when i create threads talking about the wonderful things that relationships brings to my life, people always say, she will leave you after everything girls are not fools na, obviously when she sees a man that isnt a man, she will leave him for a real man, the question una when dey think like that should ask is, are you worthy? , having a dick and deep voice doesnt make you a man, being able to talk to a woman doesnt make you boyfriend worthy

what is relationship; coming 2geda of two people romantically thats beneficial to both parties, not just me jude but me and my gf, most of una dont think like that its all about you, only boys think like that. i saw this on nairaland i cant remember who said it , 'when all that matters to me is her happiness and all that matters to her is my happiness we will both be happy in a fulfilled relationship'

to my brother that complained that she left him after all the love no girl sees a good thing and walks away, maybe you smell or you were bad in bed, nothing i value pass natural likeness, when you just like someone without the person even making an effort to get you, if a woman naturally likes you, she will never leave you unless you are full of rubbish and she gets tired of it,

imaginary cup; girls never forget, she will forgive you but unknowingly store your offenses , she doesnt know but her brain stores all your wahala in a cup that keeps being filled with your offenses till it overflows, when she is tired she will start talking about something you did 1year ago , the cup is overflowing

lastly there are type of girls biko, i cant date a club girl and expect her to love me the way a virtuous girl would who are you fooling, so to those of una that went to date loud girls and got hurt them no dey tame wild animal for long

Now are you worthy? lets begin

1. God; religion is a big deal here, do you go to church? are you a committed christian, its matters because she needs a man thats right with God, girls have left many guys because they were not devoted Christians, why? because a devoted Christian is morally upright.

makydebbie:
Good morning

sweetjude:
ghana jollof , stop commenting on my threads pls

Aderola15:
Swee tJude

sweetjude:
2. job you have to be working, its not wrong for her to be dependent on you, thats why ure her man, you are supposed to provide her as much as you can, without a job, how will she make her hair? people say she should ask her father as long as the babe isnt asking for somtin out of this world, i see no reason why you should deny her, her demands, you need to be working very important , girls will leave you for someone else who will provide for them, thats not a sin on her part, nobody wants to suffer.

sweetjude:
cup cake

daewoorazer:



Chai, bro I been dey think you represent oooo....

If you like, dedicate your annual salary for her upkeep, she may probably leave you one day for another nigga...


Stop preaching this maga story already

sweetjude:
3. dates you have to remember dates, her bday, dates that matter to her, if you cant cram them, get a digital diary, woman value these things, being forgetful makes you look uncaring, the more you forget, the more her cup fills, till som1 else comes and becomes a better man than you, when she leaves , you will be amazed that is somtin as small as this that got to her.

firstking01:
This your hustle for mr nairaland is becoming real...sometimes this contest brings out the potentials in people...i can vividly recall how vizkiz and co who have never created threads before started coming up with impeccable threads just because they were contesting...my advice to y'all, there's no need trying to become what you know you are not...you don't force yourself to show intelligency intelligence...i sha know after the contest y'all will return to your vomits...ok, where's falco.ney?, iamking.sley?, keneth.205?, and even the mod that won the contest?...how come they are all in diaspora?...well, i don't know but one thing i know is y'all must really work hard to earn my vote, that's if et_all i 'll vote.

daewoorazer:



Even apart from manie, doing this will psychologically present you as a love peddler, while you are busy remembering dates, a nigga is out there treating her like a badt gal... And obviously she is remembering d guy's dates

daewoorazer:



Chai, bro I been dey think you represent oooo....

If you like, dedicate your annual salary for her upkeep, she may probably leave you one day for another nigga...


Stop preaching this maga story already

Ifakiland:

My guy no mind d ju-man, u dey give gal money, she go use am buy anoda guy "thank u for forking me well" present.
I wonder y mumu guys still dey Nigeria upon all our preaching to stop been magas. I tire I swear.

sweetjude:
you like trouble

Benita27:
I wasn't looking for trouble.
He's right, i just had to correct him on that one.

sweetjude:
what do you mean by he is right

Benita27:
That mr nairaland hustle changes people.

You for example...have changed alot, so he's right.