morning everyone. i need help with this. it's eating me up.

i broke up with my ex cos of religious issues. am a Christian he's a Muslim. he's a nice Guy but my family refused our relationship
we called a quit last year but still friends on Facebook we have started talking again but the old spark is back again. i see myself falling inlove all over again with him. he said that he's having the same feeling for me



please am confused. i feel like am making a big mistake by disobeying my family.

please no insult. just help me like. a sister

I have no advise for u.

It will not last. Quit

okenwa:
It will not last. Quit

thanks

With ur write up you're still a young girl.Well I will say you should follow ur heart and are you sure he did not have gf or side chick already....... make you no enter one chance bcoz of feelings.

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Spark plugs have a time the burn and die. That's for your spark. Sister, let go of him, for future reasons. I have seen this case before. He is the Man here. the best is yet to come.

If you love the guy, stick to him irrespective of religion difference or other people's opinion. This is your life and not you family's own.

Feels bad to know that you ain't gonna marry the person you truly love, religion difference is a very sensitive issue between couples these days, what it may cause between you two outweighs the love you have for each other, breaking up with him may be a necessary precautionary step to avert future rues and regrets and especially when you won't have your parents' blessing.

Are u ready to convert to Muslims if yes then go ahead because that's what his family will expect from u. If no then respect yourself and find another man before it's too late.

ladypearl45:
morning everyone. i need help with this. it's eating me up.

i broke up with my ex cos of religious issues. am a Christian he's a Muslim. he's a nice Guy but my family refused our relationship
we called a quit last year but still friends on Facebook we have started talking again but the old spark is back again. i see myself falling inlove all over again with him. he said that he's having the same feeling for me



please am confused. i feel like am making a big mistake by disobeying my family.

please no insult. just help me like. a sister

i have no advise for u but will advise u when u get belle and maybe becomes his wife and later changes Religion..lol..Them go chop ur head off

Girl, it is good to fall in love..marriage comes with a lot of baggage. The guy is a Muslim and you are a Christian, things can only be good if one of you convert to the other's religion. If you can't convert to Islam and your boyfriend isn't ready to join you in your Christian's faith, I take God beg you kiss good bye to the issue of "falling in love".

i dont know why... in this part of the world.. RELIGION is a very sensitive issue..

let me break down the future... i.e if it leads to marriage...
.. you will i mean must only marry him without blessing. *blessing? let me just say consent* .. its easier for a christain guy to marry the opposite religion.. than for a lady...
... mgbo u must convert offcourse after marriage.. because one thing in marriage is the fact that LOVE fades.. common ulld agree things would get different...
.... if u convert ure safe from them... endangered by ur family.. if u dont ure not safe.. if ur guy converts *shoo hes dead* *ok too harsh lets say endagered*
... ur kids what happens in africa the man is incharge so lets say theres a way u both kept to ur beliefs.. howd the kids cope obviously its either divided or the mans way...

...family is so important u dont wanna risk it.. just dont do it...
it might not be love.. ure probably needy and too fund of each other...
path ways its for the best...

Stop killing ursef.


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A cousin was in the same situation. Her Guy converted to Christianity, their trad marriage is this month.

joshysmartie:
i dont know why... in this part of the world.. RELIGION is a very sensitive issue..

let me break down the future... i.e if it leads to marriage...
.. you will i mean must only marry him without blessing. *blessing? let me just say consent* .. its easier for a christain guy to marry the opposite religion.. than for a lady...
... mgbo u must convert offcourse after marriage.. because one thing in marriage is the fact that LOVE fades.. common ulld agree things would get different...
.... if u convert ure safe from them... endangered by ur family.. if u dont ure not safe.. if ur guy converts *shoo hes dead* *ok too harsh lets say endagered*
... ur kids what happens in africa the man is incharge so lets say theres a way u both kept to ur beliefs.. howd the kids cope obviously its either divided or the mans way...

...family is so important u dont wanna risk it.. just dont do it...
it might not be love.. ure probably needy and too fund of each other...
path ways its for the best...

thanks

ladypearl45:
morning everyone. i need help with this. it's eating me up.

i broke up with my ex cos of religious issues. am a Christian he's a Muslim. he's a nice Guy but my family refused our relationship
we called a quit last year but still friends on Facebook we have started talking again but the old spark is back again. i see myself falling inlove all over again with him. he said that he's having the same feeling for me



please am confused. i feel like am making a big mistake by disobeying my family.

please no insult. just help me like. a sister

I wont even lecture you on the nitty-gritty of not becoming unequally yoke which you should know as a Christian. However, can you vouch that 15 years to this time, his love wey still dey do you both grahgrah will be there...won't he marry another wife on top of you later since it is "meh". Even Christian to Christian marriages pass through fire and divorce do happen...when all those feelings dissipates and it's all gone, will you be able to take the heat? I will advise you to listen to your parents and stop that discussion for your own good because you don't know yet what you really want. Shut down those emotions and ask yourself if you really want this? Before you can enter into a marital relationship with someone...look through into the future with the eyes of foresight if God grants you (without bias), and don't look at Now...if you can stay with such a fellow through perils and family recession and if such a person can stay with you through same. If you meditate on these things, then we will likely have less problems in marriages. It is beyond those feelings o...it is a commitment of oath and "swearing" unto whatever comes. Feelings will go, love may dwindle, and sexual appeal may evaporate but being True (truth) and Faithful will keep us going.

As the saying goes in Yoruba: Eni bi ti eda wa...eeyan bi Eledumare ni o si (there is always someone like the other people in the world, but no one like God). Meaning he is nice, but there are better people out there in being nice and also nice like him. Above all, I know how you feel...ire oo

dingbang:
I have no advise for u.

me too. She already had her mind made up to return to the relationship so what advice are we supposed to give her?