrapHedges:


Lols he for sure baby.. They can.. Once d trust and love is 100.. Then no p... Am good


My bae also loyal

Hahahaha.. Ur siggy tho ur soooo raw...

Ofcos

Op, your write up has flaws, i'm more comfortable with the male gender than my fellow girls to avoid their wahala...does that make one a slut?, No! it's preference.

asuo27:
Op, your write up has flaws, i'm more comfortable with the male gender than my fellow girls to avoid their wahala...does that make one a slut?, No! it's preference.

how about the possibility of u falling for one of them while still dating someone.

uxdesigner:

how about the possibility of u falling for one of them while still dating someone.

My male friends are my 'friends', i threat them the same way i threat my brothers, difference is i share my sexcapades with them and we laugh about silly stuffs, although as guys once in a while one will be confessing love, but i just let them know i see them as brothers...i stand on my grounds, it doesn't stop me from still being nice to them, have had three in the past and they all wanted more than friendship...my siblings can vouch i never dated one.

It depends on the girl in question.

KissChrix:
Personally, I don't like it, but wetin man go do nau?

i dey tell you

asuo27:
My male friends are my 'friends', i threat them the same way i threat my brothers, difference is i share my sexcapades with them and we laugh about silly stuffs, although as guys once in a while one will be confessing love, but i just let them know i see them as brothers...i stand on my grounds, it doesn't stop me from still being nice to them, have had three in the past and they all wanted more than friendship...my siblings can vouch i never dated one.

It depends on the girl in question.

then not all girls with male friends can be trusted. the cheating aspect might not be sex inclusive, it may mean doing things u ought to be doing with ur guy with them. For example hanging out watching movies, lunch date, just lazying about or shopping in the mall, extensive texting, being on the phone almost everytime recieving phone calls. many girls do these things with their male friends, it could keep a guy on his toes about where her loyalty lies.

Joiceee:
Itz not true @op

its very true...a yoruba adage says ere kini aja n ba ekun se.... what kinda play does a tiger play wit a dog (dont laff at my eng interpretation).... its only for food... or if u re conversant wit nat geo, a shark mostly ve a fields day by playing wit its meal(a seal) before devouring it

QueenSuccubus:



Hahahaha.. Ur siggy tho ur soooo raw...

Hahaha.. Lols

TrapHedges:


Hahaha.. Lols

I tot u say ur busy? I don't wanna disturb u tho

I know ur happy now tat ur home at last..

if its a lady that is not emotionally balanced...then she shldnt be trusted.

However, im the kinda woman with a lot of male friends but i know where to draw the line and ensure my potential mate is not emotionally affected.