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Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by ezesun(m): 12:34pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:He is the beginning and the end. The one that created you. Who WAS and IS and is to COME. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Afam4eva(m): 12:35pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
In Christianity it's called "Courting" and not a relationship. And courting happens when you guys have already agreed to marry each other with the blessing of the pastor and that's after you guys must have prayed and seen each other in the dream which is a clear sign that you're each other's will of God. As far as limits goes, I think the way Deeper Life sees relationships should be the standard of every true Christian relationship. 1. You guys should never be seen together except in a public place where you can be monitored by people. 2. Don't touch each other. if a brother or sister tries to touch you, shout blood of Jesus and run 3. Don't look at each other lustfully. if your eyes will cause you to sin, pls by all means pluck it out. 4. After every encounter which each other, you guys should pray and purify yourself. 5. Never say "I love you" to each other. it's better to remove that tongue than to sin. it's funny that most people who claim to be Christians don't abide by these things. The present day Christian can fvck for Africa. If brother and sisters in the lord fvck for you here, you go bow. 5 Likes |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by AngelicBeing: 12:36pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Justmeal: 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 12:36pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
kunlegboye:you pick up your shattered heart and move on |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 12:36pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ask the nearest deeper life pastor. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by AngelicBeing: 12:37pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
2dugged: |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Gerrard59(m): 12:38pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Unfortunately, most "true christians" don't understand biology. You cannot just fight nature, certainly not when you are pious or excessively prudish. And that's my problem with religion to an extent......it doesn't allow room for rational/logical thinking. 2 Likes |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by OlajumokeBread(f): 12:38pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
ezesun: Who created him ?? He fell from the sky ?? When we were told that the earth was in no shape and form, he came from the air ?? I just want to kill myself, your brain is dead |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by jericco1(m): 12:41pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
hand shake |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Ayexy(m): 12:43pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
A christian relationship. Here are my thoughts. Having read through all the above posts, i have come to see that most answers do not actually understand the question. The question is not "Is Christian Relationship good" but it is "What is it about". A Christian Relationship with the right foundation is all about been engaged to someone who you want top spend the rest of your life with. Not someone you just want to be close with for a while. When you are engaged, you can see each other in public places. The reason is because we shouldn't give room to the devil at all. You might think you won't do anything immoral but when that sister is a constant visitor to your home, those thoughts kick in and lets not forget that the heart is DESPERATELY wicked. Also, it is always advisable not to have a long courtship in a christian relationship. To me i think it should be about 6 months top. Anything more will start to lead to the parties involved been tired of the rules. Also that period, courtship involves understanding each other. Important notice, you can say all you want, but in a Christian Relationship, there is Nothing like Boyfriend/Girlfriend. It is for people who are ready for Marriage. Lastly and importantly, it should be holy. If you notice that the devil is coming in with immoralities, you can pick race (1 Thess 5:22). 5 Likes |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 12:44pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Afam4eva: Afam4eva:Hahahahahaha... I don die |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 12:46pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
bro me na Christian o.....buh can't go into a relationship without intimacy.....I can avoid sex buh not hug and kiss....lie lie |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by StupidYorubaFool: 12:47pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Justmeal:you couldn't have said it better than this. Thumbs up man 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by StupidYorubaFool: 12:48pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
ZubbyGodson:same here bro, i keep wondering if kissing would take me to hell cos sex and all those Mouth Action stuff could be easily avoided but kissing kwa? No No No mbanu 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by dingbang(m): 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Ibitade1993:what is ur idea of romance |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Ragnorak: 12:58pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
The limit is not the same for everybody. I think every relationship should give those in it some sort of happiness. I think the bottom line for me when it comes to physical Intimacy is that if it's a spontaneous expression of love and it's not done to derive satisfaction or feed lust then it is good to go. Intimacy doesn't even have to be physical. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by dejidrizzle01(m): 12:59pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
I feel its all about maturity. There's no part of the scripture that categorically tells us not to kiss or touch or what not but we all know the end game is to avoid pre-marital sex which is a sin. If you can kiss and hug and won't fall into temptation of sex, go ahead. Just make sure you watch out for some things.. 1. If your conscience isn't at peace after kissing and all, desist from it. 2. If you go crazy after kissing and you want more i.e sex... Intimacy is not meant for you.. Abstain. 3. If you have tendencies to start lusting after the sister because of your intimate time..don't do it 4. Lastly, let God's spirit guide you in every act 2 Likes |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Stevebamdex(m): 1:03pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:Oga seun and lalasticlala.pls kindly check the profile of this fellow..he has broken the rules of this page by abusing and insulting the personality of olajumoke..thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Afam4eva(m): 1:03pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
dejidrizzle01:What if my conscience is at peace with having sex? The problem with Christians is that they want to eat their cake and still have it. It's not by force to be a Christian. You can be a pagan or atheist. Don't come here and confuse yourself. Kissing and other forms of intimacy are just as bad as sex in Christendom. Stop making it seem like some things are ok while some are not. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by OlajumokeBread(f): 1:07pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Stevebamdex: Kai kai is not good for your brain I will buy you a brand new used brain |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by sbabimbola(f): 1:08pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
2dugged: seem we attend same church. see ya in church. just pray for someone who would fear God and not pastors cum doctrines. TRUE LOVE WAITS. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Divinerace(m): 1:29pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:this breadwoman again, always talking giberish |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by AntiNigerian: 1:46pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
all I know is that I don't pity any Poony that comes near me ... Anyhow anyhow, I must plug my cord inside Socket |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 2:11pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
AngelicBeing:me dey talk my own o,i can't marry a guy I have not slept with, what if he turns out to snore or is his jt is dead? 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by stevejomo(m): 2:16pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
zero intimacy |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Alhamdu09(m): 2:16pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
dingbang:. Is that what u think? if yes then wrong.. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Alhamdu09(m): 2:19pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Nma27:. As simple as that |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Alhamdu09(m): 2:22pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
2dugged:God help you get ur desired husband using ur own tactics,,,,,,,,, but know that anything acquire dat defiles Gods rule will not last |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 2:26pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Alhamdu09:hehehehe, what you believe is what will happen, since pastors and Christians started getting divorces,that nonsense talk seized to make sense to me, besides our forefathers didn't know God, yet their marriages lasted,so my dear, there are some so called rules that have made people go into marriage, and end up regretting 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by Nobody: 2:29pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
Sex is the limit in a Christian rel. You can't do mor than that. I know a lot of choir girls, after f.ucking, they don't miss church ooo. Better don't enslave yourself. You not having intimacy or not should not be religion based but your own conviction. |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by SmartyPants(m): 2:52pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread: Hope you read your bible? I'll give you one example, after that promise me you will never speak about something you do not fully understand ok? Mary and Joseph were in a relationship before they got married. 1 Like |
Re: Limit To Intimacy In A Christian Relationship by ezesun(m): 2:57pm On Dec 29, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:MAY GOD DELIVER YOU. AMEN
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