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| What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 2:43pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
Plz what wud u do if ur guy claim to love u, but u found out that his not even taking for nothing good , I mean this is sumone am trying to help. This is how it's all started, i fake myself to be my guy X and be sending him email , Jesus i can't say what i saw in his reply, Am thinking of what to do , Should I continue to be sending him mail or should i confront him and let go the relationship , the relationship is just 6 month or thereabout. Pls what are your advice I can copy the mail and pest here for u guys to read oh |
| Re: What Should I Do by iice(f): 2:59pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
As they say, what you don't know wont hurt you. I say, you get what you ask for. You can either gather more evidence and confront him or confront him now. Either way, you guys have to clear the air whether you break up or not. |
| Re: What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 3:06pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
Thanks @ iice I tried asking him questions, but all he did is confessing stupid love to me, Oh my God , Imagine this guy saying the relationship he is right now will not lead to anywhere That he still love his X so much, |
| Re: What Should I Do by bodylon001: 3:10pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
if you are confused about what to do, provide answer to the following question, what form of relationship are you in fun or seriousness, ? what is your own focus in the nearest future, ? By your own criteria can you really assess him to be qualified for spending the rest of ur life with, Your answers to these question lead you straight to ur path, caution , never allow ur emotion to becloud ur sense of judgement, good luck, if u wish to talk to me send a mail to bodeoflondon@yahoo.com. |
| Re: What Should I Do by iice(f): 3:15pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
ammamat: He's misdirecting you, thinking if he keeps confessing love to you, you'll get wrapped up in his love for you and forget about the questions you're asking. Well his response seems like the relationship isn't going to continue. |
| Re: What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 5:21pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
.. am in for seriousness but i don't know his mind what is your own focus in the nearest future, ? We know the dream of every responsible woman By your own criteria can you really assess him to be qualified for spending the rest of your life with, I tots this wud be my last bus stop But hum, Your answers to these question lead you straight to your path, caution , never allow your emotion to becloud your sense of judgement |
| Re: What Should I Do by Nobody: 5:50pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
~eye sore~ |
| Re: What Should I Do by yme1(f): 5:53pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
kick his ass out of your life before he does that to you  |
| Re: What Should I Do by Fhemmmy: 8:10pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
Interesting |
| Re: What Should I Do by Igwe9(m): 9:52pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
lol Sweetie,you're man is just a victim here, people like awoff ''free food'' no be small. he's not yet ready to settle down, sorry, truths need to be told. |
| Re: What Should I Do by Pharoh: 10:02pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
The signs are self evident so please leave and go find the right man for yourself. |
| Re: What Should I Do by 190yaris1: 10:31pm On Nov 06, 2009 |
eyya poster's BF is a player eyyya shakes head Dough~ Maybe u werent good in bed or other stuffs like dat~ tink~ |
| Re: What Should I Do by OAM4J: 3:51am On Nov 07, 2009 |
Sorry Poster, think you should confront him. He looks like a big time player. I can see you are already fallen for him, but better to end it now than later. Although he might also not mean all he said in the txt, might just want to have another go at the ex, but all the same confront him. |
| Re: What Should I Do by LordReed(m): 6:18pm On Nov 07, 2009 |
Lets even see the mails. Might not be as serious as u think. |
| Re: What Should I Do by igbonla(m): 2:02am On Nov 08, 2009 |
ammamat: You finally got what you are looking for? My advice is that you stop this faking business and refrain from tempting people whether or not you break up with him. |
| Re: What Should I Do by finemocha(f): 2:06am On Nov 08, 2009 |
biko copy and paste the emails so that we can further analyze ur situation |
| Re: What Should I Do by OAM4J: 4:11am On Nov 08, 2009 |
abi o. me too dey wait o.! |
| Re: What Should I Do by SeanT21(f): 4:28am On Nov 08, 2009 |
I know it hurts but I am happy U finally know how he feels. Better to find out now than later. |
| Re: What Should I Do by Radiant(f): 4:47am On Nov 08, 2009 |
What prompted you to disguise yourself? Does he still talk to his ex? Are they still "friends"? I mean, why the curiosity? What you see is what you get. And now I wonder why you won't confront him since you found disturbing evidence. Some women just don't get it. |
| Re: What Should I Do by Shola2009(m): 8:15am On Nov 08, 2009 |
Whyd u do that in the first place  |
| Re: What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 11:06am On Nov 09, 2009 |
Whyd u do that in the first place I did this becoz He lyk confessing love wen it's not call for, so do it to see how much he love me And to see if the confession is real or fake |
| Re: What Should I Do by izeek(m): 11:11am On Nov 09, 2009 |
sorry but are a shady character, for you to have acted the way you did. if i can find that out from just one mail, then how much more him! and dont be stupid, u think he doesnt know its not his ex mailing him. if u date some1 for long, u shud be able to tell their speech or writting pattern. which am sure u dont have. |
| Re: What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 11:16am On Nov 09, 2009 |
This is the first mail This is Me:: i saw ur mail, but i don't have a phone for > now, > meanwhile i wud call u, since have gotten ur > number now. > > Hope u are a good guy now, > Meanwhile are u married now, or is > there any seriouse person in your life? > I still love u despite what happen, as i > said u were the only thing that make me happy then. I > wud need your urgent reply > > I still love and care for you, > Much love, > Bye Now this is HIM HIs Reply Thanks dear for your mail .I hope you call me so i can here your sweet voice.I am not married yet and I have a relationship which will never lead anywhere. What about you are you married and where are you exactly?pls try to call, I wud stil keep on posting thanks, |
| Re: What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 11:26am On Nov 09, 2009 |
@ Izeek, he dose not know ,, He wud just go to cyba just to reply mail, His very anxiouse to check his box now Hw wud just call me that he want to do one or two things on net Funny enuf he change his pasword, And after sending those mails he will delet them, If i say sumthing lyk, u ve send another one today he wud ask me to follow him to cyba to open his box and show me, and if i want to lyk, there wud be nothing in his box, meanwhile unknowing to him the mail is in my box. Guys are d, |
| Re: What Should I Do by izeek(m): 11:38am On Nov 09, 2009 |
i still maintain my stand, that has to be the shadiest thing you could ever have tried. that said, i dont understand how he doesn't know how to contact his ex, either her phone number or email. u just painted your bf to be gullible, cos from the mail he sent, and the one u sent, it shows he lacks reasoning. sorry but thats my take. |
| Re: What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 4:18pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Relationship is a game of luck, untill the day u say i do and I do |
| Re: What Should I Do by Radiant(f): 11:02pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
So, have you confronted him or you're still exchanging e-mails? |
| Re: What Should I Do by OAM4J: 3:13am On Nov 10, 2009 |
@ OP 1. Why didnt you allow the sleeping dog to lie? 2. You might be the one that inflame his passion again 3. Even though he is separated from his ex, does not mean he stopped loving his ex, did he tell you the reason they were separated? 4. Like I said before, he might not mean all he said in the txt, might just want to have another go at the ex 5. think you should confront him. And let us know what whatever he says |
| Re: What Should I Do by Radiant(f): 3:23am On Nov 10, 2009 |
*Just thinking* . . .If my ex sent me a mail with a different address I would actually suspect something fishy. The dude didn't even say anything about the change of address and didn't even sound shocked/excited to hear from her. Did he actually send his ex a mail? If no, how come he didn't react to this? Or may be he did send a mail. . . lol Anyway, two can play the game. |
| Re: What Should I Do by bluespice(f): 3:30am On Nov 10, 2009 |
i didnt understand the topic to be honest the writing is appalling. . . but im in full support of what izeek said are u that desperate? is ur guy that dumb? |
| Re: What Should I Do by Radiant(f): 3:39am On Nov 10, 2009 |
bluespice: Are you the hammer I've been looking for?  |
| Re: What Should I Do by ammamat(f): 9:07am On Nov 10, 2009 |
@ bluespice are u that desperate? Is not the matter of being desperate and iam not desperate, IS about the way His taking this thing , I love and like piple that are real, What really make me to do this was becoz we were talking about the girl and He lied that they were not dating. "I hate lies" meanwhile have seen the mail she use to send to him, why denying, that was what puse me anyway Yeah i confront him yesterday after Match , i was very angry yesterday, |
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