aisha2:

Thanks dear. Apology after apology, I have just blanked it out of my mind now, he knows me so he has read my mood and is playing safe being really nice and helpful. He kept calling back and apologising that day, so I will probably let it go, am sure he will not let that happen again

Sure . . . he'll be careful when he picks your calls up next time. time for some heart-heart and using those wonderful tears God gave women.

ifedy:

Na to cook his JOHN THOMAS and feed him with it. In short, he don die be dat.

Are you Clifford Orji's niece?

aisha2:

I asked him over the phone, said it was a friends, didnt bother to ask again. Hmmm, My mind is so blank. Really busy now dont want distractions

My sister , I know you're busy, but you have to ask yourself, do you really want to know the truth? Whether its good or bad, am I ready to handle it? If not, then let it go, but be very mindful. If you do want to know, you better let him explain whats his relationship with the woman.

I for one want to know all my mans female friends, though they might not know me.

So think carefully, and dont let it distract you too much from your works.

That other woman wants to blackmail your husband

offtopic - i have read some of your more recent posts, so i want to believe u are either referring to your boyfriend - or you are enquiring for someone else

sounds like a case of the other woman getting confident enough to make her move - she must have wanted you/her friend  to hear her

imho, there is no solution to a cheating husband/bf

U no wat take chills 1st,act as if notin nEVA HAPPPEND,b4 he is back home prepare him is best meal,treat him like an omly child 4 awhile show u live him so much,dnt ask him any tin dat day,leta d next day afta dinner go in2 d room put him under a very romantic mood,askin him question softly,camly & wit love,watch his eyes prpoerly,if he says there is notin take it 4rm him bt girl u 2 av 2 b watchful.

na wa o
wonder what so many of us wld say if it was the other way round

aisha talk tru u r just fking with our heads to prove a point about doule standards

he is probably wit friends n they were joking, my female friends do it to me too

oyb:

na wa o
wonder what so many of us wld say if it was the other way round

aisha talk tru u r just fking with our heads to prove a point about doule standards

LOL where you secretly hoping?

^^^^^

did ur hubby know that you were er propositioning some fella here with a 'hot kiss'?

Haba OYB just trying to reward the guy for an excellent post. Even the guy no take as serious and as literally as u take am. cool ur temper. Yes hubby knows

no mind me o

Funniest thing happened. My mother In law saw this thread and took me out for a girls night out clubbing, she says am too serious and work too much that i need to loosen up. Had loads of fun. LOL

hmmm. . . For me, I wont feel anything cause the word sweetheart these days seems to be a public word. 


But since u said its through the phone and all, and you dont feel comfortable, just be straight forward with him. . .


Something similar happened to me but somhow different. Before, my bf had a phone call from a lady and he talks to her infront of me and I heard him saying this:-

1) I'm with my wife

and after a few secs, he went like this

2) Yeah

3) Nahh. . . . Im alone.

So I kinda get offended by that cause it sounded like he was kinda embarrass with me so I got upset but did not told him. And he sense that Im unhappy and asked me and I didnt say a word until like 2 hours, I told him that I wasn't happy wih the way he speaks to that girl on the phone. . .

And than he explains to me what actually she was asking. It goes like this

Girl: Who are you with right now?

BF: Im with my wife

Girl: With Gabby?

BF: Yeah

Girl: Cool! Send my regards to her. Are you coming to the gathering with her this Sat?

BF: Nah. . . . . Im alone

And Im like Ooohhhh. . . .


So yeah, be straight forward to him since he is after all your husband