first lets put something out the window straight away: the fact that you and your friends have been wronged by some guys doesnt mean that we are all the same. if you hang around rats then you will get infested.

also it is safe to say that people meet new people and chase them. when they get with that person they discover them and probably along the way get tired of that person for a reason or another. maybe you should look at yourself and your friends and find out what is it about you girls that makes guys run away from you? have you ever thought about that?
i hope you wont take it the wrong way as i am just being honest with you(my humble opinion)

dont fall too quickly in love, dont show him that you care too soon (even if you do), dont fall for the game and see thru the BS. obviously you are new in the dating game because if you had some experience you would know that what you see on the first dates (prior to the shagging) is never what you are going to get.

and remember, the fact that YOU loved him, doesnt mean that the feeling was the same on the other side(even if he said it).

The love should be equal,

Meanwhile how do i post/start a new thread/topic?

@poster
This how some of us (guys) have been thinking that girls are monster too, When ADAM was alone there was so mush peace, unity and harmony between him and the animals, but ever since EVE came there have alot of sins, women are Evil, Have anyone ever thought about the meaning of WOMAN it means ( WO ONTO MAN)
Freecocoa do not put all your eggs in one basket do not allow heartbreak to pull you down though its never easy overcoming heartbreak but make yourself meaningful look for somebody you can talk and play with at this time never lock yourself indoor to cry, there are even more better guys, Feel free and enjoy yourself its a free world just as ur guy will be enjoying were ever he is too