Toke Makinwa is letting everything out in her new book "On Becoming" She reveals how she battled insecurity, lightening her skin to be like Maje's baby mama Anita, doing a s*x tape to please him among other issues.

“It was my wedding day. I was happy, yet I was waiting for something to happen. Maje had disappointed me three times before. We would pick a date to go to the wedding registry and he would call it off. It wasn’t until we shared our first dance that I finally believed that it had happened. We got back together (after a quarrel because Maje took ‘an ex’ to a party he bluntly told Toke he wasn’t taking her to and he and the ex were ‘touching freely and kissing’)…


Maje invited me to Abuja…. As I was putting away my things I saw all kinds of feminine items – earrings on the dresser, sanitary pads in the drawer….”

“At some point while we were dating, Maje had asked if he could tape us having s*x. This was a new one for me but I would do anything to keep my man, or so I thought, and so I obliged. But I was nervous afterwards because I didn’t want the tape to get into the wrong hands. I dragged the file back to his desktop, and I could tell from the stilled image in the video that the person in it was not me. I clicked play and watched horrified as Maje had s*x with Anita.

Watching that video, all of the inadequacies I thought I had dealt with over the years came rushing back. I had been with Maje from when I was an immature teenager, through my twenties, and for most of those years, Anita had been the standard I had to live up to. I had lightened my skin at some point – Anita was half Lebanese and half Ibibio, and Maje made me feel like he preferred her lighter skin.”
excerpts women.ng –

http://toyinaspireblog.com/%E2%80%8Btoke-makinwa-reveals-how-she-went-through-cheating-insecurity-with-ex-husband-maje-ayida-in-her-new-book-on-becoming/

Enough jor

Thank God for your life now....everybody deserves redemption. But I hope all she said is true, I don't want to start hearing lawsuits flying all around,because it seems this days Nigerian celebs are often found wanting in one scandal or the other.

So you bleached your skin of a man. When man starts to do things to please God, and not human beings their life will be relaxed and peaceful. Kpele oooooo....Oya go back to your former skin colour as the man don go oooooo..