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Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by izeek(m): 10:48am On Nov 09, 2009 |
please people be serious! how do we say exe's are off limits! if tins dint work out btw u guys, dont mean it wont work btw others. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by sexybabes(f): 10:53am On Nov 09, 2009 |
Mine are off limits to my gal friends. He can go out with any one he chooses to but not my friends especially not my best friend. I'm talking about me & my friends if other people don't have a problem with that its okay for them, thats a rule between me & my gals & i'm glad that we never crossed that line. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by Nobody: 10:56am On Nov 09, 2009 |
izeek: True, but not with my best friend! It's just not bearable and I wont take that! |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by erekere(m): 11:51am On Nov 09, 2009 |
Guy u really meesed up hw can u even think of dating ur friends ex talkless of doing it?i do tell people that ur guy babe suppose to be stinking to u she shud be a no go area for you now u ar askin if u owe him an apology,somebody shud slap u for even asking if na me b ur friend,kai walahi i no go pogibe u lailai.OLE, ASHEWO,BETRAYAL you don dey eye d girl tail tail na u even do juju make dem separate. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by izeek(m): 12:16pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
uju, do u know how many peoples exe's u must have dated! if there wasa rule that says u dont date anyone who has entered the ex zone, be it ur friend or not, we all wud be single. there is just some craze over nothing, lets let things be. i dont see the fuss over nothing . |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by mrperfect(m): 12:50pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
You did what you could, because of our selfishness, it just natural for the guy to behave that way. A thing like this happened to most of us if we want to tell the truth. So my brother you can't really help him as far as you are still moving with the lady. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by RuuDie(m): 12:58pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Ujujoan: uju, u have spoken well. . . . but if he's beating himself up, thats becuz he knows deep down inside him that he aided and abetted the hijack of that r/l'ship else he'd have long forgotten about reconciliation or forgiveness and moved on with his broad - i mean the dame seemingly doesn't give a Bleep right, so why does he!? GUILTY CONSCIENCE! lets face it, if he doesn't have any skeletons in his cupboard; by now he should have damned the whole s**t outta anger or utter frustration. . . but after 5yrs, he's still pleading for audience - nigga plz! & by the way; 5yrs together don't justify jack. . . . it means zeeep. . . . . for all we knw, it could be d 5yrs of his life he rues d most! |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
izeek: I've dated plenty people's ex's, but never my best friends. Its just not acceptable. Usually when a relationship I really wanted dosent work out, I try to put as much space b/w me and him as possible. Then to have my best friend fronting hime very time I turn around? I just cant have that! I wont quarell with her, but I'll definitely give her some distance along with him! Beleive it or not, there are many men and women out there, I dont have to date my best friend's ex and vice versa! RuuDie: Well, not necessarily. Such a decision is very hard to make - choosing b/w the girl u love and your best friend. I'm sure he must have made that choice with the best of intentions, but you know what they say . . . 'the road to hell is paved with good intentions'. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by kemisuga(f): 2:47pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by oiseworld: 3:20pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
good guy, so you latter helped your friend in poking his -ex. very gOOOOOod job, your relationship is also hearding for the rocks DEFINITELY. PEOPLE LIKE YOU END UP LOOSING BOTH THEIR FRIEND AND THE GIRL IN COMMON. you should have poked this g, l in secret and discharged her. NO common sense!!! |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by DDMoses(m): 3:51pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
I don't know why you guys are talking like this, you just jump into your computer and allow jargon to be coming out of your mind and you start typing it, wao, try to have a little rethink on any matter before you respond. What the guy do is not wrong, after all he seeks for his friend's advice, though he didn't speculate who, but the word anybody as already encompassed him, so his friend has nothing to be angry of, in his speech he said several times he has tried to settle there crosses but all to no avail in which the cause is from the guy, so what else do you want him to do, the guy in question does not know or not mature to handle ladies or crosses, which made him to lose the lady besides that lady also confirmed that she love this dude more than his dates, guy go along with you babe, i wish you all the best. cheers posters, always digest before reply, and may i inform you, Seun please take note also, we dont want nuisance reply or watchdog words here, if you are not mature or you only want to make jest, kindly get out of the room, as you are not the type. great NLLLLLLLLLLL |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by TheHenrys(m): 3:59pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
@poster, Just answer this question,if you were in your friend's shoe,will you be happy?be sincere to yourself,its called back stabbing cuz he didn't sleep with the girl,is that enough reason?people are full of black hart, the friendship has ended,even with the apology,trust me on this one,and watch your back too. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
oiseworld: The Henrys: looooooool |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by RuuDie(m): 4:26pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Ujujoan: Bleep that. . . . . it ain't hard as u think! listen, every guy has a natural inclination to say "yes" to a lady even if the proposal is indecent, as long as she's the one making all the moves. they could chide 'emselves into believing they was just being "friendly" but deep down, something else is brewing. it's a bitch-ass move cuz this brother-man didn't do jack to put the lady off - in fact, he encouraged her all the way! why, i keep asking, is the bitch ass nigga coming back to apologize GUILTY CONSSSSCCC. . . . . oh, he just found out that the so-called "prized trophy" isn't so much of a trophy after-all. . . . he gotta be p***** if it took 5 wasted yrs of your life to figure that out! oh, he just realised that his friendship was worth much more than she offered. . . . boooo, u bleeped up man! |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by saltnsugar(m): 5:19pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
I don't know why you guys are talking like this, you just jump into your computer and allow jargon to be coming out of your mind and you start typing it, wao, try to have a little rethink on any matter before you respond. What the guy do is not wrong, after all he seeks for his friend's advice, though he didn't speculate who, but the word anybody as already encompassed him, so his friend has nothing to be angry of, in his speech he said several times he has tried to settle there crosses but all to no avail in which the cause is from the guy, so what else do you want him to do, the guy in question does not know or not mature to handle ladies or crosses, which made him to lose the lady besides that lady also confirmed that she love this dude more than his dates, guy go along with you babe, i wish you all the best. cheers posters, always digest before reply, and may i inform you, Seun please take note also, we dont want nuisance reply or watchdog words here, if you are not mature or you only want to make jest, kindly get out of the room, as you are not the type. great NLLLLLLLLLLL I am disappointed with the above statement." He seeks his friends advice"!!!!!!!!. Dude he is not suppose to even think of it in the first place.So if you argue with your girlfriend its a good reason for your friend to want your girl. I think his friend is a gentleman by ignoring the back stabber.I know some dude that will tell you is okay just to keep you close and deal with you.What i know correct guys and gals do is try to make their friends relationship work by protecting their interest not painting them as evil as i will swear the back stabber did.What about CREDIBILITY among you homies.If its in my circle of friends you will be an outcast (marked man)[any thing you touch causes you loads of problems deliberately set for you} If i were the poster i will hide my face in shame and pray never to meet my friend again.Most people have had problems in their life because of cases like this. Its easy to forget an offense by a 'stranger' than a 'friend'. Remember Julius Cesar "even you Brutus". He didn't mind others killing him but his friend. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by SisiKill1: 5:38pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Rolling my eyes. backstabbing ko, frontpiercing ni. Long hissssssssss! [size=3]Heaven save us from emotionally stunted people who see the world as either black or white [/size] |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by RuuDie(m): 6:30pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Sisi_Kill: yeah. . . . & i bet u see the world thru broken sony vega |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by SisiKill1: 6:54pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Sonywhatnow? |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by RuuDie(m): 6:57pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Sisi_Kill: yeah. . . . i thot so |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by SisiKill1: 7:29pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
OP is asking if an apology is necessary coz his dog in a manger friend is acting like someone went behind his back and stole his girlfriend. This is the same guy who told OP he'll be saving him. So now the relationship is going on strong even after five yrs, his acting like a victim. I dare say. . . OP is a better person than i am coz if i were in his shoes, i'd so ignore that friend's immature ass and even provide the rope to go hang himself coz that's about the only way he's gonna not see me and the other person together. Asta la buh bye old friend. . . Better luck in your next love life. Pffftttttt! |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by RuuDie(m): 7:43pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Sisi_Kill: oh yeah. . . . why is the bleeping OP going to rouse trouble angry friend isn't the 1 going around in fits with a shot-gun looking for OP's bitch-ass to squash; instead its the other way round, why giiirlll, the lame-ass, snitching, bitching nigga is bleeping guilty - more than OJ & MJ rolled up in 1. anyways, what galls me the most is the bummer of a broad is in-btw these 2 brovaz feeling very dapper with herself - ah, the thot just sets me off - uuuuuggghhhhh |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by oiseworld: 8:02pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
DDMoses: guy you tried, people like u dont understand friendship. is she the only woman in the world. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by SisiKill1: 9:46pm On Nov 09, 2009 |
Lmao @ bummer of a broad. Hell yeah she's happy with herself. . . She IS in a good relationship with a good guy, a guy who cared enough to want to see the relationship between her and her immature ex work. Fortunately the idiot ex proved how undeserving he is and by so doing. . . He showed her who really cares. Good for her i say! Here's to another 50yrs for the lovely couple. If someone can't stand it, they can go swallow a bullet. Seriously. . . Sonywhatnow? |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by sexybabes(f): 9:25am On Nov 10, 2009 |
Seems like people don't understand the word "friendship". That so sad!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by Pharoh: 9:37am On Nov 10, 2009 |
sexybabes: What is friendship in this wicked world we live in right now? |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by sexybabes(f): 10:31am On Nov 10, 2009 |
Pharoh:Just because the world is wicked doesn't mean you must stop doing what you believe in. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by OYINBOGOJU(m): 11:30am On Nov 10, 2009 |
@POSTER USING SHARIA LAW TO JUDGE YOU YOU ARE LAIBLE TO 2000 STROKES OF CAIN THEN THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS THAT, HOW ARE WE SURE YOU ARE TELLING THE TRUTH, YOU PAINTED THE PICTURE HERE AND YOU PAINTED YOURSELF VERY WELL, YOU EVEN PAINTED THE GIRL VERY GOOD BUT I HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT YOU HAVE HAND IN THEIR BREAKUP AND YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR THAT. SELFISH MAN. |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by Dtruthspeaker: 5:01pm On Mar 17, 2019 |
tpm:You Deceived him hence you betrayed him in that it was you, who was the guy he was going to thank for taking his gurl. You didn't disclose your interests in his girl neither did you tell him that his girl has Rejected him and Chosen you. Oh boy it hurts bad especially when you must compares sexual prowess or even a simple kiss. I don't think he'll really forgive you even if he wants to unless you leave her or she leaves you (preferably) |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by MissRaine69(f): 5:29pm On Mar 17, 2019 |
You did betray him. So yes he is well with his rights to be mad at you. That said he needs to get over himself, you cannot dictate when and how he should forgive you. You are boning his ex. Question for you, would you trust your other male friends with her knowing how you guys hooked up? |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by mitakemi2427(f): 7:43pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
My dear face your relationship with all sincerity
Don't mind anybody |
Re: Do I Really Owe Him An Apology? by Ikpeabujo(m): 9:54pm On Jan 03, 2020 |
first and foremost you are not a good friend at all. mehnn this is a guy you called your best friend from day one in school. i swear you Bleep up by allowing that useless girl to use you, believe me that trick you because she see some benefits she will likely get from dating you than your said friend.....of all girls why must it be her summary of my point is that you are not a good friend and you know deep that in your heart |
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