dfrost:


What has tribe got to do with the issue at hand?

It is very important dear. I just asked a harmless?

gabazin080:
not sure. cus she was a side chic turned wife due to pregnancy

Eeeeuuuuwwww. Your own is serious.

Dismiss that suspicion of her cheating on you since you have a look alike son, till you catches her red handedly. Sit her down, tell good things about her and proceed to tell her that lies is taking too much toll on your love for her.

gabazin080:
wish i could. i want to learn pls

If u cud sleep with her there Ws sm kind of attraction maybe not love bt since u decided to marry her and if she loves u and supports u just teach her and make her the kind of wife u wish u had! It's simple... Ok not dat simple depending on how eager she is to learn.

Go ahead and divorce her whether it hurts or not . But wait a minute . If you ever attend a marriages counselling they will tell you that the first five years is like hell and you would need a lot of endurance . Almost all the ladies have such hidden attitude that you only gets to know when you are closer to them . Try to endure . Call her into her senses no matter how hard it could be . At the end . You will be happy . Safe your home *dont quit *

dfrost:


Then after that, what happens? I'm interested to know.

If she really value the relationship, she will amend her ways.

dfrost:


Then after that, what happens? I'm interested to know.

quiting won't help your lookalike Son.

Gratefulsoul:


Why then did you go on with the marriage when you fully aware you don't love her.. Marriage isn't relationship or courtship, its a life contract. I will advice you look inward and deep down in your heart there is this atom of feeling or love which you once had for her cos am sure you didn't impregnate her through wifi but through love making, try and ignite those feelings again and learn to love her but this time not as a side chick but as a wife and also the mother of your sweet boy..

........very mature advice....the best so far.

kayguy2:
quiting won't help your lookalike Son.

I'm not the op

octopusfreaky:
It is very important dear. I just asked a harmless?

That's not a harmless question my dear sister. Tribe has nothing to do with love. Haba.

dfrost:


That's not a harmless question my dear sister. Tribe has nothing to do with love. Haba.

Certain tribes frown at marrying single mothers and getting a divorce.

octopusfreaky:
Certain tribes frown at marrying single mothers and getting a divorce.

Really? Please educate me. I'm all ears.

jaxxy:


If u cud sleep with her there Ws sm kind of attraction maybe not love bt since u decided to marry her and if she loves u and supports u just teach her and make her the kind of wife u wish u had! It's simple... Ok not dat simple depending on how eager she is to learn.

thanx man

Wrong! Because people say they love you doesn't mean they actually do. Love is endless. Any love that later turns into hate was never love in the first place.

butanep:


If love is enough you won't be having break up in relationships and marriages after the couple have proclaimed love to each other. Love is just and illusion and a feeling. The main thing is compatibility. Are you guyz compactible to live together. Nobody and nothing can seperate two spouse that are compactible.

Omudia11:
Wrong! Because people say they love you doesn't mean they actually do. Love is endless. Any love that later turns into hate was never love in the first place.

Your opinion. Everyone is entitled to his opinion and beliefs.

This isn't my opinion. If you're a christian then you should've seen it in the bible. If you're not, just forget it.

butanep:



Your opinion. Everyone is entitled to his opinion and beliefs.

Omudia11:
This isn't my opinion. If you're a christian then you should've seen it in the bible. If you're not, just forget it.

This has nothing to do with religion oga. Don't bring religion to the topic. I have seen powerful men of God whose marriage collapsed or didn't last long so...


It all depends on what you believe. For me love isn't enough. You want to compare the love of men and that of Christ.

Our love is selfish. The only true love is the love of Christ.

Notice I didn't say "men of God", I said the bible teaches us that love is endless. Read the song of Solomon, its about romantic love and it also shows that love is endless. Christ is our only standard in life as Christians. Nothing wrong in bringing him into every situation.

butanep:



This has nothing to do with religion oga. Don't bring religion to the topic. I have seen powerful men of God whose marriage collapsed or didn't last long so...


It all depends on what you believe. For me love isn't enough. You want to compare the love of men and that of Christ.

Our love is selfish. The only true love is the love of Christ.

keepingmum:
She was a side chic? Yet u were nacking her raw in all angles? You were also cheating on her as well. But u want to divorce her because u "feel" she's doing what you were doing to her?? No proof oo... I am guessing u have gotten another babe abi?

Continue playing wt the feelings of women you hear? The thunnnndererrrr that will fire you, is coming from Buhari's 2017 budget

hahahahaa. dis guy dey vez.

perfet response indeed.

butanep:



Your opinion. Everyone is entitled to his opinion and beliefs.

butanep:



Your opinion. Everyone is entitled to his opinion and beliefs.

gabazin080:
haba. bro wetin bring curse na

U deserve that curse. Fool! Let it not be that u've divorced ur wife. U lack respect for women and God. Ashawo nwoke!

meeyarh:
Dnt sweat it d feeling to quit is always dia in every marriage, so if u leave dis one u definitely gone leave d next one. Patience, perseverance and thorough fighting fr love helps hold d marriage. *pashan to a fi na iyale oun bo wa na iyawo*

I don catch u,hmmmmmmm

Now you understand how women become single mothers.

Hope you become the SINGLE FATHER after the divorce?

Best wishes!