A while back, a man named James met a woman he particularly liked during a Ten-Plus Live weekend.

He was able to successfully continue the interaction with her later on...and was thrilled about it.

But here's the thing. At first, James had left that interaction without getting her number.

When the chips were down, he got what I call "second stage fear or rejection" and bailed out of the conversation.

Ultimately, he didn't want to risk the warm-fuzzies of having had a girl be nice to him. Asking for her number would have done that.

After all, what if she denied him? That would only feel as if he had sort of postponed the "inevitable" rejection.

It's as if he convinced himself the "what if?" fantasy was somehow better than finding out what the real potential there was.

I was left no other option than to ask him how honest he was being with himself.

What would be more painful...knowing that he essentially wimped out and let himself down or, well, anything that woman could say or do to "reject" him?

The answer in his mind was a no-brainer, so he went back in there and did the right thing...ultimately with positive results.

That next level of euphoria would never have happened had he not made the RIGHT decision to believe in himself.

And hey, you know what? Even if something socially catastrophic had happened when asking the woman for her phone number (e.g. she put him off in some extra-rude way), that wouldn't have been a big deal in the long run.

At the very least, it wouldn't have been nearly as damaging as "rejecting" one's SELF.

How do I know this?

Read the full article here: http://www.relationshiptalkforum.com/blogs/how-to-attract-men-and-women/814-if-this-doesn-t-motivate-you-to-meet-more-women-nothing-will




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