I just rounded up my NYSC. No "correct job" yet. I have this babe am dating. She's an only child, good and respectful. She lost her dad last year. The problem now is she just got admission after several attempts to study ecology and no one to sponsor her in school, all the uncles & aunts are not willing to sponsor let alone support. Mum is actually very poor. Now she's looking up to me for support, always calling me n crying. This situation is overwhelming cos i don't have a steady job.
Nairalanders is it right to support a lady am not married to in school? Thanks for taking out time to read this. Pls speak your mind!

Mavrodi, owner of MMM and u don't ave a job

KILL HER..

If U Love Her Nd U Have The Money Help Her Nah, If She Is Nt An Ingrate She Will Love U Forever. #loverboy

Wait you can't support her cos you are not married to her? Or you don't see her in your future
Where then is the love you profess if you cannot invest in her future
Oga love isn't complete without giving and sacrifice.

BTW I hope you are not investing in between her legs cos then we all know you'll need no one's advice.

i will advice you to get a guarantee first

mavrodi:
I just rounded up my NYSC. No "correct job" yet. I have this babe am dating. She's an only child, good and respectful. She lost her dad last year. The problem now is she just got admission after several attempts to study ecology and no one to sponsor her in school, all the uncles & aunts are not willing to sponsor let alone support. Mum is actually very poor. Now she's looking up to me for support, always calling me n crying. This situation is overwhelming cos i don't have a steady job.
Nairalanders is it right to support a lady am not married to in school? Thanks for taking out time to read this. Pls speak your mind!

This question is like asking: Is it right to help someone Bro, if you think you can help her, then do it for helping sake.

If you can't, then it shouldn't be because she's not your wife, but because you're financially incapacitated.

my only fear iz, girls have d tendency to change in university. she might meet sum oda guy who iz rich, nd having promised her d whole world, begin to misbehave. if u rili do trust her, u cn help her.

mavrodi:
I just rounded up my NYSC. No "correct job" yet. I have this babe am dating. She's an only child, good and respectful. She lost her dad last year. The problem now is she just got admission after several attempts to study ecology and no one to sponsor her in school, all the uncles & aunts are not willing to sponsor let alone support. Mum is actually very poor. Now she's looking up to me for support, always calling me n crying. This situation is overwhelming cos i don't have a steady job.
Nairalanders is it right to support a lady am not married to in school? Thanks for taking out time to read this. Pls speak your mind!

Hand her over to a nigga like me, or else even when she hits the campus she would still find one!


Focus on building your life and not trying to form aristo! Your time will come....

I'd advise you stay well clear of sponsoring a lady through University my brother especially with hopes of getting married to her because the truth is she'll change and how much you are willing to accept that change will go a long way cus you surely don't want to abandon paying her fees half way through her education and besides, you don't even have a job my brother.


Best advise will be to end the relationship and help her in whatever way you can,that way your expectations are lower.

If you have means of helping her and you want to help her then do. But no one knows the future, one of you may not be interested in the relationship later. In short, see her as a girl not your girlfriend.

This issue of sponsoring a lady throughout a university is no no for me considering the fact u haven't gotten a job....wat give u an assurance she won't cheat on u on a long run?. Just look before u leap so dat u won't eventually fetch a big bowl of water inside a basket

IF YOU WANT TO BE OF HELP TO HER THEN DO SO FORGET THE FACT SHE IS IN SCHOOL OR NOT, AND IF YOU DON'T WANT TO THEN LET HER BE AND DON'T GET ANGRY IF SHE FINDS SOMEONE ELSE WHO WOULD DO IT..TRUST ME SOMEONE ELSE WOULD COME INTO THE PICTURE, SO GET READY.

my brother yeah she will change but my concern is why will you be worried if she will change at the end.......don't you know change is a constant thing in life........let me tell you something here and its a fact so far you constantly develop yourself no woman will turn you down except you made her to period.

Heheeheheh....i laff first
But den back to biz
Guy u get mind to move on after ahe go dump u for anoda rich kid?
Guy...i no go say no sponsor but guy...pple wei don go down dat road go say its risky b careful

mavrodi:
I just rounded up my NYSC. No "correct job" yet. I have this babe am dating. She's an only child, good and respectful. She lost her dad last year. The problem now is she just got admission after several attempts to study ecology and no one to sponsor her in school, all the uncles & aunts are not willing to sponsor let alone support. Mum is actually very poor. Now she's looking up to me for support, always calling me n crying. This situation is overwhelming cos i don't have a steady job.
Nairalanders is it right to support a lady am not married to in school? Thanks for taking out time to read this. Pls speak your mind!

What the heck huh, upon all the stories we read every day on nairaland on how giris ditch their bfs after sponsoring them in school, you still wanna place your name on the maga number?....my brother, sponsor your sisters finish first, you 've tried by giving her money for hair and other luxuries...would 've adviced you help her but i'm bent sure she 'll dump you after graduation...no be today e start.

my brother if you want to help, see her as a friend that needs help, don't expect NOTHING in return.