DDeliverer:
.....

.......and makeup sex is the best.

yet the problem persists...just like taking a painkiller for a bad tooth instead of removing the tooth

PaperLace:
1)you have a high sex drive.
2)You know it.
3)Your wife knows it.
4)You know that your wife knows it.
5)Your wife knows that you know she knows it.
6)She is using it to you guys her advantage.
7)She doesn't turn you down when you come for it.
8 )You cure konji and become stable.
9) Misunderstanding is solved via makeup sex.
10)You should be happy you guys resolve your own in the other room, some people use blow and pestle
11)Everybody has mumu button, your wife has discovered yours_ I am sure you know hers.

Uncle, what else do you want?

lol!!! Mumu button!!! I just dey wonder wetin be my own mumu button self

DDeliverer:
.....
.......and makeup sex is the best.

funny you

zaza999:
My wife's attitude is becoming unbearable (not what i can list here)that most time we do have misunderstanding. Agreed that most marriages do have misunderstanding, but there are also some that are devoid of such incessant misunderstanding and are always peaceful and that's what i dream of.

In view of this I have called her severally and talked with her about such an attitude and stubbornness and the need to turn a new leaf, but all to no avail which keep on generating quarrel.This has lead to the point that anytime we had misunderstanding i will stay on my own, and same to her without playing or talking to her, everybody will stay on his or her own and i made up my mind not to have sex with her.

However, no thanks to my high sexual drive that hardly can few days passed that i will break the rule and come back to her and start touching demanding for sex from her. My body has a higher sexual urge, no matter how i control it and she too is so sexy that when i made up my mind not to touch her, after some days, the urge will be too much that even when i leave her in bedroom and went to sleep in another room, I will still come back and fall to her.The urge will be too much that atimes i will be having sleepless night moving up and down to control it, but none.

I intended choosing masturbating instead of making love with her, but on remembering the negative effects of masturbating, i got scared.

She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive, that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex, which once done, the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

For me, I don't like it as she doesn't feel remorseful anymore over her attitude.

Please what should i do, or should divorce be the solution?

you self must u quarrel wii her buh anyway next time no sleep house go sleep at your friends or hotel and put off phone next morning come home happy and smiling. thank me later

abike12:
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How?

goingape:
first of all!

you are a fool!

why wouldn't you find a side chicks!

if you had a fight with your wife, go out and fvck those idiots out there and forget about your danm wife for a week and see if she won't correct herself.

stop using your dicck anyhow like dog! be wise

alaye which kind advise is this?

Justdulla:
learn to establish matured conversations with her. stop thinking with your dick oga or women will make you suffer.

you are right good advise

dinachi:

Get a more sexy girlfriend

Said the 'Christian'

So in other words,you are a driver? Im baffled.

Who is knocking on my door?

Divorce for what? Divorce seems to be the only solution to marital issues these days. If u see her coming with her bag of arguments and trouble, avoid her. Stay happy! And pamper her more. Let go of ur ego. I'm glad atleast that you are not considering cheating. Shows that you respect your wife. Keep it up but work on avoiding troubles with her and she should do the same. If you are newly married, this is understandable because the first years are hard. Good luck

pocohantas:


As at Jan 12,2016...you were seeking advice from singles on how to flee from fornication.
https://www.nairaland.com/2859860/pls-helpi-need-advice-singles

Fast forward to Jan 25, 2016... you were seeking advice on your possessed wife, while claiming she was pregnant and lost the baby.
https://www.nairaland.com/2889343/message-given-severally-she-possessedbut

This is Jan 12, and you are here again.
Are you a troll or a blogger?

Chai see analysis oo. You try abeg. Just turned me online,please do not put me off

Ginaz:
That "mumu button" comment got me laughing.
Men eh, na dat "tin" go kill una one day.

Reminds me of my mum's friend that quarreled with her husband, she was so angry and said "if na fucck my husband want, I go give am o but solo no go get anything from me"

Her "tin" no sabi quarrel with solo "tin"

Upon all her gra gra, her husband still called her and she went, marriage is sweet o.

But o.p find a way to tackle that character of your wife cos sex is not the right road to solve issues between married couple. Just find a way before one day both of you will have a big argument no doggy style and bend down select style can solve.

Small gal, na who teach you all these things eh, you supposed to dey for Church every time, but you come here dey put mouth for dis kain matter, who spoil you like this

Nikkyfuck:
Who is knocking on my door?

easy madame, what happened as you finally opened the door.
Can you read me now or you are now busy?

zaza999:
My wife's attitude is becoming unbearable (not what i can list here)that most time we do have misunderstanding. Agreed that most marriages do have misunderstanding, but there are also some that are devoid of such incessant misunderstanding and are always peaceful and that's what i dream of.

In view of this I have called her severally and talked with her about such an attitude and stubbornness and the need to turn a new leaf, but all to no avail which keep on generating quarrel.This has lead to the point that anytime we had misunderstanding i will stay on my own, and same to her without playing or talking to her, everybody will stay on his or her own and i made up my mind not to have sex with her.

However, no thanks to my high sexual drive that hardly can few days passed that i will break the rule and come back to her and start touching demanding for sex from her. My body has a higher sexual urge, no matter how i control it and she too is so sexy that when i made up my mind not to touch her, after some days, the urge will be too much that even when i leave her in bedroom and went to sleep in another room, I will still come back and fall to her.The urge will be too much that atimes i will be having sleepless night moving up and down to control it, but none.

I intended choosing masturbating instead of making love with her, but on remembering the negative effects of masturbating, i got scared.

She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive, that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex, which once done, the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

For me, I don't like it as she doesn't feel remorseful anymore over her attitude.

Please what should i do, or should divorce be the solution?

i have an advice for you, but wont give cos it will turn you into a monster. That wld have been a rather apt advice to curtail her excesses. It's bad that the only you and your wife together is sex. Time will come when you can't have sex anymore due to age, what happens then? You must show her that it's not always about sex, but understanding. Your greatest mistake is making yourself too predictable to your wife.

mrphysics:

Chai see analysis oo. You try abeg. Just turned me online,please do not put me off

Lol. What's it like when you're turned on?

Oh my! Reading this dude's story was unbearable! Very awful sentence construction and grammar!!

PaperLace:
1)you have a high sex drive.
2)You know it.
3)Your wife knows it.
4)You know that your wife knows it.
5)Your wife knows that you know she knows it.
6)She is using it to you guys her advantage.
7)She doesn't turn you down when you come for it.
8 )You cure konji and become stable.
9) Misunderstanding is solved via makeup sex.
10)You should be happy you guys resolve your own in the other room, some people use blow and pestle
11)Everybody has mumu button, your wife has discovered yours_ I am sure you know hers.

Uncle, what else do you want?

lool this is Damn funny.

Oga if you are telling the truth and not twisting it to gain support for yourself then your wife is a sadist.

How you can even let sex drive make you beg her for forgiveness even when you are right is baffling to me. Next time she misbehaves and starts keeping malice just please for heavens sake masturbate_ I don't understand what you mean by masturbation is dangerous.
Use your common sense abeg. Don't let people walk all over you.

Again this applies if you know deep in your heart that you are telling the truth.

OP should just find a runs or service girl outside to satisfy his needs.

@op, ur problem is lack of selfdiscipline, learn this then see how the problem disappear, if you cant discipline yourself, you have no right to discipline anyone including your spouse of a perceived wrong.

zaza999:
My wife's attitude is becoming unbearable (not what i can list here)that most time we do have misunderstanding. Agreed that most marriages do have misunderstanding, but there are also some that are devoid of such incessant misunderstanding and are always peaceful and that's what i dream of.

In view of this I have called her severally and talked with her about such an attitude and stubbornness and the need to turn a new leaf, but all to no avail which keep on generating quarrel.This has lead to the point that anytime we had misunderstanding i will stay on my own, and same to her without playing or talking to her, everybody will stay on his or her own and i made up my mind not to have sex with her.

However, no thanks to my high sexual drive that hardly can few days passed that i will break the rule and come back to her and start touching demanding for sex from her. My body has a higher sexual urge, no matter how i control it and she too is so sexy that when i made up my mind not to touch her, after some days, the urge will be too much that even when i leave her in bedroom and went to sleep in another room, I will still come back and fall to her.The urge will be too much that atimes i will be having sleepless night moving up and down to control it, but none.

I intended choosing masturbating instead of making love with her, but on remembering the negative effects of masturbating, i got scared.

She is now using the advantage of my high sexual drive, that no matter how we quarrel and not talking to her,that it wont last long as she is very sure that i cant hold myself but MUST surely come to her for sex, which once done, the misunderstanding automatically resolves itself through the bed.

For me, I don't like it as she doesn't feel remorseful anymore over her attitude.

Please what should i do, or should divorce be the solution?

Although she is ur wife ooo but u still gat to work so hard on ur sexual urge or else ur judgment will be beclouded and inaccurate

thanks

I understand the OP very well. It's like this anytime his wife wrongs him he gets angry and keep to himself and the wife knowing he will come ask for sex will not apologize for what she has done and instead he will still be the one to apologize to her for her own wrong doing because he wants to satisfy his konji. This makes her repeat the same bad attitude over and over again.

OP I think the best you can do is try to get like 1 or 2 other side chicks but make sure they don't destroy your marriage, so anytime she does anything wrong you go outside and satisfy your high sex drive and just go home and sleep, try not to eat her food as well. After a week or two she will be the one to beg that way she can realize her wrongs.

So many bad advisers here. He should go and find a prostitute. OP, how many prostitutes are you going to run around with before you begin to hate yourself? Not to talk about the risk to your health that comes with sleeping with strange women. Talk to your wife. No woman outside will make you happy. Also, work on yourself and get control of your urges. If you do not have control over your sexual urges then you have a problem which you need to attend to. You can practice restraint or even masturbate if it will ease the tension. Don't cheat. Anyone that tells you to follow Olosho as a remedy to your problems should not be your friend ever again. Beware of bad friends and advisers who only look to destroy an otherwise happy home. Your wife does not deny you sex, that's a big deal. Most women out there would not entertain the urge of a man like you. From what you wrote you must be compatible sexually with her. Don't go and put yourself in a worse fire outside. Be content and work on your problems.

Her food

pocohantas:

Lol. What's it like when you're turned on?

Check your mail, i just sent you a mail.

To your question,
it's like taken a hungry cow to the field and deny it from eating the grass thereof

This attitude thing you complain of is a one sided thing cos we haven't heard from your wife.
It's not impossible for complainants to be found guilty after thorough investigations.
Finally, matrimonial differences are often settled with love making.
It works like MAGIC.

This attitude thing you complain of is a one sided thing cos we haven't heard from your wife.
It's not impossible for complainants to be found guilty after thorough investigations.
Finally, matrimonial differences are often settled with love making.
It works like MAGIC.

Ginaz:
That "mumu button" comment got me laughing.
Men eh, na dat "tin" go kill una one day.

Reminds me of my mum's friend that quarreled with her husband, she was so angry and said "if na fucck my husband want, I go give am o but solo no go get anything from me"

Her "tin" no sabi quarrel with solo "tin"

Upon all her gra gra, her husband still called her and she went, marriage is sweet o.

But o.p find a way to tackle that character of your wife cos sex is not the right road to solve issues between married couple. Just find a way before one day both of you will have a big argument no doggy style and bend down select style can solve.

Op, am 10 years plus in marriage, I have not seeing any problem sex can not resolve..., it can settle all problem in marriage, the problem only become deep and unresolvable when a man lost the appetite to make love with his wife.

Am not sure the man in this situation knows he needs to give thanks to God for having a woman that can tempt u out a broken home /heart.... Huuummm, enjoy ur life, enjoy her thing, enjoy your marriage... It's sweet and that is part of what we call marriage, keep learning until both of you grow old till death do you part, Op u are on the right path.

Pls learb to use ur mind at times... Its gonna matter in critical decision making... Dont let sex belittle u in marriage... But its also a tool for settlement, but not at all times... When a woman is wrong, shes wrong... Learn to be dominant