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Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Why do men cheat? This is why.
There's nothing more effective at keeping a man
from cheating than a good relationship. The simple
element of guilt, if he so much as contemplates
infidelity, is more powerful than the fear of a
breakup, ostracism by friends and family, or
contracting an incurable disease.
Still, there is no surefire way to keep him from ever
having a moment of weakness or a severe case of
dumbass syndrome. So, let's begin by looking at
the reasons men cheat and then try to find some
possible solutions.
1. They are no longer checked into the
relationship.
The main reason why men cheat is that they have
psychologically checked out of the relationship, or
at least the sexual aspect of it. They may have lost
interest altogether, or simply become bored with
the repetitive sex. It's his fault as much as yours
that the thrill has diminished, the variety is non-
existent and things have fallen into a rut. He's
bored and his libido demands more.
2. An opportunity arose — and he took it.
It may be a co-worker, an old classmate who found
him on Facebook, or a chance meeting with a
stranger at happy hour with the guys. The thrill of
something new makes him feel like a desirable man
again. Maybe he gets lost in the moment and goes
along with it "Once, for old time's sake." Perhaps a
few cocktails have tied and gagged his moral
compass, so he screws up.
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3. He's suffering from some sort of emotional
turmoil.
Men may also cheat when they find themselves
suffering from emotional chaos, perhaps brought
on by a bitter argument with a girlfriend. Men often
deal with turmoil through destructive means like
drinking, drugs, violent behavior and forbidden sex.
They will resort to anything to make the pain go
away, and sex does a pretty good job of that.
The key to keeping your man from cheating lies in
preempting these conditions and situations.
1. Keep things interesting.
If you are feeling a little bored with your sexual
routine (even if you blame him), then he is most
likely bored as well. Change things up. Be the one
to initiate sex more often, and then take charge of
the performance. There are many things you can
do, short of bringing in a second woman, that will
blow his mind. Try some of the things he used to
love when you were first dating.
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2. Never let him forget you exist.
You don’t want to smother your man or seem
clingy, but he is your man. If he's at the office late
or out with the guys, you can text him a quick "I
love you," "I miss you" or "I have a special surprise
for you when you get home!"
Just don't ask him where he is or when he'll be
home. You've still reminded him he has a woman at
home who loves him and is thinking about him. Use
your love to force guilty thoughts out of his mind.
3. Let him know the consequences.
Early in the relationship, you can let him know in a
lighthearted way (but with a deadly serious
undertone) that you will not tolerate a cheater. Tell
him straight out when he's basking in the afterglow
of your affection. He will remember that and think
about it before he cheats. It may not stop him, but
if you are still worth coming home to for him, it just
might.
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4. Do things with him, and for him.
Some men live for their girlfriends, and some men
just put up with them. Be the kind of girl men live
for. It won't make you "unliberated." In fact, it will
probably make him your willing cabana boy, doing
everything he can to please you.
Cook meals he enjoys, watch the football game
with him, give him space and silence when he
wants to read the paper or watch the news, and
give him plenty of brief touches and smooches so
he never loses that connection to you.
5. Don't nag.
And above all, don't nag him or argue in a
destructive way. Remember, you are his support
system, so when you beat him up that can throw
him into emotional turmoil with nowhere to turn.
He doesn't have all of the options you do — tears,
girlfriends, mom or leftover pizza. The open, tender
arms of another woman might just soothe his soul.
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There are no magic bullets or guarantees to
keeping him faithful. Just be the best part of his
life, and chances are he'll be the best part of yours.just being Exclusive. |
Re: Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Paragraphs and bullet points needed. If it's a copy and paste job then reference it. I can't read this. |
Re: Exclusively Bae by obiorathesubtle: 9:49am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Yeah.. type all you want.. females don't care.. |
Re: Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 9:57am On Jan 15, 2017 |
AngelSweetLips:it word's is transmitted to those who are willingly gladly accepting it,you can give your dud a text |
Re: Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Martin124: Go back to school. |
Re: Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 10:04am On Jan 15, 2017 |
AngelSweetLips:eee nor be the school I dey so, |
Re: Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 10:06am On Jan 15, 2017 |
Martin124:to talk with u good ooO,so 4 ya mind na,u dey use me take dey learn how to blast,4get I nor be celebrity |
Re: Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
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Re: Exclusively Bae by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
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