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I'm In A Dilemma Right Now.. See Why / I'm In Love With An Older Lady With Two Kids / Help Urgently Needed, Am In A Dilemma (2) (3) (4)
Re: . by ucheHapers(m): 11:28am On Dec 04, 2016 |
so wot is confusing you, You know the answer already. Anyway you're excited to meet some one that truly cares about you...congrat...and stop acting confused. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:30am On Dec 04, 2016 |
ikp120:Hmm...Na so. Your own service is on NL abi. I'm doing good,you? |
Re: . by ikp120(m): 11:39am On Dec 04, 2016 |
1 Like |
Re: . by Fidelismaria: 11:53am On Dec 04, 2016 |
chai dis gurl fit lie for africa were d big nyash dey carry ur mata go linda ikeji jare 1 Like |
Re: . by chimdi101: 12:18pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
sexybbstar:Until u get all the advice u need, we go tongue-lash you nonsense |
Re: . by lazeal: 12:23pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
soberdrunk:well said. I had a similar experience where a corper dated one guy but he didn't treat her well plus she was even older than the guy. Another of my friend who truly valued her worth offered himself but she declined and rejected him, probably for some of the reasons you have raised such as 'what will people say" I just told my friend to let the idiot go cos she does not know what is good for her. |
Re: . by lazeal: 12:28pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
CorGier:Yeah, bro, before hoes BUT, what will you want the lady to do? |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:45pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
lazeal: Help me ask him o...if he knew what I passed through, he won't give that reply.This is a guy that will expect me to come and visit him and I must pay for my to and fro transport and will even demand for money from me,if I refuse to give him he would start accusing me of being stingy and will even report me to some of his friends. 1 Like |
Re: . by lazeal: 1:30pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
sexybbstar:do whatever gives you a peace of mind. Most adults will not crucify you. 1 Like |
Re: . by LePrezident(m): 3:27pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
reminiscing: Kindly tell us more about this web |
Re: . by munezo(m): 4:19pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Do as he has said, give it a try. 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 5:50pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
AlexCk: Unfortunately that's how some guys think. They want their friend to give them Go ahead before dating their ex. And their friend says no, then the love he has for the babe is thrown into the winds. And he will sheepily look for one flimsy excuse, in breaking up with her. Instead of saying his friend warned him. Not to date his ex. Have date such type before. Now both of them don't even have gfs. They are pure waste of time. They rather loose the love of their lives, than loosing their guy code type of friendship.. Foolishh, I would say. So op, if your new guy is waiting for your ex approval, just know it can go south, later or anytime. No guarantee there. Simply guard your heart.. So that when his friend, your new guy comes with the shocker. U won't be taken off guard. U will just smile and move on to someone better. 1 Like |
Re: . by Thanos(m): 6:04pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
wait. let man u finish their match 1 Like |
Re: . by Pylony(m): 7:59pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
The truth is, it is hard letting go of our first Love. But the thing is, this particular love of your life do not Love or care about how you feel. And thank goodness you're already informed about what his taste is like for a dream woman which you do not fill in. Never beg to be loved, let it come naturally. That alone should be an eye opener for you to move on. As at the same time, you now have his friend who love you so much, to have devoid intimacy in the relationship indicate he respect and value you. You should not be confuse in any way if you're happy around the dude and really love him rather cease the opportunity. |
Re: . by MrCork: 8:03pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
sexybbstar: 1 Like |
Re: . by MrCork: 8:07pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
sexybbstar: ...ok so you sleep wot his best friend for for 15 years at the bus stop...correct...this is why we don't date black women hear in London ..SHAME ON YOU!! (no oofense) 1 Like |
Re: . by bigcp(m): 8:26pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
well guys will always be guys...what will happen when u n dis ur new found luv brk up 2moro...wld u b comfortable seeing dem 2geda afterwards...because u'll feel used...well its ur life dear...there'll be a time he'll hv 2 choose btw u n his frnd...na dat tym gbege go set...that's if ur x cares at all.. whenever his hanging out with his best frnd n frnds...he won't dare 2 invite u...omo e no go de easy ooo 4me I can neva date or 4k a frnd's x...nt me..that's my principle...BROS B4 HOES...unless ofcos he gave me d go ahead 2 bleep her...bt 2 date...naaaah any guy dat dumps his buddy 4 a pussy..we call dem pussy niggaz...they r neva 2 b trusted....u beta look 4 some 1 else ooo... |
Re: . by sauceEEP(m): 8:43pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Did you say his spec is tall, lightskin, flat butt and big boobs babes but you are short, chocolate, big butt and flat boobs as in flat like slippers? |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:05pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
sauceEEP: I said small |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:32pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
sexybbstar:Your breasts don't look small. Do you use a padded bra? |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:33am On Dec 05, 2016 |
sexybbstar:Its not to me. Your butt is not really large either, your figure is moderate. |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:57am On Dec 05, 2016 |
CreamyMoltenLar: That's my 100level picture I'm in 400 level now. |
Re: . by Nobody: 8:27am On Dec 05, 2016 |
sexybbstar:You mean your butt grew massive between 100L-400L? Pls don't stop doing whatever caused such an exponential increase 1 Like |
Re: . by babs50g: 8:57am On Dec 05, 2016 |
@sexybbstar. I don't think u are in a dilemma . You have to be more focus and strong . As time goes on ur ex will definitely be jealous if he gets to know about or perhaps is a planned thing between boss ur ex might have Been doing those uncaring attitude on purpose . Some guys are like dat . At the same time if u are more valued and respected by his friend just seek divine intervention if u can go ahead to have relationship and he has promised its devoid of intimacy between the two of u . Whatever step u ve take concerning ur life , be it future husband , bizness , employment , travelling always check through divine intervention in order to avoid mistakes in a present and past situation. Commit all ur situation into the hands of God and u won't regret and that is if ur ways are pure before God . There are times some will not know the value they have until they loose it . We are all valuable before God. Physical attributes could be factor one should look out for , but most at times the inner beauty is far and richer in value than outward beauty . Like my self i love women with big butts and bust of 40 plus sizes ,but if the woman doesn't fit into my specification i will consider the inner beauty which is what i will live . A woman can have all the necessary specs doesnt mean she is a good person and it will never stop a man from Philandering. Be strong and determined. cheers |
Re: . by Nobody: 9:13am On Dec 05, 2016 |
babs50g: Thank you so much sir,I am very grateful.You just opened my eyes to somethings |
Re: . by Ugoochukwu(m): 10:11am On Dec 05, 2016 |
That guy has been secretly waiting/hoping for the break-up to happen so he would take his chance. I really hope for your sake that you are just what he wants. 1 Like |
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