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| ‘you Don't Need God To Have A Successful Marriage?’ by cuvox(m): 12:57pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
There are principles to success in every facet of life. Business.
Marriage. Career. Spirituality. And when you follow these steps with
or without prayer, it'll work for you.
The Bible says: “Can two work together except they agree?”
This means two will work together if they agree. Note that the Bible
didn't point out two Christians. It says ‘TWO’
Now this applies to marriage, any two people of like minds will make
a great marriage whether they know God or not...
The Bible says: “Can two work together except they agree?”
This means two will work together if they agree. Note that the Bible
didn't point out two Christians. It says ‘TWO’
Now this applies to marriage, any two people of like minds will make
a great marriage whether they know God or not...
“Except they agree”
This clearly brings the need of shared values. Because the possibility
of agreeing is based on the similarity of values. Meaning that two
atheists can have a successful marriage. God or no God.
The only difference is that two non religious people cannot have a
‘Godly’ marriage. Because they don't believe in God, but successful
and peaceful?
Yes!
Now, does everything work out because of God?
No!
Marriages don't work out because of God. You see, no matter how
spirit filled you are, no matter how prayerful you are, if you marry
someone of opposing values, it will crash.
God will lead you to the right person, even with that, it doesn't
guarantee your marital success.
You must have human relationship skills, you must be emotionally
intelligent, you must be mature.
Because God gave you the right person doesn't mean it'll just work
out. You must be skilled.
If 10 million dollars is given to some folks, they'd mismanage it before
next week. They were given the right resources, but wrong attitude
destroyed it.
In that light, with the right person, it's possible to destroy a God
given relationship out of wrong attitude.
It's not God that makes it work or not. He gives you raw materials
and expects you to make out the finished product.
If you believe that every failed marriage isn't caused by God. Why
would you doubt it that marriages work because of us?
In God's word, he clearly said that he's given us life and
EVERYTHING, I mean every darn thing that pertains to life. That
means God has played his part. He is done with every man, you just
become what you make out of what he's given you.
Conclusively, this isn't a post to undermine the power of
acknowledging God. Yea, God works, but this post is to make us more
responsible for our lives. God has given us so much yet we trouble
him so much.
Christians get married and divorce even with the one they so called
“God’s will”
Sometimes actually these folks were God's will for them, the right
person for them but they lacked the right attitude, they mismanaged
it. So no marriage success is all because of GOD. In fact no success
in life is all because of God.
We have a part to play, if not most times. Just follow principles and
you'll have miracles.
I know a lot of folks will criticise this sha. But my point has been
made to the open minded folks.
Written by
Solomon Buchi Bartholomew
Life Coach/Motivational Speaker |
| Re: ‘you Don't Need God To Have A Successful Marriage?’ by cuvox(m): 12:59pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
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| Re: ‘you Don't Need God To Have A Successful Marriage?’ by Nobody: 6:52pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
cuvox:
Written by
Solomon Buchi Bartholomew
Life Coach/Motivational Speaker
Am happy abt wat u wrote at d end ..Life coach/motivational speaker, derfore u are not speaking under d influence of the Holy Spirit but ur own opinion. If we follow any1 opinion of the bible, our mansion in hell wld,av bin ready. If u want to write ur opinion stop quoting d bible to support ur ridiculous claims . experienced investment bankers wld say buy bonds invest ur money while Christians are,encouraged to invest in the poor and promotion of God kingdom on earth dat dosent make sense to a normal human beings but practising Christians are reaping heavily from it. |
| Re: ‘you Don't Need God To Have A Successful Marriage?’ by Splinz(m): 7:31pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
Do not think that because you've quoted scriptures, then your opinion is biblical backed.
Yours on this subject is simply a subjective one, because I don't agree with you. Of course, I respect your opinion. |
