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Re: Should We Move Out? by otunbaa(m): 8:59am On Dec 09, 2016 |
[quote author=otunbaa post=51673718] In June 2014, I moved into this house in ikeja while working with an oil and gas firm and my fiancé was living and working in the states and was planning to relocate back to Nigeria so we can get married and start our own family. In December 2014, same year I moved into the house, I got sacked by the company for no reason and this is a job I have been doing for almost 3 years and since then I have not gotten another job till this moment because I feel that someone with my experience shouldn't be finding it difficult to get another job because I have worked with 3 major oil and gas firms with close to 8 years experience. In 2015, my fiancé got back from the states hoping to start a business and before we know it we started spending the money on nothing tangible till it finished and ever since she tried going back but no luck due to no money to finance it and nobody is willing to assist us with money, it's like helpers are running away to assist. We struggled to pay this year's rent ( 300k ) which will expire by June next year. Just recently someone told us to move out of the house that the owner might have done something to hinder our progress while he progresses and also I was told by someone in the neighborhood that a labourer died in the building while building the house and we are the first occupant of this house. I and my fiancé have concluded to move out of the house. So fellas what do you think? Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. But I think having plenty spiders and cobwebs in a house is not a good thing because that's what we noticed too in the house and they appear within 3 days of cleaning them( sorry I didn't include that in my initial write up ). I think am prudent enough because I had a barbing salon and a viewing center but all gone now. The building have 6 flats and 4 tenants left last year ( I met them there ) and we are the first occupant of the flat we are staying. |
Re: Should We Move Out? by TheTrueSeeker: 9:16am On Dec 09, 2016 |
Mobsync: I used to say some of these things you said to others. I had never been an advocate of loan but when in certain business, I realized it becomes inevitable. I had collected loans from the banks previously and paying back wasn't any issue. That was my first collecting from the private lenders and had that experience. What I was trying to show by that story is the fact that in our world today, the devil and evil minder men are desperately wicked and getting worst by the day. These evil men can go to any length to perpetrate their evil plot against the unguided. It takes prayer and a Godly intervention to stay clear from their evil plot. |
Re: Should We Move Out? by jaxxy(m): 9:18am On Dec 09, 2016 |
Mimzyy: Have u forgotten he lost he high paying job and notin has come up in over 3 years even with his vast experience? And nobody wants to help him or his fiancé ever since? I'm not unnecessary superstitious bt u gat to b sensitive to ur environment and tell signs or else ure a stupid person. Yes he needs to maybe check his spendings bt he also needs to relocate even if it's to just see wat happens. Cc Richy4, otunbaa |
Re: Should We Move Out? by ojuolu(m): 10:04am On Dec 09, 2016 |
yetseyi:i completely agree with you on this point. When my mum was alive, she use to ask us to pray about everything including job offer, house for rent even course of study. This has been a practice in my family till today. The first house i rented in Ibadan was a very beautiful house. I did not pray about the house at all. The location seemed okay. A new house, rent as far back as 8 years ago was 250k for a 3 bedroom, but because i was financially comfortable at that time, it was considered cheap. I took it, but did not complete 1 year rent circle in the house. Within one year, a neighbor was killed in the house in the presence of his family,( nothing taken from him), other serious incidence i dont want to mentioned here, but to cut the long story short, I was robbed 3 times in the house within a year( please note that i was not flamboyant at that time, i own no car and i lived normally among the people, no obvious display of riches by any tenant) . I lost my wife, almost my life too, Thank God for my late mum's prayer. After the last incidence being the demise of my late wife,I moved out, prayed and got another accommodation. The story that followed this new house is that everybody that packed out of the flat or house always move to their own private house among other although the owner is very strict. Believe me honestly, within 7 years 3 co tenants moved to their own houses, one relocated abroad and i moved to my own house in September this year. Please note that nobody ever packed out without reasonable land breaking achievement. I think the Op should pack out, pray and move closer to God, get a good accommodation under the inspiration of God and trust Him for full restoration...my opinion based on experience. Those who think there is no spirituality in everything should have a re think...Aye o ti se won ri ni o...lol. |
Re: Should We Move Out? by Fundamentalist: 10:37am On Dec 09, 2016 |
MONITZ: So let me put it this way, I'm a tenant amongst tenants while you are our landlord. Something bad now happened WC affected me and the co tenants except the landlord. Should I start suspecting my landlord that he is a wizard responsible my predicaments? |
Re: Should We Move Out? by bejick(m): 12:01pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Acidosis: my brother no all oil and gas company dey pay well ooo, but my question is getting a flat in IKEJA for such a ridiculous amount N300,000 can make the house suspicious. Their management skill is also to be questioned cos when one spend and don't aim much. |
Re: Should We Move Out? by PastorAji(m): 1:31pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Hello, (neva mind my moniker) I would tell you categorically that out of every 100 Landlords/ladies only 2-4 don't soil the foundation of their houses Permit me to narrate an experience when we moved to our house in 1996 (August precisely) we saw a lot of crosses in our compound. like a week later our Dad travelled (without informing anyone about his trip) and spent six-seven weeks on the trip. When he came, he was shocked seeing us in the house. He later travelled again and came back Christmas Eve (around 11pm) and started yabbing everyone in the house. Later, twas discovered that a lot of things have been buried underground and it was meant to cause havoc for us (most especially mum) but Glory be to God we all survived (though all graduated from University of Hard Knocks) fine Financial Management too is very important but the Spiritual rules over the Physical.... #peace Richy4: |
Re: Should We Move Out? by oseiwe(m): 4:11pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
otunbaa:We are currently recruiting an Electrical and Instrumentation Engineer with minimum of 7 years working experience in the Oil and Gas industry, with good experience in engineering designs and execution at construction phase. It’s a resident position based in Port Harcourt; you could apply via http://amaidenenergy.com or send CV’s to recruitment@amaidenenergy.com with the position as subject of the email; closes 27th Dec. 2016 |
Re: Should We Move Out? by ceasare: 4:37pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
basadenet: As in kesekese losiri kasa kasa baba kese kese si nbo abi? |
Re: Should We Move Out? by Thistles: 5:29pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
[quote author=otunbaa post=51765808][/quote] Biko move out ASAP. Get another apartment for rent here; https://www.tolet.com.ng/property-for-rent/lagos?utm_source=nairaland&utm_campaign=nairaland9_12_2016&utm_medium=blog |
Re: Should We Move Out? by whoisuche: 7:43pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
otunbaa: I will advise you to relocate from there and any other u find pray and always spend wisely. |
Re: Should We Move Out? by lekonso: 11:51pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Richy4:Shut up, you are still a baby sucking brest you don't know anything. |
Re: Should We Move Out? by arthurshelly: 5:26pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
snappyicee:You are just a small mind... |
Re: Should We Move Out? by arthurshelly: 5:28pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
Adeoba10:It's kutonu inside |
Re: Should We Move Out? by yetseyi(f): 11:01pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
ojuolu: People tend not too take some things serious, people should learn to ask questions from those living around , be observant and make spiritual enquiry before moving into an apartment. Observation will make you notice strange symbols or patterns in designs of a house. You see a landlord that owns many houses and uses an occult symbol on all those houses and you think its a coincidence or it doesn't matter? I would rather pass. And there are some blessed houses you live there and things go smoothly. Some of us think renting an apartment is just about the physical aspect, there's a lot more to it than that in this Naija , especially this Lagos. Our former landlord had to tell my mother face to face that " You are the first tenant that will ever move to their own home" we were shocked with the accusation, it was an accusing tone he used according to my mum and after that the jinx was broken, other tenants began to move to their own houses. |
Re: Should We Move Out? by michaelIb1(m): 4:03am On Dec 13, 2016 |
I jst dont like stuff lik landlord did thos landlord did....This is just how you re destine to liv...and sometimes mis.management and over confident kills us alot. 1.you were too confident with your qualification and experience to get another place of work. 2.your wife knowing she is cuming bck here to settledown sud av put in place wat to do business to keep herself busy and support the home.. 3.Stop attaching your pridicament on landlords and there house....Cos before you know you Tag dat house with a bad name Den you destroy d source of living of dat landlord and put him on this ur present state..Who ll dis landlord blame..? My bro jst hope to utilise d next opportunity in Life...o bliv u ll av one soon Stay bless and stay positive |
Re: Should We Move Out? by Omisport01: 6:30pm On Dec 27, 2016 |
My maama is a trader being jobless for 9months now and someone who want to help will be selling off her old goods for auction told her to pay#35000 but can bring #20000 in advance that after sales during festive period should balance but we gat nothing even feeding is Gods grace and dad be like i cnt kill myself that why am here if anyone who view this thread that can kindly help out with anything plls assist in any way you can i will appreciate and i will love to say am not creating a thread here to appear like a beggar or being taking people for granted no but i wish some people can understand me cos they have being through this before or understand what i meant. thanks for understanding m |
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