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Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 4:01pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
^^^ @ izeek, u think some people deserve to be stalked ? |
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 4:01pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
OMG190: I don't know what u're talking about------ |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 4:29pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
izeek:lmao, But what did she want? |
Re: Stalking 101 by izeek(m): 4:36pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
chipmunkey: oh the same thing they all want, to make you thier one and only. |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
Looks like you play around a lot. izeek:what problems did you have wiv dat? |
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 5:02pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
Been stalked by both genders. . .not funny at all. |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 5:04pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
iice:am sure lots of people stalk you here on NL sef. |
Re: Stalking 101 by sexyZee(f): 5:11pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
iice: ROFLMAOBFMA |
Re: Stalking 101 by No2Atheism(m): 5:16pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
Before the start of any potential relationship , a man is a predator. . . HE STALKS OR PREDATORISES (yes i invented grammar so sue me ) IN ORDER TO GATHER INFORMATION BEFORE MAKING HIS MOVE. THE MAN BECOMES A STALKER IF AND ONLY IF SUCH MOVES BECOME REJECTED AND HE THENS STARTS behaving as below 1. Men start looking like stalkers wen they really find it hard to let go . . .after a few months of the woman saying no. 2. The stalking becomes crazy wen such men do not let go after like a long time of the woman saying no. . . |
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 5:17pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
^^^^^ are you saying stalking doesn't occur after the man has gotten the woman and doesn't want her anymore ? Me thinks this is when the madness begins---- |
Re: Stalking 101 by No2Atheism(m): 5:26pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
OBVIOUS: Women can also stalk . . .my statement was from the perspective of a man . . . cus that is the only perspective i am really authorised to talk about. |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 5:29pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
No2Atheism: Well, put like that it sounds reasonable. But I can never understand why people stalk other people! Jeez is he/she the only person in the world There are so many fishes in the river. Go cast your net and quit drooling! |
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 5:29pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
chipmunkey: Tolerable |
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 6:38pm On Nov 17, 2009 |
Isn't curiosity about stalking ? |
Re: Stalking 101 by topup: 4:36am On Nov 18, 2009 |
Sometimes you've accepted that it's over, but you can't get rid of that curiousity, not wanting to be shocked by things, you update yourself, secretly hoping; "I hope they're not having a great time, because I'm not." Usually the stalking stops when the person finds a new partner or I guess, a new obsession. I think everyone stalks, someway or the other, even if it's that everytime you drive by someone's house, you peep into their yard to see if they're t home, or you just update yourself on how the house looks, whether they've moved, decorated etc. |
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 5:05am On Nov 18, 2009 |
topup: Wow----that is some serious stalking. |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
topup:i subscribe to that. i myself did it before. |
Re: Stalking 101 by RuuDie(m): 12:31pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
I've stalked once before; yrs ago. . . . but not obsessively enough to set alarm bells off. In the evenings, i would go chill at the mai-suya spot just by the street gate just to have a peek at her when she comes in from her outings. Looking back on it now, it wasn't a waste of time cuz well, i had far too much time on my hands + each day at it, brought me closer to the realization that i had to move on. |
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:19pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
topup: I don't think so. Some people do really cut off their lives from their past or who they were acquainted with. I won't say i haven't had the urge, but like jealousy, once i start to feel it's presence. . .i squash it. Even when i severed ties with a close friend. . .i didn't even bother to check anything. It's over and done and i've moved on. Don't really like to dwell on what might have been, what if, what this, that. . .i see it as a waste of my time, emotions and mental space. |
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 2:20pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
^^^^^^ u must be strong---- wow. |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
hmmmmmm! |
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:23pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
OBVIOUS: The sobriquet 'iice' does have a meaning |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 2:26pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
Do you mind telling us. |
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
iice: ice cold---- people who have such attitude towards life--- live a simple life. U're soo used to letting go of baggage but that also normally take experience and discipline too! |
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:41pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
OBVIOUS: You understand Though i've always been this way for as long as i can remember |
Re: Stalking 101 by whitelexi(m): 2:52pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
Stalkers chase me round town all the time but i ignore them, my car. . . Chai!!! they destroyed it, so now i only go by public transport. I change my numbers when i need to, cos them babes can be a thorn in the flesh. Stalkers go round talking trash to any chick they notice i'm chasing, but they've always failed. Stalkers have even chased me into nl with all sorts of accusations, and all they achieved was further disgrace. . . As far as stalking goes, they will continue to die of turmoil inside until they learn to live like free spirits and get some maturity instilled. |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 2:54pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
You must be a superstar to have that much stalkers. |
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:57pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
LOL |
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 3:54pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
whitelexi: Is this something to brag about ? You should be ashamed of treating women the way you do----- pls this is nothing to write home about. |
Re: Stalking 101 by whitelexi(m): 4:00pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
OBVIOUS: Dude, women hate to be dumped - thats a fact. Unfortunately, i dont swallow things i cant stand. Besides, relationships are meant for getting to know people better - so if you're fine from far i want to get closer and study u, however if from close, u r far from fine. . . I'm sitting u down and doing some serious straight talking. I wont be to blame if you cant handle your emotions. . . Girls do this to men all the time, i'm in a position to take such decisions and i do. . . Do u have a problem with that? Stop being very obvious pls |
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 4:52pm On Nov 18, 2009 |
Anyone else got a wired experience to share? Got loads of experience i even find embarrassing to talk about, maybe i will spill it eventually. |
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