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List Of People You Should Avoid In Other To Be Successful by illuz(m): 11:08pm On Nov 23, 2016
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”– Jim Rohn

My own success increased rapidly when I took an honest look at the people around me and replaced negative relationships with positive, empowering individuals who would support and inspire me.
List of people you should avoid in other to be successful at your plans:

1. The Haters

People you should avoid in other to be successful: Negativity is contagious. The danger with this group of people is that they will expect you to keep their misery company and with time, they could make you believe it’s okay to be a hater, too.
Successful people don’t spend time with haters, but with other successful, positive minded people. You are going to do yourself a great favor by deleting these people from your life.

2. The Envious

There’s a popular saying that goes “be wary of those who don’t clap when you win”. A friend or colleague who is envious won’t celebrate your victories or support your dreams. He covets the life you’re aspiring to create, in large part because he doesn’t believe in his own ability to achieve the same success. Choose to surround yourself with people who can be genuinely happy for your achievements and champion your long-term aspirations.

3. The Crawlers

This personality type habitually backs out of commitments and expects you to accommodate her ever-changing schedule (and whims). Your time is valuable, but they don’t respect that notion.
If a friend or associate can’t honor your plans, meet you halfway, and arrive on time, then use those instances to state and enforce your boundaries. Learning to take care of yourself first, and respect your time, will also help you in other areas of your life and work.

4. The always finding Guilt

Here’s the problem with guilt: You can’t dream when someone makes you feel guilty for desiring better. You can’t capture value when you’ve learned to feel guilty for asking to be paid what you’re worth.
Do your best to identify and distance yourself from people who make you feel guilt majority of the time.

5. The Perpetually Fearful

There are people around you who are simply afraid to “go for it.” They view life through a lens of fear and lack the basic belief that things will work out for the best. If that’s the exact opposite of you, then you have to peel them out of your life.
As personal-development legend Bob Proctor said, “If you see it in your mind, you will hold it in your hand.” Avoid fearful people with limiting beliefs, and embrace your visions of success instead.

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Re: List Of People You Should Avoid In Other To Be Successful by Collenshy2020(m): 11:30pm On Nov 23, 2016
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