Nairalanders help,

Ever since my last broken relationship with my ex within the duration of 4 years I know better than to fall in love but as it turns out I couldn't help it with this lady I met.

I met this girl early last year, everything about her is what my heart desires. We talk, we're close, I visit, we go out.. . Getting to 2 good years now
I've engaged her for a relationship but she says no.

She says she doesn't love me; we fight, we separate for weeks, months after giving time and space then we come back again. I try to avoid her but she acts like she loves me, she calls, she texts, she messages.

I love the girl too much but
She says she wants me in her life as a friend and I don't know if I can take it. It's driving me crazy.

I don't want to be a friendzoned loser but my emotions for her are too much.

What should I do? How do I put her in a pocket universe and forget she exists?

She is giving me high bp. Please help.

the next 15 to to 20 years, you'd be a grumpy old man with no progeny.

It's easy, get someone else

cloudyskygrind:
the next 15 to to 20 years, you'd be a grumpy old man with no progeny.

It's easy, get someone else

cloudyskygrind:
the next 15 to to 20 years, you'd be a grumpy old man with no progeny.

It's easy, get someone else

It's easy for me to get soneone else bro but it's not easy to get someone else whom my heat loves.

I don't know if you understand that cos I don't even understand it myself

superemmy:


It's easy for me to get soneone else bro but it's not easy to get someone else whom my heat loves.

I don't know if you understand that cos I don't even understand it myself

GO GET A LIFE SON

OKUCHI11:
GO GET A LIFE SON

If you didn't have anything better to say must you exhibit your stupidity on public media.

Please take your depression to another thread.

Try to avoid her at all costs.

Some girls love playing hard to get or she might not simply not love you. You cannot force her.

Friendzone is not that bad sha

My brother you should not waste your time on her, I'm sure you will find someone better and you will fall in love again

I am in a similar situation with you bro, the girl gave me a lot of hope through her numerous text, calls and chats but doesn't want us to be together, however, I have learn to move on. Don't ever think the girl will love you, don't put much hope in her because of the way you think she cares for you, just move on, when the time comes, you will find the right person. They said marriages are made in heaven, I personally believe that if she is meant to be with you, the forces of universe will find a way of bringing you two together, in the mean time, for the sake of your happiness, I advise you bro... move on

superemmy:


If you didn't have anything better to say must you exhibit your stupidity on public media.

Please take your depression to another thread.

ha ha ha u are calling me depressed and u are calling my candid advice stupid... when an ordinary girl is giving u high bp __ is that not a corroborating evidence of your gender and sexual orientation socialization deficit...ordinary relationship matter u are bringing it online what will u be doing when u are married... Guy u are truely depressed nothing is giving u joy take it or leave it... but don't forget next time u go shopping and u happen to see anything called LIFE ..... BUY IT

OKUCHI11:
ha ha ha u are calling me depressed and u are calling my candid advice stupid... when an ordinary girl is giving u high bp __ is that not a corroborating evidence of your gender and sexual orientation socialization deficit...ordinary relationship matter u are bringing it online what will u be doing when u are married... Guy u are truely depressed nothing is giving u joy take it or leave it... but don't forget next time u go shopping and u happen to see anything called LIFE ..... BUY IT

Bro, dat feeling or wat so ever u have for her was created by u in ur head n transported into ur heart by dat same u, so alone can kill it urself

maturity is the ability to respect other people's wish... if u know u can't take it, discuss it with her and come to an agreement. Not every relationship must end up in marriage.

congratulations bro!you are just about to b friendzoned :Dcongratulations once again

There is no such thing as love,only form of true love is God's love and mother's love