well,some of you know about ma love life from ma former thread.
Anyways,I finally got ma shii together nd I and ma ex became friends,at some point...even fwb.we ve always been cool.so we continued that way until she told me about ds guy she wants to get married to,admittedly I felt bad,not only cos I had feelings for her buh also because I thought she could do better.
d Guy works at one investment company..he just graduated last 2 yrs..served nd his company is close to his uncle's house,so he lives wth his uncle and uncle's fam.he seems like a good guy...am sure he loves her sha..
anyways,as I noticed how close she was getting to him nd how she now chats with me..I withdrew nd did the honorable thing...stopped kissing or even making out with her..and I dnt have any girl dt am Dating sha(most of ds gals re hos)..ma ex saw ma lack of girl as a fact dt am not over her nd kept on trying to string me along..she just wanted me as her safety net.
long story short..on Thursday.. she called and said she wanted to come over and cook for me,buh I had a female visitor from school and I told her she can still Come sha..buh she said no.then on friday ,I called her and told her to come over na..am kinda Hot..she said " go Bleep someone else"and I replied "will do". that day ehh..she was just calling me every 2 hours..saying ish like.." I want to sell My phone.find me a buyer"..."have u eaten"..
then today..she came..nd she made one of those sexy moves on me..(she is a very beautiful girl..very very pretty)..I got angry at her,I dunno Why buh I was..I just pushed her back..I have this feeling dt she just wants to know whether I find her sexy and play with ma urges..this is a girl dt I gave my all to..my every single cell..I gave her..I would be outside by 11 pm for this girl..I friendzoned countless chicks for her..
back to d story..I now went through her phone nd saw dt she has saved d Guy's number with "hubby".. now y'all should get me straight..ds hubby guy is cool alright..buh she can do so much better..she has always been desperate to get married..I'm reading med surg...nd she is in optometry..two professional courses..wth good employment opportunities.. together d Sky woulda been our starting point..although she is a class above me..am older than her sha..nd she is barely 20 yrs old..marriage shouldn't be her top priority now

I was building ma career around getting married to her..albeit reluctantly.. cos I want to specialize buh she is like" I can't wait for u to specialize,you will be like 27 yrs old by den and ail be 26,I want to get engaged at 23"... I endured all dose talks nd tried to figure a way out for me and her..
now,we are over sha..

back to d story,I was just angry dt she has someone called hubby somewhere nd is tryna seduce me,I was angry dt I might have fallen for a ho nd ma love life is no different from d ones I read here...I was angry dt she wasn't mine again,buh I get to sleep wth her...I was angry.. dt we happened...I was angry dt I loved her.. I was just angry..dt made me..shift from her..plug ma earphones..nd for d next 3 hrs she spent here.. I said nufn to her..I Dint show her ma anger sha.

Also,she would always look at me and say "fine boy" nd den smile nd look away..I hate it..I hated everything..I hate d fact dt I dnt wanna date any girl again..I'm a good looking guy..prolly d finest on nairaland here..(m not putting ma pic here)..nd I'm a student Doctor(geek..am a huge geek,lolz).pc2 class..I can get girls easily..buh im not a player nd I dnt like sleeping around..I ve dated a lot..buh only slept wth one..nd I can't seem to move on..,other girls here;I see em as just friends..nd dt sucks..


dunno what I even want from u Guys sf..buh if ur here..nd u ve been thru ds..a word wouldn't be so bad


forgive ma typos biko...forgive

So tired right now to read all this essay. Someone please epp and summarize it...

You did not even appologise for the long epistle you are talking about typos asif i read it

firstking01:
You did not even appologise for the long epistle you are talking about typos asif i read it

It must not have been easy because you do sound like you really did love this girl and still love her even now sef.

Truth still remains that she isn't the right girl for you, no matter how painful it is. Even if she breaks up with her 'hubby' to be with you again, omoh u can never trust her again and will always sleep with one eye open and have the urge to be checking her phone time and time again.

You'll never regain your self confidence if u keep your feelings for her. I know all this because it has happened to me before.

What i did was to bear the pain and delete everything about the girl and start living my life. And today I've gotten over it and I'm happy. Infact she don dey beg me since as the guy she been bleep want only her punni

Its never easy but its the best way, goodluck man.

You have totally block her out of your life,that's the only way you can move on, delete all her contacts and just march on

Too long

CentaurXX:
I read your write-up and I understand 2 things.

You are #Pained cause you can't get over the girl and can't date the other girls that have made advances to you as you have friend zoned them hence leading to the second.

You need a gf and are now advertising yourself. A soon to be doctor, fine, A geek, not a player etc.

Am I right?

umm..no..if I wanna advertise maself..I'd put ma pix..dt would do the talking for me

Next2Bezee:
It must not have been easy because you do sound like you really did love this girl and still love her even now sef.

Truth still remains that she isn't the right girl for you, no matter how painful it is. Even if she breaks up with her 'hubby' to be with you again, omoh u can never trust her again and will always sleep with one eye open and have the urge to be checking her phone time and time again.

You'll never regain your self confidence if u keep your feelings for her. I know all this because it has happened to me before.

What i did was to bear the pain and delete everything about the girl and start living my life. And today I've gotten over it and I'm happy. Infact she don dey beg me since as the guy she been bleep want only her punni

Its never easy but its the best way, goodluck man.

yea..I want to..buh it would be like d last 3 yrs with her...never existed

firstking01:
You did not even appologise for the long epistle you are talking about typos asif i read it

m sorry boss..oya try read am na

naijaboiy:
I think I know this guy and the girl he's talking about.

Op Is your girlfriend an edo girl?

lolz..no oo..nothing concern us wth dt side

fayded:


yea..I want to..buh it would be like d last 3 yrs with her...never existed

I understand, its all the time u spent with her and all the things u did for her wey dey pain pass.

But spending more time thinking and mourning over this girl no dey epp u, u are wasting more time.

Face the pain and don't go back to her. it will pass in time.