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| Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by TheSeeker(m): 6:37am On Nov 17, 2009 |
I have been able to deduce that some husbands are just temperamental about just everything; they are intolerant and as such can lose their cool over any flimsy reasons. Wives, how do you handle such men? |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by SeanT21(f): 7:13am On Nov 17, 2009 |
My step daddy(RIP) was just like that. I just ignored him. |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by coolier(f): 12:24pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
Silence. |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by ayomifull(f): 12:37pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
It is better imagined than experienced. I dont wish even my enemy such men. I still dont understand how my sister is able to live with her husband of 11 years, its horrible and a terrible experience. You need a special kind of grace. 1 Like |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by TheSeeker(m): 1:26pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
11 years?  |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by agathamari(f): 3:11pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
send him to anger management classes. or call him on his temper when he is doing it. mine used to have a bad temper but it is slowly getting better |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by iice(f): 6:33pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
If he's reasonable enough, talk to him after he has finished ranting. If it's the build-up of something, just let him blow off steam, then ask him, whats wrong. One would have insights as to what is causing the tantrums and try to avoid what one knows would set off the tantrums, or find ways to distract or help like anger management |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Fhemmmy: 7:10pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
Give him a good sex, that will make all the screws in his head tighter again  1 Like |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by TheSeeker(m): 7:21pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
iice:You should start a social behavior center |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by chika98: 8:09pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
Get temperamental just like him so that the two of you will go mental together. A family that craze together stays together 2 Likes |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
chika98:Where's IIce?  @Post Dnt know cuz temperamental + temperamental is not a good combo. Dnt hope to marry one  |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Remii(m): 8:24pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
In some cases chika98 is right, people tend to respect those who stood up to them, but be consistent if you want to go that way. He or she would like to stamp superiority but if a balance of tyranny is apparent he would come to terms that no be only him sabi craze. If you are just testing waters, the repercussion maybe devastating. For instance America would negotiate with Russia, but if smaller country do anyhow, we all know what would happen. |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Fhemmmy: 11:00pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
chika98: That is dangerous oh, cos that means if care is not taken, one person might injure the other. As a man if my woman is pissed, i will get into my car and go for a nice spin and enjoy the bliss of the nice wind of the night. |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Hauwa1: 12:01am On Nov 18, 2009 |
tempered guy, i pray not to meet such. better for a woman to be temperamental than a man  |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by chillbabe(f): 12:38am On Nov 18, 2009 |
Nothing works mine is just like that. I will always do what i normaly do when he's not angry but that my husband can just snap like that without me even knowing what's wrong he want talk and just ignore me 4 days. U know what a year ago i would cry my eyes out now it just enoy me and that's the sign when men needs 2 be carefull. A woman wont put up with that crap 4 to long. My husband can ignore me 4 days sometimes weeks no matter how much i ignore him or spoil him during his tantrums ooh pls grow up life is nt that easy. To all the tantrum men'r |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Fhemmmy: 5:25am On Nov 18, 2009 |
ummmmmmm ^^^^ |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by iice(f): 2:04pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
TheSeeker: LOL don't think i have the patience FL Gators: What did i do? |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by TheSeeker(m): 5:03pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
[Quote author=FL Gators]@Post Dnt know cuz temperamental + temperamental is not a good combo. Dnt hope to marry one [/Quote] I know right. |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by frozennose: 4:04pm On Nov 19, 2009 |
my fiance is sweet but when he navigates into that mood he automatically becomes a devil,i try as much as possible to mind wat i say and the words i use when communicating because i ve realised that he's very sensitive to words no matter how its been said so i often watch wat i say for peace to reign I know he would grow out of it just like my aunt's husband who was same but acts very calm now [b][b]the secret is silence and patience 2 Likes |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Fhemmmy: 4:26pm On Nov 19, 2009 |
frozennose: So what happens if he never grow out of it? |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by rubi(f): 5:34pm On Nov 19, 2009 |
frozennose: You have to be free to say what you want to without the other person taking it personal. How long can you live like this abeg life is short to habor emotions and been over sensitive |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by frozennose: 5:35pm On Nov 19, 2009 |
@fhemmmy if he does'nt then he too will not have peace and would die before me.is there any man that will want his house to always be on fire??i dont think so. |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Fhemmmy: 6:06pm On Nov 19, 2009 |
frozennose: So why would you wanna walk into a dead zone with both eyes open? |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by echobee(f): 8:18pm On Nov 19, 2009 |
do fasting for 70 days, b4 u re through, he go don well |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Fhemmmy: 8:31pm On Nov 19, 2009 |
echo- bee: U be priest  ? |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by moonbaby(f): 4:51pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
The best thing to do as a wife or anyone in a relationship (especially we ladies), is to just remain calm down anytime he is upset, raising your own voice could aggravate matter. My mom used to tell me that when dealing with people, I have to “mo iwa fun oniwa”. Since you know he’s the temperamental being, just try and remain calm at all times. I know it could be frustrating but you can never have two drivers in one car… 1 Like |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by chidyke77(m): 6:47pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
moonbaby: The best thing to do as a wife or anyone in a relationship (especially we ladies), is to just remain calm down anytime he is upset, raising your own voice could aggravate matter.good |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by tpia1: 7:01pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
nice topic. folks tend to hype mild people as being the only type of marriageable husband, but i dont think that's true, since there are different temperaments and everyone cant be the same. i'm sure there are fire breathing dragons who, while not being abusive, do happen to make good marriage partners, just that we dont hear about them that much. and granted, such personalities might be prone to crossing that line more than if they werent temperamental, but that doesnt mean they cant be men who their wives wouldnt have any other way. 1 Like |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by tpia1: 7:02pm On Nov 30, 2012 |
moonbaby: The best thing to do as a wife or anyone in a relationship (especially we ladies), is to just remain calm down anytime he is upset, raising your own voice could aggravate matter. good points. i'm trying to think back and see if any examples come to mind. |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by DameGambrosia: 10:42pm On Feb 01, 2013 |
Just cuss 'em out! Especially in public!  1 Like |
| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by tpiadotcom: 3:44am On Nov 28, 2015 |
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| Re: Wives, How Do You Handle A Temperamental Husband. by Nobody: 10:37am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Not at all. |
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