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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 4:45pm On Dec 28, 2016
jidxin:
I sent u a pm but no reply yet
i don't reply pm angry
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by GreenCap: 4:46pm On Dec 28, 2016
shadeyinka:
OP,
I respect this your post. A challenge to purity rather than window dressing.

A girl had phone-sex with her boyfriend and it became a deliverance case. If a man looks lustfully at a woman, Jesus says they have done it.

The bottom line is this, "do NOT wake up love until it pleases". Don't start a relationship until you are ready for Marriage.

@Glory12345 the virgin queen,

the best thing for ladies is to get married at 19

even when puritan parents lock up their flowered daughters at home, technologies like Infinix can unflower them.

hmm, they also insert throw pillows in between their laps if they are feeling blue, hug teddies, and so on..
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by coolestchris(m): 4:46pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
i don't reply pm angry
all this racist
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Adedayo97(m): 4:47pm On Dec 28, 2016
Wo cares anyway
EbukaLive:
Looking at your DP. I don't think you would have a problem keeping your virginity or purity for a VERY long time...
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 28, 2016
coolestchris:
all this racist
dafuq angry
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by MrCork: 4:57pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
dafuq angry



.^^^^ kaiiiii..see boooooobsi....werrrrrrris my vaseline cheesy
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by vikendios(m): 4:57pm On Dec 28, 2016
Beautiful piece.
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Rahmoney(m): 5:01pm On Dec 28, 2016
Hope the OP is pure..?? Cus ion think any can stay pure with all your observations
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 5:01pm On Dec 28, 2016
MrCork:




.^^^^ kaiiiii..see boooooobsi....werrrrrrris my vaseline cheesy
embarassed embarassed

Why do u like boobi too much
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by xrenzy(m): 5:03pm On Dec 28, 2016
Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............
who e epp?
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by MrCork: 5:04pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
embarassed embarassed

Why do u like boobi too much


...you need to change that foto....it keeps makin my\our *kondo* standdddddup every day undecided
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 5:05pm On Dec 28, 2016
MrCork:



...you need to change that foto....it keeps makin my\our *kondo* standdddddup every day undecided
sad angry what is kondo
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Eagleword14(f): 5:05pm On Dec 28, 2016
Well said
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by MrCork: 5:09pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
sad angry what is kondo



...Google traaaaaaasslate says it means *priicccccck ok..Oko.. burrrrrra or diccccck*... smiley
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by coolestchris(m): 5:09pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
dafuq angry
u talk like u smoke weed
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 5:20pm On Dec 28, 2016
Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............

All this talk will only make sense if you are either a virgin or pure...... So madam which one u be?
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
i don't reply pm angry

I sent you 100k
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by lolamitayo: 5:39pm On Dec 28, 2016
Lets continue like this.

Thank you.
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Debra911(f): 5:41pm On Dec 28, 2016
All these ain't easy, Only God can help. I understand ur write up, and i want to tell u God also knows what he created & will keep giving us the grace to conquer all temptations. In sciences, I was made to understand that we are sexually active than each other depending on d structure of our body, some of us can control ourselve while some can't. Our ability to acknowledge to God that we're guilty & sorry for our sins, makes God love us the more& give us d grace to overcome temptations little by little. Man is an animal(higher) too , so... So many things are certain to happen.

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Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Dec 28, 2016
coolestchris:
u talk like u smoke weed
oh really.... wtf is u sef sad
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by coolestchris(m): 5:56pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
oh really.... wtf is u sef sad
fvck off my mentions
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Siscooh: 6:25pm On Dec 28, 2016
Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............
Excellent talk my dear! 1 Thesselonians 4:7! Thank you
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by jidxin(m): 6:37pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
i don't reply pm angry
ahn ahn....wat do u now reply to..... it mite not be a bad idea if u reply to my pm pls
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by myweb(m): 6:47pm On Dec 28, 2016
lilyqueen:



I'm serious

Who is oldest among you?
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 6:55pm On Dec 28, 2016
myweb:

Who is oldest among you?

she
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by ogbeiwi(m): 7:38pm On Dec 28, 2016
Virginity will not take you to heaven,but a clean Heart and clean Hands
Glory12345:
cryNo
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by jesusson22(m): 8:00pm On Dec 28, 2016
op, this is true,we tend to think of the hymen and inter course and forget about the thought of out hearts, that the scripture said we should guard our hearts diligently
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Nobody: 8:15pm On Dec 28, 2016
I think this is what I've never heard in a long time. There's need for pple to know that purity is about the imaginations going on in ur head (mind) and not wearing "over-sized shirt" and carrying big Bible for all to see. In as much as God wants us to appear holy, the thoughts and imaginations are the strong roots of holiness. The thought of foolishness is sin the word says. You are your heart and you are also ur mind. I rarely hear preachers talking about the mind in our day.And this object ( the mind) is the reason the world is what it is today. The truth is you must be skillful in controlling what happens in ur head. Except that u cant completely claim u are holy. Its a battle everyone must fight everyday.
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Temysteve(m): 8:34pm On Dec 28, 2016
Berlynn:
Thank God i am still a virgin and i am still pure grin
Quote me and fart all day pffffft
in ur widest dream. You can be a virgin but you can't tell u're not guity of sexual impurity (even if its for once)
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by Temysteve(m): 8:37pm On Dec 28, 2016
brostheo:
The story too long abeg,but those of you girls keeping your virginity just remember the second coming of Jesus won't be anytime soon and certainly not through a black woman
Meanwhile of late have been noticing my virginity growing back
en! en!! na weed?
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by brostheo(m): 9:15pm On Dec 28, 2016
Temysteve:
en! en!! na weed?
kwale own to be precise
Re: I Kept My Virginity But Lost My Purity. by unmask: 9:25pm On Dec 28, 2016
Glory12345:
There are so many teachings today about virginity! One guy was telling me the other time how he so much desired to marry a lady that is a virgin like himself, as good as that sounds, it is not the ultimate! I have written a lot about the need to preserve sex for marriage, and wait till you are married before having sex, the truth is that singles should abstain from premarital sex, and the married should abstain from extra-marital affairs, they are not man-made rules, they are commands from God written in the Holy Scriptures! Run from sexual sin! No other sin clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body (1Cor 6:18) and Proverb 6: 32 says But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. So I’m not in any way undermining the sanctity of virginity!

But unfortunately, more emphasis has been laid on virginity at the detriment of purity! Lots of young people believe that virginity and purity are synonymous! Thinking if you are a virgin then you are sexually pure! Hear this! You can be a VIRGIN and STILL BE A FORNICATOR! You can be a virgin and still be guilty of sexual immorality, in other words, YOUR VIRGINITY CAN BE INTACT, whereas YOUR PURITY IS LOST!
Read what Jesus said: But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart (Mathew 5:28), so you discovered that the issue of fornication/adultery has gone pass virginity! The sin is committed in the heart before the outward manifestation!

Purity is not just about whether you’ve had sex before or not, Purity is about being sexually pure inwardly and outwardly, PURITY IS NOT AN EVENT, IT’S A LIFESTYLE!
So many youths are only concerned about keeping their virginity (which is good) but less concerned about what they do with their body, so many are still involved in pornography,Watching blue films on the Infinix Zero 4 dry-humping (caressing their bodies with clothes on), masturbating, lustful kissing, homosexuality, sexual imaginations etc… All those sexual activities render you impure, regardless of whether you are a virgin or not!
If you are a virgin, strive not to lose your virginity to anyone other than your husband or wife, if you’ve lost your virginity, strive not to continue in premarital sex! But above all STRIVE TO BE SEXUALLY PURE AND LIVE A LIFE OF HOLINESS IN ALL RAMIFICATIONS! PURITY............
na una type your husband dey leave go commit adultery........

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