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| Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Hello Nairalander Am in a dilemma on the proper way to do this... I have a friend(a lady) a very cute and brainy one at that but she has an issue i guess she's unaware of which is some offensive odour emanating from her... The odour gets worse as a function of time... e. g in the morning it's not as offensive as leta in the day or atimes vice-versa... We happen to be a little close, i did made a promise to take her out(for lunch) sometimes ago... But when i met her as planned, the odour i heard put me off... It was very thick.... She asked why i did that, i gave some flimsy excuse... Now my question is, Can i inform her about this? If yes, what's the proper way of doing so without hurting her feelings/ego? or do I just ignore? |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by wilybebsy(m): 7:17pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Yuck  |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Mutuwa(m): 7:20pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dbiljmer: Just tell her and that is it.The truth is always the truth,even if you decide to circumlocute about it. NB: if you still can't,hook me up let me do so  |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by 2dice01: 7:21pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
give her lofinda as gift she will get the drift |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by LorDBolton(m): 7:25pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Your friends are a reflection of who you are...after all birds of a feather, flock together 3 Likes |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by DaySpringer: 7:25pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dbiljmer: You said she is your Friend, If she is truly then you cannot allow something that embarassing to escape her notice. Find a gentle way to let her know. Make sure that in no way do you appear as if you are mocking her. Show Genuine concern. 2 Likes |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by CoolFreeday(m): 7:33pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
your girlfriend have an issue and you're asking before you help her? If you met her recently, I will understand but if you've known for who a while, you noticed this but haven't done anything abt it, then you're just using her. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by alatbaba1(m): 7:45pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
give her a strong aboki perfume. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by SlimmB(m): 8:15pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
wanted to laugh but ain't gonna laugh  seriously, meself confuse for here but there's no problem without a solution call her, tell her you want to tell her something very important. when she finally come to your place, act like you're ain't alright, just try and act to the extent that it will be so obvious that something is really bothering you... finally she ask you persistently then you tell her... note: you ought to be very emotionally while spitting out all the necessary words like it you who got such odour... It is well |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
CoolFreeday:Am thinking of getting her a perf as a gift but i am sceptical about her response.. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by CoolFreeday(m): 8:23pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dbiljmer: find a way of telling her and suggest both of you going for a professional advice. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
CoolFreeday:Just using her kee?.... I said we are a "Little " close nothing intimate... just normal or someaw above normal friendship.. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
It depends on Her temperament If She's one that takes things too serious, send Her an anonymous message If She listens to advice, tell Her stylishly |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
KissChrix:Been seriously thinking of that anonymous message... It's definitely an option.. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by CoolFreeday(m): 8:44pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dbiljmer: OK. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by thowbie7ven(m): 8:44pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
2dice01:Lofinda Fulani... |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by yomalex(m): 8:50pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dbiljmer:register on www.domesms.com and let me know your username so I credit you with a few units and send her a message |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by chimdi101: 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
You no know how much dem dey sell insecticides? |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by dacblogger: 9:11pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
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| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Hmmmmm |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by dacblogger: 9:15pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
CorGier:excuse me  |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dacblogger: You edited ur earlier comment. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by MrCork: 9:17pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dbiljmer: ...is she lightskin?  1 Like |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by sexyslytim: 9:18pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
Buy her a perfume simple.... Thank me later |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by dacblogger: 9:19pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
CorGier:yels, was thinking its mouth odour.. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dacblogger: So it's actually from the coochie? |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by dacblogger: 9:23pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
CorGier:no, body odour, maybe u shld ask the o.p if the coochie is included as well. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 09, 2016 |
dacblogger: Oh, Ok. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Fidecoo(m): 9:39am On Dec 10, 2016 |
dbiljmer:,man up and jokingly ask her if she is on her code red time,that you seeing some noticeable sign.just joked that you nose magnets aromas easily. She will understand and get the message quickly. But do it with smiles and humour. |
| Re: Do I Tell Her Or Not? by Nobody: 9:43am On Dec 10, 2016 |
If you cannot be honest with friends why are you friends? Tell her what she chooses to do with the information afterwards would be a reflection of her level of maturity. And explain that it's not about getting rid of the BO but she also has to know about the source in order to truly address the problem. |
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