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Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 4:01pm On Nov 17, 2009
^^^ @ izeek, u think some people deserve to be stalked ?
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 4:01pm On Nov 17, 2009
OMG190:

sexyzee i hope u are taking notice

obvious ure the MAN~FUNNY ENUF S.Z fits in2 one of your listed category~
grin grin grin
LOLZZZZZ

I don't know what u're talking about------ lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 4:29pm On Nov 17, 2009
izeek:

its unfortunate that almost all stalkers are mentally ill!

i had one who stalked me to the extent that she was at my gate as eraly as 5a.m, just to catch me before i go out.

just watch it, when one stalks, if not properly taken care of can lead to something else.

grin grin grin lmao,
But what did she want?
Re: Stalking 101 by izeek(m): 4:36pm On Nov 17, 2009
chipmunkey:

grin grin grin lmao,
But what did she want?


oh the same thing they all want, to make you thier one and only.
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 17, 2009
Looks like you play around a lot. wink

izeek:


oh the same thing they all want, to make you thier one and only.

what problems did you have wiv dat?
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 5:02pm On Nov 17, 2009
Been stalked by both genders. . .not funny at all.
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 5:04pm On Nov 17, 2009
iice:

Been stalked by both genders. . .not funny at all.
smiley am sure lots of people stalk you here on NL sef.
Re: Stalking 101 by sexyZee(f): 5:11pm On Nov 17, 2009
iice:

Been stalked by both genders. . .not funny at all.

ROFLMAOBFMA
Re: Stalking 101 by No2Atheism(m): 5:16pm On Nov 17, 2009
Before the start of any potential relationship , a man is a predator. . . HE STALKS OR PREDATORISES (yes i invented grammar so sue me )  grin  grin  grin IN ORDER TO GATHER INFORMATION BEFORE MAKING HIS MOVE.

THE MAN BECOMES A STALKER IF AND ONLY IF SUCH MOVES BECOME REJECTED AND HE THENS STARTS behaving as below

1. Men start looking like stalkers wen they really find it hard to let go . . .after a few months of the woman saying no.

2. The stalking becomes crazy wen such men do not let go after like a long time of the woman saying no. . .
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 5:17pm On Nov 17, 2009
^^^^^ are you saying stalking doesn't occur after the man has gotten the woman and doesn't want her anymore ?


Me thinks this is when the madness begins----
Re: Stalking 101 by No2Atheism(m): 5:26pm On Nov 17, 2009
OBVIOUS:

^^^^^ are you saying stalking doesn't occur after the man has gotten the woman and doesn't want her anymore ?


Me thinks this is when the madness begins----

Women can also stalk . . .my statement was from the perspective of a man . . . cus that is the only perspective i am really authorised to talk about.
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 5:29pm On Nov 17, 2009
No2Atheism:

Before the start of any potential relationship , a man is a predator. . . HE STALKS OR PREDATORISES (yes i invented grammar so sue me )  grin  grin  grin IN ORDER TO GATHER INFORMATION BEFORE MAKING HIS MOVE.

THE MAN BECOMES A STALKER IF AND ONLY IF SUCH MOVES BECOME REJECTED.

1. Men start looking like stalkers wen they really find it hard to let go . . .after a few months of the woman saying no.

2. The stalking becomes crazy wen such men do not let go after like a long time of the woman saying no. . .



Well, put like that it sounds reasonable.

But I can never understand why people stalk other people! Jeez is he/she the only person in the world  

There are so many fishes in the river. Go cast your net and quit drooling!  angry
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 5:29pm On Nov 17, 2009
chipmunkey:

smiley am sure lots of people stalk you here on NL sef.

Tolerable
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 6:38pm On Nov 17, 2009
Isn't curiosity about stalking ?
Re: Stalking 101 by topup: 4:36am On Nov 18, 2009
Sometimes you've accepted that it's over, but you can't get rid of that curiousity, not wanting to be shocked by things, you update yourself, secretly hoping; "I hope they're not having a great time, because I'm not."

Usually the stalking stops when the person finds a new partner or I guess, a new obsession.

I think everyone stalks, someway or the other, even if it's that everytime you drive by someone's house, you peep into their yard to see if they're t home, or you just update yourself on how the house looks, whether they've moved, decorated etc.
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 5:05am On Nov 18, 2009
topup:

you peep into their yard to see if they're t home, or you just update yourself on how the house looks, whether they've moved, decorated etc.

Wow----that is some serious stalking. shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 18, 2009
topup:

I think everyone stalks, someway or the other, even if it's that everytime you drive by someone's house, you peep into their yard to see if they're t home, or you just update yourself on how the house looks, whether they've moved, decorated etc.
i subscribe to that. i myself did it before.
Re: Stalking 101 by RuuDie(m): 12:31pm On Nov 18, 2009
embarassed
I've stalked once before; yrs ago. . . . but not obsessively enough to set alarm bells off.
In the evenings, i would go chill at the mai-suya spot just by the street gate just to have a peek at her when she comes in from her outings.

Looking back on it now, it wasn't a waste of time cuz well, i had far too much time on my hands + each day at it, brought me closer to the realization that i had to move on.
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:19pm On Nov 18, 2009
topup:

Sometimes you've accepted that it's over, but you can't get rid of that curiousity, not wanting to be shocked by things, you update yourself, secretly hoping; "I hope they're not having a great time, because I'm not."

Usually the stalking stops when the person finds a new partner or I guess, a new obsession.

I think everyone stalks, someway or the other, even if it's that everytime you drive by someone's house, you peep into their yard to see if they're t home, or you just update yourself on how the house looks, whether they've moved, decorated etc.

I don't think so. Some people do really cut off their lives from their past or who they were acquainted with.  I won't say i haven't had the urge, but like jealousy, once i start to feel it's presence. . .i squash it. Even when i severed ties with a close friend. . .i didn't even bother to check anything.  It's over and done and i've moved on. Don't really like to dwell on what might have been, what if, what this, that. . .i see it as a waste of my time, emotions and mental space.
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 2:20pm On Nov 18, 2009
^^^^^^ u must be strong---- wow.
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 18, 2009
hmmmmmm!
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:23pm On Nov 18, 2009
OBVIOUS:

^^^^^^ u must be strong---- wow.

The sobriquet 'iice' does have a meaning grin
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 2:26pm On Nov 18, 2009
Do you mind telling us.
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2009
iice:

The sobriquet 'iice' does have a meaning grin

ice cold---- people who have such attitude towards life--- live a simple life. U're soo used to letting go of baggage but that also normally take experience and discipline too!
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:41pm On Nov 18, 2009
OBVIOUS:

ice cold---- people who have such attitude towards life--- live a simple life. U're soo used to letting go of baggage but that also normally take experience and discipline too!

You understand cheesy
Though i've always been this way for as long as i can remember undecided
Re: Stalking 101 by whitelexi(m): 2:52pm On Nov 18, 2009
Stalkers chase me round town all the time but i ignore them, my car. . .  Chai!!!  they destroyed it, so now i only go by public transport.
I change my numbers when i need to, cos them babes can be a thorn in the flesh.
Stalkers go round talking trash to any chick they notice i'm chasing, but they've always failed.
Stalkers have even chased me into nl with all sorts of accusations, and all they achieved was further disgrace. . .


As far as stalking goes, they will continue to die of turmoil inside until they learn to live like free spirits and get some maturity instilled.
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 2:54pm On Nov 18, 2009
You must be a superstar to have that much stalkers. wink
Re: Stalking 101 by iice(f): 2:57pm On Nov 18, 2009
LOL
Re: Stalking 101 by OBVIOUS(m): 3:54pm On Nov 18, 2009
whitelexi:

Stalkers chase me round town all the time but i ignore them, my car. . .  Chai!!!  they destroyed it, so now i only go by public transport.
I change my numbers when i need to, cos them babes can be a thorn in the flesh.
Stalkers go round talking trash to any chick they notice i'm chasing, but they've always failed.
Stalkers have even chased me into nl with all sorts of accusations, and all they achieved was further disgrace. . .


As far as stalking goes, they will continue to die of turmoil inside until they learn to live like free spirits and get some maturity instilled.

Is this something to brag about ? You should be ashamed of treating women the way you do----- pls this is nothing to write home about.
Re: Stalking 101 by whitelexi(m): 4:00pm On Nov 18, 2009
OBVIOUS:

Is this something to brag about ? You should be ashamed of treating women the way you do----- pls this is nothing to write home about.

Dude, women hate to be dumped - thats a fact.
Unfortunately, i dont swallow things i cant stand. Besides, relationships are meant for getting to know people better - so if you're fine from far i want to get closer and study u, however if from close, u r far from fine. . .  I'm sitting u down and doing some serious straight talking.
I wont be to blame if you cant handle your emotions. . .  Girls do this to men all the time, i'm in a position to take such decisions and i do. . .  Do u have a problem with that?

Stop being very obvious pls grin grin grin
Re: Stalking 101 by Nobody: 4:52pm On Nov 18, 2009
Anyone else got a wired experience to share?
Got loads of experience i even find embarrassing to talk about, maybe i will spill it eventually.

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