I am so confused right now. My wife cannot cope with my demands in the bedroom.

She has asked me to select only two days in a week when we can have sex. I am so confused and worried right now because I don't want to go after other women.


I have tried all I can to ask her to take a second look at this decision because it does not work well for me at all but she has refused.


Anytime I try to approach her outside those two days she does not allow and I end up going to work frustrated the next day.


God help me.

God help you o.

Seun, lalasticlala how do you think I should handle this huge challenge?

INTROVERT:
God help you o.

Why are you women like this or is it just my wife? What other help will God give to me when He has already given me a wife? Why should I be going through this when I have a wife?

Lies!!!!!

Zambux:
Lies!!!!!

Look at this one? Are you married? If not please step aside. I know what I have going through and I am reaching my limits.

Sex is very sweet and both men and women enjoy it! Why would she deny you or choose just 2 days in a week? Are you not good in bed? Don't u hit the right spot that will make her never hesitate anytime u want it? Or is it that she just does not like sex? How old is your marriage?

Oga, I'm sorry to tell you, but it's like she's seeing someone! Her love for you is "diminishing"


Sit her down and talk some sense into her.#whatnonsense

Stricker321:
I am so confused right now. My wife cannot cope with my demands in the bedroom.

She has asked me to select only two days in a week when we can have sex. I am so confused and worried right now because I don't want to go after other women.


I have tried all I can to ask her to take a second look at this decision because it does not work well for me at all but she has refused.


Anytime I try to approach her outside those two days she does not allow and I end up going to work frustrated the next day.


God help me.

You not even talking like a married person.

I m not suppose to comment but i commented i m sorry for commenting

If it was me, I select Monday morning and saturday morning, afternoon and night

austinosita:
Sex is very sweet and both men and women enjoy it! Why would she deny you or choose just 2 days in a week? Are you not good in bed? Don't u hit the right spot that will make her never hesitate anytime u want it? Or is it that she just does not like sex? How old is your marriage?

Oga, I'm sorry to tell you, but it's like she's seeing someone! Her love for you is "diminishing"


Sit her down and talk some sense into her.

I am 200% sure she is not seeing any other man so that side is settled. I will not say I am perfect in bed but I don't do badly.

I just cannot understand why a married woman will say she cannot cope with too much sex as she puts it saying I want to kill her.

Stricker321:
I am so confused right now. My wife cannot cope with my demands in the bedroom.

She has asked me to select only two days in a week when we can have sex. I am so confused and worried right now because I don't want to go after other women.


I have tried all I can to ask her to take a second look at this decision because it does not work well for me at all but she has refused.


Anytime I try to approach her outside those two days she does not allow and I end up going to work frustrated the next day.


God help me.

I take it you are the man of the house,and in charge as well? Or is there anything else the forum needs to know?

INTROVERT:
God help you o.

you can help him out ke

fromnigeria:
You not even talking like a married person.

How? I have been married over 5yrs now.

Stricker321:


I am 200% sure she is not seeing any other man so that side is settled. I will not say I am perfect in bed but I don't do badly.

I just cannot understand why a married woman will say she cannot cope with too much sex as she puts it saying I want to kill her.

^
Do you truely want to kill her ?
Dont lie. MakaNaki

Mutuwa:


I take it you are the man of the house,and in charge as well? Or is there anything else the forum needs to know?

How do I get my wife to know that twice in a week is not enough at all. I am sex starved and it is affecting other areas of my life.

dopedealer:


^
Do you truely want to kill her ?
Dont lie. MakaNaki

what do you mean by 'Wanting to kill her?' How can asking my wife for sex mean that I want to kill her?

Stricker321:


How do I get my wife to know that twice in a week is not enough at all. I am sex starved and it is affecting other areas of my life.

Can't you marry another woman that will yield to your sex demands? Life is too short for one to leave the comfort of his life,in the hands of one woman.

Don't cheat on her.Make plans to marry again.and make it explicit to her,except if you fear the after math.

Stricker321:
I am so confused right now. My wife cannot cope with my demands in the bedroom.

She has asked me to select only two days in a week when we can have sex. I am so confused and worried right now because I don't want to go after other women.


I have tried all I can to ask her to take a second look at this decision because it does not work well for me at all but she has refused.


Anytime I try to approach her outside those two days she does not allow and I end up going to work frustrated the next day.


God help me.

Op, you mean the property(woman) you bought(married) with your money, gave you timetable on when to touch her

Op, you are joking

Stricker321:


what do you mean by 'Wanting to kill her?' How can asking my wife for sex mean that I want to kill her?

The way you are talking self i am suspecting you i swear . So because she is your wife u want to kill her... Erora

God will indeed help you ooooo

Mutuwa:


Can't you marry another woman that will yield to your sex demands? Life is too short for one to leave the comfort of his life,in the hands of one woman.

Don't cheat on her.Make plans to marry again.and make it explicit to her,except if you fear the after math.

Honestly the thought of marrying another woman has crossed my mind many times but I can't imagine myself doing that in this day and age, a sophisticated guy like me? Nahhh.

Stricker321:

How? I have been married over 5yrs now.

You are too young at heart to marry. Use your tongue to count the number of teeth you have.

bbmpin:
You are way too nice to her(for her to boldly present those terms), she will never have respect for you

You care way too much about what she thinks and she takes advantage of that; too late to fix any of that.

Men like you are responsible for emergence of "feminism"

You are supposed to be the head of your house-hold

You are the leader in your house, supposed to guide your wife!

Then there is also the possibility that she hates having sex with you (very plausible)

Take a deep breath and start living for yourself, I would not say to leave your wife or your family.

But give yourself time to think about about your opinions

Right now from your description, You are not enjoying your marriage ,You are bogged down.

It's very common, You are not alone.

he should discard her

fromnigeria:
You are too young at heart to marry. Use your tongue to count the number of teeth you have.

You that is more matured at heart than King Solomon please face sambisa forest.

bbmpin:
You are way too nice to her(for her to boldly present those terms), she will never have respect for you

You care way too much about what she thinks and she takes advantage of that; too late to fix any of that.

Men like you are responsible for emergence of "feminism"

You are supposed to be the head of your house-hold

You are the leader in your house, supposed to guide your wife!

Then there is also the possibility that she hates having sex with you (very plausible)

Take a deep breath and start living for yourself, I would not say to leave your wife or your family.

But give yourself time to think about about your opinions

Right now from your description, You are not enjoying your marriage ,You are bogged down.

It's very common, You are not alone.

You have said it all my brother. I am beginning to think she hates having sex with me like you said. If not for my Christian faith I tell you I would have married another woman now.

Christian men are really suffering because our wives know we cannot go outside and at the same time cannot divorce them.

shyling:
he should discard her

How can I discard the mother of my children?

After you kneel down finish propose, she come dey do like this? If i say i go stand propose e go be like. Well time will tell. For me i can't take this. I have the right to have her at any fu*king time and vice versa. You need to talk to her. This time let her know her role.

Stricker321:


You that is more matured at heart than King Solomon please face sambisa forest.

As a married man, there are challenges i should bring on nairaland for the unmarried and youths to judge.

fromnigeria:

As a married man, there are challenges i should bring on nairaland for the unmarried and youths to judge.

You have not made any sense or addressed the issue being discussed. For crying out loud there are lots of married people on nairaland and reasonabe ones too.

NaeChris:
After you kneel down finish propose, she come dey do like this? If i say i go stand propose e go be like. Well time will tell. For me i can't take this. I have the right to have her at any fu*king time and vice versa. You need to talk to her. This time let her know her role.

I have talked to her many times but nothing has changed. I can only have her when I approach her on those two days in a week. Anything outside that only ends in frustration for me.