First of all, it is a no-brainer, cheating on someone who loves you is an absolute no-no, and if you get dumped for it, you deserve it.

However, sometimes the love you have for the person is strong and like it or not, in as much as it hurts like hell knowing your lover shared their body (your cookie) with someone else, you sometimes want to give them a second or sometimes third chance(shout out to serial cheats blaming the devil).

Finding out a lover has cheated doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship. As long as they truly show remorse and tirelessly beg for forgiveness, what is love if you cannot forgive them. Only when they do not show any signs of changing do they deserve to be dumped like a sack of refuse awaiting LAWMA.

For those willing to handle cheating without breaking up with them, or prepare themselves for the eventuality,

1. You have to find out why they cheated, so you can ascertain if they deserve a second chance, or if you had a small part to play in it.

2. You have to let them know you have forgiven them, and never bring up the issue ever again. Let it go.

3. You have to make effort to fill that void that made them cheat

4. You should make them disconnect totally from the person with whom they cheated. If it is a colleague, they might have to resign from that job. (serves them right for cheating)

5. Seek counselling from a trained counsellor, or elderly person.

To get a lady's perspective on handling cheating without breaking up, and for extensive details on the subject, see

https://soundcloud.com/user-342064193/5-ways-to-handle-cheating-without-breaking-up

Easier said
Buh would it still be cheating if sex wasn't involved

yes. cheating happens with and without sex.

This is not just possible..and you think even if you succeed in disconnecting them from who ever they cheat on you with they won't go back??

I hate unfaithful guys... my encounter with few its not what I can write about biko

eljayson:
yes. cheating happens with and without sex.

U said with or without sex so I won't hang out or be friends with a girl cause my dating


Bruh what I call cheating is when sex is involved

I was dating this lady and i felt she was cheating on me, so i fvckked her sooooooooooooooooo hard and after installing a spyware on her phone, i caught her and pretend as if i knew nothing..

Then i asked her to join me let's go shopping and she mumuishly followed me.. oH!!!! along the road, i did this to her..



Bottom line: Be like me, don't wait for anything, once you get her cheating on you, fvcck her sooooooooo hard and kickk her ar$e off your car

I didn't even read the post, just because I'm not so understanding that I'll take back anyone that cheats on me. No matter the reason, you cheat, I find out, it's done!

ButterFrost212:
I didn't even read the post, just because I'm not so understanding that I'll take back anyone that cheats on me. No matter the reason, you cheat, I find out, it's done!

yea... no excuse, once you findout your partner is cheating on you, kicck e'm out

ButterFrost212:
I didn't even read the post, just because I'm not so understanding that I'll take back anyone that cheats on me. No matter the reason, you cheat, I find out, it's done!

what is love if not forgiveness. Till you love someone enough to forgive them their worst crime,you have not loved.