I knew this girl in our church for ages. I asked her out once and she refused sayin' that she wants to concentrate on her book.
i left her to concentrate na as i'm not the kind of guy that begs a lady for love and attention

could you imagine her telling me that i'm proud and egocentric. she said i knew that she loves me and i couldn't even ask twice.

now pls tell me what stoped her from walking up to me before or accepting me when i met. y must she play it the way her mum and dad played it

Look at some of the comments on this forum that will help you gage the mindsets. It might be the 21st century but attitudes have not shifted that much.

Because she would be regarded as cheap and loose by the 21st century guys.

Nd the other day a female friend was telling me she can never ask a guy out even if she loves him like craze,that she would wait for him to ask her,nd she wont even accept him on his first attempt,dat she go do shakara small,i just smile.

In my mind,i be like "ask auntie linda ikeja,she qo play u d scores"

It is only a coward and shy guy that would be expecting a girl to woo him.
Girls are the simple being to relate with if you are brave enough to relate with them, the best approach is to have a good sense of humor.

2kaybiel:
It is only a coward and shy guy that would be expecting a girl to woo him.
Girls are the simple being to relate with if you are brave enough to relate with them, the best approach is to have a good sense of humor.

Did u even read tha topic at all?

Masikay:
Because she would be regarded as cheap and loose by the 21st century guys.

nobi lie sha

so wat do u do when u really like a guy?
u just sit with ur fingers crossed waiting for him to notice u

alphaXIII:

Did u even read tha topic at all?

What does the topic say?
"Why can't a Nigerian girl ask a guy out in this 21st century"?
Only if what I wrote is not in line with your line of thought you can of course say what you like

alphaXIII:


nobi lie sha

so wat do u do when u really like a guy?
u just sit with ur fingers crossed waiting for him to notice u

Sadly, yes.

Self esteem issues. Simple

any woman dat expects me to keep disturbing her for relationship all in d name of shakara is on a long tin. who dem epp